Do men really normally have lots of opportunities to compare erections?

[Oxnard]

Interesting. Does this mean that, for you, unwanted boners are the result of sexual frustration?

Sometimes. Other times I honestly have no clue what caused them.

 

[AlteredEgo]

As I understand the nature of the OP’s question “comparing” does not involve sexual activity. Comparing does not even require that you have an erection. As I read it, the question ask how many hard dicks have you seen and how did they compare to your own erection.

And yes, if you are over 40 and haven’t been exposed to a number of different erections, I do question your socialization with other males.

Comparing erections requires erections.

 

[Oxnard]

As I understand the nature of the OP’s question “comparing” does not involve sexual activity. Comparing does not even require that you have an erection. As I read it, the question ask how many hard dicks have you seen and how did they compare to your own erection.

And yes, if you are over 40 and haven’t been exposed to a number of different erections, I do question your socialization with other males.

I have never seen an erect penis in person (unless you count the odd embarrassment in a locker room in which case I look away quickly and don't try to compare), nor have I any desire to, and you implied that this is evidence that something is wrong with me socially.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I have never seen an erect penis in person (unless you count the odd embarrassment in a locker room in which case I look away quickly and don't try to compare), nor have I any desire to, and you implied that this is evidence that something is wrong with me socially.

Don't you know? You're supposed to disregard the fact that what is happening may be considered personal, private, or uncomfortable.

 

[622675]

I have never seen an erect penis in person (unless you count the odd embarrassment in a locker room in which case I look away quickly and don't try to compare), nor have I any desire to, and you implied that this is evidence that something is wrong with me socially.

Just saying that in the normal course of living and associating with other guys especially at a younger age, you should have had a number of erections views. These may have been a number of rude views from your perspective. But rude or pleasant, you would have used what you saw to self-compare. It is just the natural thing to do.

I am not saying it is your fault. Just that perhaps you have been underexposed until now that LPSG has captured your keyboard. :} :}

 

[Oxnard]

Just saying that in the normal course of living and associating with other guys especially at a younger age, you should have had a number of erections views. These may have been a number of rude views from your perspective. But rude or pleasant, you would have used what you saw to self-compare. It is just the natural thing to do.

I am not saying it is your fault. Just that perhaps you have been underexposed until now that LPSG has captured your keyboard. :} :}

Again, other than someone getting hard in a locker room environment (or something similar like a Japanese public bath, and I've been to plenty of those), never, and I always look away quickly if that happens because it is embarrassing for both me and the other person.

Outside of that, I go out of my way to avoid there possibility of seeing an erections because I don't want to be embarrassed nor embarrass someone else.

Because I was in a lot of Japanese public baths as a child, I have probably seen a lot more penises than most American heterosexuals, but hard ones? Not really.

 

[cadehung]

Comparing erections requires erections.

Comparing erections does not require erections in the presence of the other cock at the time of comparison. LPSG members compare erections all the time, almost always without the the other cock being present. I can think of one recent exception however involving me and Patroklos68. There are pics if anyone cares to take a look.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Comparing erections does not require erections in the presence of the other cock at the time of comparison. LPSG members compare erections all the time, almost always without the the other cock being present. I can think of one recent exception however involving me and Patroklos68. There are pics if anyone cares to take a look.

As per the OP, posted by ME, pictures do NOT count. Forced perspective, special lenses photoshop... need I go on?

 

[Oxnard]

I don't see why penis size even matters that much. As long as a woman wants to have sex with you again, isn't that the only sexual compliment that really matters?

Every other sexual compliment can be a white lie, but she can't fake that. Either you have sex again or you don't.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I don't see why penis size even matters that much. As long as a woman wants to have sex with you again, isn't that the only sexual compliment that really matters?

Every other sexual compliment can be a white lie, but she can't fake that. Either you have sex again or you don't.

Mattering or not is not really the point of this thread. The only point of this thread is to find out how common an experience it is to see other men's erections.

 

[dlfellow]

Posts in other threads frequently make me wonder how common it is for heterosexual men to have a chance at one point in their lives or another to compare their erections with many other men. For the purposes of this discussion, porn doesn't count. Neither does a sexual encounter.

Heterosexual, male members of LPSG only, have you seen a lot of erections in person? How many opportunities have you had to check out and compare with other erect men?

LPSG male members in the queer spectrum: Not counting sexual encounters, have you had a lot of opportunities to compare erections?

just twice.
last summer my wife and i caught my great uncle jerking off when we stayed at his house.
we thought he was having a stroke but he was up late jerking off to porno.
we were up on the second floor.
he didn't see us.we just went back to the spare room we were sleeping in and were shocked,confused,and giggling.
to see a 5ft.5 160 pound naked bow legged black man in his late 60's
keegle flexing his dick was crazy.
we never told him,and we never sad anything to any of my family members.
my younger arrogant cousin always brags about his dick and all the women he sleeps with.
he does stupid frat boy comedy movie dick flashing trick around his friends at parties...yeah it's stupid..but it's a hit with his party crowd.and surprisingly he almost get laid or a blow job(s) after he does this.
both my cousin and my great uncle are bigger than me.
my great uncle is just purely massive.

 

[AlteredEgo]

we thought he was having a stroke but he was up late jerking off to porno.

Hahahahahaahahaha!

 

[Tekken4493]

Form my experience, yes. Lot's of opportunities, yet many do not act on it.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Form my experience, yes. Lot's of opportunities, yet many do not act on it.

What kind of opportunities?

 

[Tekken4493]

Meaning guys do have opportunities throughout life to get naked, see friends, etc. I can think of a dozen times in HS and college where I chickened out. Just my .02

 

[dlfellow]

Hahahahahaahahaha!

for real!!
he sounded like a cross between a sheep and James Brown...with this wierd breathing thing he does.
my wife and i were initially really scared at first,then we realized what was going on.
the whole scene had us stunned!
that was the first night we were there.
all i see when ever I'm around him now is his giant erection.
and my wife and i imitate his sounds to one another as an inside joke.

 

[hckyfan03]

Not normal.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Meaning guys do have opportunities throughout life to get naked, see friends, etc. I can think of a dozen times in HS and college where I chickened out. Just my .02

Erect? What is the reason for the erections in these missed opportunities?

 

[Oxnard]

Mattering or not is not really the point of this thread. The only point of this thread is to find out how common an experience it is to see other men's erections.

Sorry for going off track. I was commenting on the size obsession thing.

It seems that most hetero guys who do look are doing so out of a desire to compare.

 

[NIMBUS]

It seems that most hetero guys who do look are doing so out of a desire to compare.

I think that it's more a desire to compete than compare.