Do men really normally have lots of opportunities to compare erections?

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Posts in other threads frequently make me wonder how common it is for heterosexual men to have a chance at one point in their lives or another to compare their erections with many other men. For the purposes of this discussion, porn doesn't count. Neither does a sexual encounter.

Heterosexual, male members of LPSG only, have you seen a lot of erections in person? How many opportunities have you had to check out and compare with other erect men?

LPSG male members in the queer spectrum: Not counting sexual encounters, have you had a lot of opportunities to compare erections?

During my bi phase I saw a few, obviously. And had opportunities to compare.

Otherwise - none whatsoever.
 

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I have seen a total of 1 (one) erection--in person--that wasn't my own. After graduating high school, a friend of mine (and two women in whom we were interested) were playing strip poker when eventually the poker part went away and we all just decided to strip. My friend and I didn't "compare" and there wasn't any sort of overt or even subconcious comparisons being made.

I don't "sneak peeks" at the urinal and I don't make it a point to eyeball another's johnson in the locker room so my opportunities to compare are minimal, if the even exist at all.

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I believe it is fairly common among teenage boys to compare the sizes of their erections. And they don't equate it with anything "queer", either. They are merely being supportive of each other in their quests to become the kind of studs that girls will want to fuck with.

I have friends today, with whom I compared cock sizes when we were younger, and it has not affected our friendship negatively to any degree.
 
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Lots of soft comparisons via lockerrooms, changing rooms, etc. (albeit not direct, just a quick visual comparison).

Not very many erect comparisons outside of a mutual sexual encounter (i.e. a threesome, but again not direct).

Although lately I've seen lots of "semi-erect" comparisons going on in the lockerroom of the gym that I work out at (and those guys would like everyone to think they are 'completely soft' I'm sure... lol :tongue:).
 

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No. Heterosexual men generally do not have many opportunities to compare the size of their erections with other men's erections. Gay men might, but there is the chance that gay men are as monogamous as any straight men, and there may or may not be as many opportunities as you might think. Most of the gay men I know are not necessarily promiscuous, so I will go with that.
I am assuming that this is partly why this forum exists. It is a place to satisfy a natural curiosity without exposing oneself to the rosk of being there in person.
 

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About as often as women gather to compare how tight or cavernous their vaginas are

:rofl: Very nicely put.

For the OP, I've never been in a situation to compare erect sizes with other guys, nor do I wish to compare with other guys.
 

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Contrary to others, I have seen other men erect or semi erect in non-sexual situations. Never have I compared with another man. Primarily, it is in situations like seeing a guy with morning wood when sharing a room or living situation. This was mainly when I was a college student. It is a brief encounter (no pun) and one in which both of us just didn't acknowledge it at all. Also have seen some guys erect changing at the gym. Some men do get erect right after working out. No, they didn't parade around with it but simply were semi or fully erect for a moment after exercise. Again, there were no comments or comparing. Just acceptance of being a man...and men occasionally get erections. This has not been often but it has occurred.
 

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I don't think just seeing another man's erection would count as a comparison. There's not much way of knowing his dimensions, and thus being able to compare to your own, just from seeing a guy's dick on the other side of the dorm room. Maybe you could tell he's particularly big or small, but I wouldn't call it a comparison unless both guys had their cocks out together to see how they measured up to one another.
 

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Never. It really doesn't happen with hetro men. It might be quite interesting if you lived in a world that you could tap a guy on the shoulder go to somewhere private, get hard and if you win ( being the biggest that is ) it's a point to you. You could have world score boards online, Most cock comparison victories. ;)
 

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Never. It really doesn't happen with hetro men. It might be quite interesting if you lived in a world that you could tap a guy on the shoulder go to somewhere private, get hard and if you win ( being the biggest that is ) it's a point to you. You could have world score boards online, Most cock comparison victories. ;)
LOL
 

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Lots of soft comparisons via lockerrooms, changing rooms, etc. (albeit not direct, just a quick visual comparison).

Not very many erect comparisons outside of a mutual sexual encounter (i.e. a threesome, but again not direct).

Although lately I've seen lots of "semi-erect" comparisons going on in the lockerroom of the gym that I work out at (and those guys would like everyone to think they are 'completely soft' I'm sure... lol :tongue:).

what!?:eek:

Do you mean the guys are initiating comparisons and being overt about it "Let's compare cocks dude" or do you mean that as you're changing you're eyeballing the other guy to see how you measure up? Because I don't know what guys are going to stand around a locker room with semi's anyway. This is really interesting to me because there are a lot of locker room threads in which guys claim all kinds of homoerotic activity goes on and many others who say "bullshit! you work out, you go home"
I would love to know what really goes on in the locker room!
 
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About as often as women gather to compare how tight or cavernous their vaginas are

"The Mystery of the Cavernous Vagina"... sounds like a Nancy Drew story.

Seriously, I live a pretty straight life and I have never compared my steely dinkus with anybody outside of a sexual encounter. I've seen one hard pecker in my life, and that was my cousins who was asleep on a couch. He was wearing boxers and his Italian joygun was standing proud. I made a mental note of it and put a blanket over him to keep him from being embarrassed.

And one buddy's seen me hard. We were sharing a room in Vegas and I woke up with wood. I sleep naked and needed to piss, so there you go. I was hoping he'd take a walk on the wild side, but after expressing a very quick acknowledgement of how big it was, he rolled over and went back to sleep.
 
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