Do men really normally have lots of opportunities to compare erections?

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what!?:eek:

Do you mean the guys are initiating comparisons and being overt about it "Let's compare cocks dude" or do you mean that as you're changing you're eyeballing the other guy to see how you measure up? Because I don't know what guys are going to stand around a locker room with semi's anyway. This is really interesting to me because there are a lot of locker room threads in which guys claim all kinds of homoerotic activity goes on and many others who say "bullshit! you work out, you go home"
I would love to know what really goes on in the locker room!

No, it's not overt... like the hypothetical example you gave. That's what I meant when I said not a direct comparison, but a quick visual comparison. Most guys in locker rooms will look quickly, but they won't stop and stare kind of thing.

I have noticed quite a few guys with semi's though (not huge semis, but still not fully flaccid nonetheless) trying to show off or get attention... and I wouldn't even say it's in a 'gay' way. It works to a guy's advantage if he has a downward curve or points down when erect for that kind of 'semi showing off' though. Myself, I have an upcurve so the different between soft/semi/hard is pretty obvious. :tongue:
 
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SeASIDE- some guys will go right home- no shower. Other guys will shower with no eye contact or lingering. Other guys will sit in the sauna or steam after their workout to let their muscles be relaxed in the steam. Some of those guys are, for lack of a better term, sexually charged- or beyond homo/hetero--- in that they enjoy the naked male bonding and will take it to another level. SO yeah stuff DOES happen.

As another dude told me, just watch the eye contact that is occuring around you...
 

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Since that time, I've not compared with any guys outside of sexual encounters, with the notable exception of c2c - do those count as sexual encounters though?

I think it would be hot to compare with other str8 guys - at the gym, say - but does the fact I think it would be 'hot' actually make it a sexual encounter?

Quite a lot of grey area here, I would say.
 
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very rare........

the ones i have seen....once in the army i walked in on a roommate who was jacking off....and as luck would have it i caught him at the point of no return....he was jumped up and tryed to cover up....saying sorry....just as hes grabbing for his shorts on the side of the bed.....hes starts to shoot off. my girlfriend is standing next to me...giggling and screaming we start to walk out and he follows us into the hall......buck naked ...no one else is there...and hes trying to pull us back into the room...and apolagising....not sexual but embarrased....when we get in the room he begs us not to tell anyone.....that was his biggest concern.

another time was at a strip poker sestion......but 4guys and 5girls...only two guys got hard....me and my brother....even though the guys kept tugging on them and the girls did a bit of tugging too.....they wanted to see who was big and who wasnt........i found this at group sex things too...its amazing howmany guys dont get hard.....me its up in a flash.


another time was when i was at a bar 5 guys and a girl from work...after a bunch of guys started to brag.....she says ok guys whip them out....the guy with the smallest has to buy the first round.....and then the second smallest buys the second round....the biggest drinks for free.....she bought the first round "she said she dont have anything"......so lets just say 5 drinks latter we were all pretty drunk.

also saw alot of boners in medical field......about 1/5 guys catch a bone durng prostate exam or manual stim......also in urology rotation when we were getting ready for implant surgery we had to give a shot of caverjet to dick ....this makes it rock hard...so we can gauge size of implant
 

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In person outside of a sexual situation? Once.

Why do you want to know?
 
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Since that time, I've not compared with any guys outside of sexual encounters, with the notable exception of c2c - do those count as sexual encounters though?

I think it would be hot to compare with other str8 guys - at the gym, say - but does the fact I think it would be 'hot' actually make it a sexual encounter?

Quite a lot of grey area here, I would say.
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Yeah, I haven't seen any erections at naturist beaches, even though I sometimes think I see couples having sex out in the ocean, and there is this one dude that follows me around when he sees me, and I think he's jerking off but I can't tell. I have seen penises that were inverted like belly buttons, and balls that hung bizarrely close to the man's knees, but I have never seen an erection at the beach.

Actually, the gay section of Haulover Beach always seems to have a few Viagra hardons bouncing around. Personally I find them pretty pathetic cries for attention.

Aside from that, a non-sexual erection sighting is extremely rare, even more so after one's early 20s. Adulthood changes things so that these opportunities just don't occur under most circumstances.
 

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how common is it for heterosexual men to have a chance at one point in their lives or another to compare their erections with many other men.

have you seen a lot of erections in person? How many opportunities have you had to check out and compare with other erect men?

During my military basic training my housing unit had about 150 men, and on my floor probably 40 or 50 men showered together each morning in a gang shower. There were always quite a few men with erections...just normal morning wood, or they simply got aroused, or they were exhibitionists. There were a few well-hung guys showing their goods. So that was a situation where men could observe how their erection compared with a lot of others.

Personally I don't believe many men have many opportunities to compare their erect penis with many other men.
 
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During my military basic training my housing unit had about 150 men, and on my floor probably 40 or 50 men showered together each morning in a gang shower. There were always quite a few men with erections...just normal morning wood, or they simply got aroused, or they were exhibitionists. There were a few well-hung guys showing their goods. So that was a situation where men could observe how their erection compared with a lot of others.

Personally I don't believe many men have many opportunities to compare their erect penis with many other men.
That's pretty cool and unusual.
 

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Actually, the gay section of Haulover Beach always seems to have a few Viagra hardons bouncing around. Personally I find them pretty pathetic cries for attention.

Aside from that, a non-sexual erection sighting is extremely rare, even more so after one's early 20s. Adulthood changes things so that these opportunities just don't occur under most circumstances.
You know what I notice at Haulover? I notice when guys penises are turtled in on themselves, and I notice really long, saggy ball-sacks. I know those are rare configurations, but that's what stands out significantly enough in my periphery to make me look outright. I also tend to swim more if I sit in the gay section, and read more if I sit with the families or swingers. (I will sit wherever it is least crowded upon my arrival.)
 

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i am so kinda bummed out.

always pictured something like those sliding shoe measure thingies, only for peens.
and dudes would kinda have individual heats. each winner progressing up to the semi-finals *teehee i said semi* until the moment when the last two men and two peens stand ready to compete.
:sigh:

i guess there ain't a victory lap on bro shoulders either. :frown:
or butt slapping congratulations.


*will being pouting for the next 23 mins*
 
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You know what I notice at Haulover? I notice when guys penises are turtled in on themselves, and I notice really long, saggy ball-sacks. I know those are rare configurations, but that's what stands out significantly enough in my periphery to make me look outright. I also tend to swim more if I sit in the gay section, and read more if I sit with the families or swingers. (I will sit wherever it is least crowded upon my arrival.)

I've only ever been to the gay section :redface:

Saggy ball sacs are a clear indication that gravity takes its toll on long-hangers, especially in the heat. Mine don't reach my knees yet, but give 'em a few more years :wink:

My last long-term relationship was with a guy who eventually gained massive amounts of weight (over 400 lbs when we broke up), and his dick would turtle into his huge nuts, practically disappearing. That's actually what he called it: his "frightened turtle" :biggrin1:
 
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ok lets be real. guys don't just casually swordfight, typically.
but if it happens it happens.
most people put way too much importance on dick and erect dick.
that's not gay, it's pathetic.
just my opinion.
 

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I've never seen any erections and not even seen that many flaccid penises, considering I have been in many locker rooms etc.

In the UK people generally cover up and avoid exposing themselves.

What is very common though is guys verbally comparing ie "I've got nine and a half inches" or "I'm huge", etc. Seemingly everyone is well endowed.
 
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