Do men really normally have lots of opportunities to compare erections?

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  1. AlteredEgo

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    Posts in other threads frequently make me wonder how common it is for heterosexual men to have a chance at one point in their lives or another to compare their erections with many other men. For the purposes of this discussion, porn doesn't count. Neither does a sexual encounter.

    Heterosexual, male members of LPSG only, have you seen a lot of erections in person? How many opportunities have you had to check out and compare with other erect men?

    LPSG male members in the queer spectrum: Not counting sexual encounters, have you had a lot of opportunities to compare erections?
     
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    Just as many opportunities as ladies have to compare breast-size. :wink: Men like to think that's what you all do when we're not around. It's "Tops off, ladies! And get in a circle so we can all see you!" :tongue:

    There are very few opportunities - that's why there are always '100% straight' guys asking to skype/cam with other guys.....

    It's the fragile male ego. We're actually delicate little things - we always have to prove ourselves to other men.....
     
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    We do it to crown the king..lol

    Really thought just out of pure curiousness we do it. Like looking at a your "car" and their "car" who has the best Rims lol
     
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    Really, because breasts are highly visible, and it is relatively easy to spot fakes and Miracle Bras, breast comparison can be done at any time, with or without consent. But I do see what you mean. I figured since my experience as a girl and woman was that lots of females are very private about nudity and don't want to spend a lot of time hanging out naked, let alone specifically comparing parts as a social activity (though it is done silently often enough) that males wouldn't be too different. Still, I wouldn't know, so I'm asking. Thanks for your response.
     
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    I'm not curious about why it would be done. The "why" seems obvious to me. My question is, do you have many opportunities to compare erections, or do you have few or even no opportunities to compare erections.
     
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    Just read yo post in the other thread. Well I guess that could be a case. Still I have to cousins whos about the same in thickness but are 1.5+ longer then me. And a good friend who cock is about the same me. Depends of who you compare with. Even Now at the age of 19 me and my cousins like to compare to see how we grown. Lol the bastards still has me by an inch.
     
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    Please don't take this the wrong way but..."we" don't...you do.
     
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    OH ok. I see what you saying. Well depends on who you ask. I think it just comes up when talking about the subject of "Sex" and guys start to say how big they are and then the subject of comparing comes up. Thats was how me and my friend first showed each other our cocks
     
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    I'm in team locker rooms all the time and we do pretty "gay" things by normal social standards, but getting erections and comparing them is off the charts gay in our books. And that says a lot.
     
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    Well as I said family or close friends. Hell LPSG is a site where we compare..just saying. and the king thing was a joke stretch lol. I dont thibk anyone goes around just asking random guys to say "hey lets look at each other dicks"
     
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    Hey AE. The general answer is...no, most hetero men do not see another live erection. There are exceptions of course, the occasional threesome, orgy or accidental stumble upon. I'm sure there are thousands who have but the number pales in comparison to the majority. I have no scientific evidence to back this up, so don't quote me on a test.

    I do think that men seeing another mans erection as opposed to a woman seeing another woman's breasts is hardly a comparative argument and one that needn't be expounded upon for obvious reasons. Although I'm sure there are some here who will find some reason to debate it.
     
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    Thanks for responding.

    His team members are not random people. Team mates become very close by virtue of having commons goals and a common struggle. LPSG doesn't count. Photographs may be doctored, stolen, or misleading due to lighting, hand position, and angles. I'm talking about in person. Porn doesn't count.
     
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    Lol. You got me there stretch. Well Yes ego i had a few chances. As for anyone else not sure.
     
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    Just doesn't happen. I've never seen another guy erect. Why would I? I frequent naturist beaches and I've used communal showers at public pools and shared changing rooms in the workplace, but it's never happened. Not a topic of conversation either.
     
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    Pretty much never. Unless you walked in on someone who was jacking off or something, you just wouldn't see it. Guys spend the vast majority of their time flaccid, so unless it's a sexual encounter, it just rarely happens. I'm convinced it's the major reason that a lot of guys have a warped impression of how big other guys are.
     
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    No never. Unless you are invited to an orgy.
     
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    I'm with the guys who say no. It's a hot idea, and I would sure love to compare with some of my friends. But even the closest straight friends don't take out their hard cocks and compare sizes together. Sorry, it doesn't happen. A lot of the claims to the contrary are fantasy, others have an element of bisexuality behind it. Maybe a miniscule fraction of one percent of drunk college buddies or adolescent brothers have actually done this. Big maybe. Now, do we look at each other's flaccid penises in locker rooms and stuff, to find out if we're bigger than our friend? Yeah. Kramer "snuck a peek," didn't he? But that's the extent of it.
     
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    Not that I know of.

    I have no desire to compare with other dudes. I've never heard one of my friends talk about it either.
     
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    This was my suspicion, but of course, I'm in no position to know. I know I saw lots of rections when I was going to sex clubs with some friends, but the men's eyes didn't seem to be on other men's privates ,except if watching actual sex acts. And then, you'd only see part of the shaft. The men seemed to be watching the women most of the time. Lots of men were flaccid.

    Agreed.

    Thanks for being so open to sharing.

    Yeah, I haven't seen any erections at naturist beaches, even though I sometimes think I see couples having sex out in the ocean, and there is this one dude that follows me around when he sees me, and I think he's jerking off but I can't tell. I have seen penises that were inverted like belly buttons, and balls that hung bizarrely close to the man's knees, but I have never seen an erection at the beach.

    Me too.

    Thanks for your input.

    Oh, I have no doubt that TONS of flaccid comparisons happen.

    Thanks for chiming in.
     
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    As men it's rare. Most comparisons that directly take place younger. Active comparison is something that I've seen and done and imagine is most common under the age if fifteen. As an adult I've seen erections because of watching sexual situations of others in college being in a fraternity and while everyone is more comfortable with each other there still isn't active comparing.
     
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