Do men really normally have lots of opportunities to compare erections?

[AlteredEgo]

Did when I was younger, and singler . . .

Sexual situations don't count.

lies

If you're talking about StraightDave10, I think your sense of humor might be broken. Huge difference between a lie and a joke.

 

[Hatt_101]

no never but at the same time im not, and was never interested in comparing so its not like went looking for opportunities

 

[328982]

Posts in other threads frequently make me wonder how common it is for heterosexual men to have a chance at one point in their lives or another to compare their erections with many other men. For the purposes of this discussion, porn doesn't count. Neither does a sexual encounter.

Heterosexual, male members of LPSG only, have you seen a lot of erections in person? How many opportunities have you had to check out and compare with other erect men?

LPSG male members in the queer spectrum: Not counting sexual encounters, have you had a lot of opportunities to compare erections?

Not really, outside of sex and porn. Very occasionally in the locker room someone might get a semi stiffy, but I've never compared erections with friends or strangers. A straight friend and I do sometimes like to 'scare the horses' in the pool showers but that's just a bit of fun.

 

[43698]

Posts in other threads frequently make me wonder how common it is for heterosexual men to have a chance at one point in their lives or another to compare their erections with many other men. For the purposes of this discussion, porn doesn't count. Neither does a sexual encounter.

Heterosexual, male members of LPSG only, have you seen a lot of erections in person? How many opportunities have you had to check out and compare with other erect men?

LPSG male members in the queer spectrum: Not counting sexual encounters, have you had a lot of opportunities to compare erections?

I am a straight male. By definition that means that I only have sexual relations with women. Sexual relations including any and all pre coital, coital, and post coital activities. So the chance for me to see another man during arrousal is not too large. In fact I have seen another male with an erection 2 times in my life. When I am doing things with my friends seeing their penises erect is just not on my mind. I don't care and they don't either. It does seem that some people that post here are very fascinated with seeing other guys erect.

1) During highschool a friend of mine was having sex with a girl and her parents came home. I was sitting in the living room talking to her sister. My buddy comes running down the hall way clothes in hand screaming we had to go. He had an erection at the time that he tried to hide.

2) Saw a guy injured after a motorcycle wreck on the side of the road that was being helped by some paramedics. He went in to convulsions and his pants had been cut off of him. In the midst of them trying to contain him I helped them hold him still. He had somewhat of an erection/ a really small penis.

Other than that no, I have not seen anyone else erect in real life. I have seen lots of men naked due to my life as a soldier and competetive athlete. I have not spent any time staring at or evaluating other guy's penises. In fact I cannot recall ever seeing anything remarkable.

 

[ronin001]

You know, I thought about the suggestion and rolled it around in my head. Someone who lives at a campsite like Julie in Naples or MrEdinMass would have to host. My privacy fence is 6' tall, but some of the neighbors have trampolines, and I've cultivated a reputation for being just a little more like my super-conservative, Christian neighbors than like the woman who throws wild nekkid shindigs out back. Then, there's also the problem of too many strangers knowing my precise location, and finding out that my pit bull is no kind of guard dog unless criminals fear doggy snuggles, and my puggle is all bark. Although, there is a little forest nearby, and no one really ever strays from the path...

I see you have given this some serious thought, All we need to do now if find the proper private venue. But I should warn you and any women who attend. We men will most likely be bothering you ladies to be judges for penis for Girth, length, best personality , cleanliness and I am sure some kind of talent competition.

 

[Geoffrey2_0]

Sexual situations don't count.

If you're talking about StraightDave10, I think your sense of humor might be broken. Huge difference between a lie and a joke.

Hmm . . . I re-read my comment 12 times and I can't for the life of me see anything in my post that says anything about "sexual situations" . . . Maybe I wrote it in a code I've henceforth forgotten . . . could you tell me the key?

 

[efrmtexas87]

Nope don't care for it either. Only reason why I know how big my friends are is because 1 used to go skinny dipping in front of women 2 would just whip it out mid conversation because they didn't care and were just proud of it. << Women were friends.

 

[At.your.cervix]

Just as many opportunities as ladies have to compare breast-size. :wink: Men like to think that's what you all do when we're not around. It's "Tops off, ladies! And get in a circle so we can all see you!" :tongue:

Even less as a woman is likely to see another woman's breasts in public showers and locker rooms. That usually doesn't happen with erections in the showers and locker rooms which I've used. Outside of the years in my life which we are prohibited of discussing in here, I've seen less than a dozen erections in real life, all in situations where I was involved in some sort of group sex activity. It's funny, but the Internet has given me a much better understanding of my relative size, beyond what I was told by my various partners, with everyone and his brother posting dick pics left and right. I'm a bit ashamed to admit it, but I do mentally compare what my own looks like and how big it is when I see somebody's picture of their own one.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Hmm . . . I re-read my comment 12 times and I can't for the life of me see anything in my post that says anything about "sexual situations" . . . Maybe I wrote it in a code I've henceforth forgotten . . . could you tell me the key?

Then what relevance is your relationship status?

 

[bigbull29]

Dudes see dicks all the time now with such easy access to porn (not in person, however unless they have relations with other men).

Straight dudes were drooling at the mouth to see John Holmes's phamous phallus in the 70's (my old man - straighter than a arrow - told me that).

Usually, though, only MFM in gangbangs will more hetero men see hard-ons in person.

Porn studs see them all the time - gay or straight.

If a dude is super hung, then you might have the curiosity of many straighter dudes. But just to see another dudes' hard dick, probably not too much interest, unless the dude has size insecurities and thus feels the need to compare.

 

[Geoffrey2_0]

Then what relevance is your relationship status?[/QU

Really? You can't figure that out on your own? Younger and singler I had an infinite amount of time on my hands to get into situations--older and married my time is taken up with my wife and family life and less time with friends . . . Also when I was younger and singler I travelled the country; when I was younger and singler I satyed up all night playing marathon video games; when I was younger and singler I went out drinking with friends; when I was younger and singler I dated more single girls--lol . . .

 

[Tosantos]

I've only ever seen one maybe two other guys with erections, but that was years ago. I've never compared mine with other men, never will. Doesn't interest me at all

 

[bigbull29]

A dude has to be super well-hung for me to get off on comparing. What gets me off is thinking somehow I'm bigger.

Just to compare with average dicks - no interest at all, unless I feel the need to dick someone down (does happen sometimes).

 

[luv2watchdick]

A dude has to be super well-hung for me to get off on comparing. What gets me off is thinking somehow I'm bigger.

Just to compare with average dicks - no interest at all, unless I feel the need to dick someone down (does happen sometimes).

Sounds hot! I know. i'll go back to the corner now lol!

 

[Bertr]

I am str8 and like to attend sex parties. We definitely all see who's got what once the action breaks out

 

[bigbull29]

I am str8 and like to attend sex parties. We definitely all see who's got what once the action breaks out

Most dudes want to know by nature what others dudes are swinging between the legs. It's a competitive aspect of male sexuality that makes us want to fuck pussy harder.

A super big dick is intimidating and heartpoundingly erotic no matter where you fall on the sexual orientation chart (for most dudes, that is).

 

[njfellow2002]

I would say 'no'....not comparing erections. Erections happen when sexually excited, so unless the male is in a group sex or other MFM type situation...it is hard to find other hard cocks just by chance. Seeing soft cocks at urinals...sure, but less now as most urinals have privacy partitions (in USA anyway)--

 

[AlteredEgo]

I see you have given this some serious thought, All we need to do now if find the proper private venue. But I should warn you and any women who attend. We men will most likely be bothering you ladies to be judges for penis for Girth, length, best personality , cleanliness and I am sure some kind of talent competition.

Penis personalities? Would there be penis costumes? As for talent, are we talking novel penis tricks, or sexual prowess?

I am str8 and like to attend sex parties. We definitely all see who's got what once the action breaks out

Off-topic.

For the purposes of this discussion, porn doesn't count. Neither does a sexual encounter.

Dudes see dicks all the time now with such easy access to porn

Off-topic.

For the purposes of this discussion, porn doesn't count. Neither does a sexual encounter.

not in person, however unless they have relations with other men

Usually, though, only MFM in gangbangs will more hetero men see hard-ons in person.

*sigh*

For the purposes of this discussion, porn doesn't count. Neither does a sexual encounter.

Really? You can't figure that out on your own? Younger and singler I had an infinite amount of time on my hands to get into situations--older and married my time is taken up with my wife and family life and less time with friends . . . Also when I was younger and singler I travelled the country; when I was younger and singler I satyed up all night playing marathon video games; when I was younger and singler I went out drinking with friends; when I was younger and singler I dated more single girls--lol . . .

Your boring, always-home marriage is nothing like mine was. We traveled. We tried crazy new activities with friends. We stayed up all night playing video games. We went out, or stayed in drinking with friends. You know. A life. So no, it wasn't that obvious to me what the correlation was unless you meant that marriage meant you stopped having encounters with erections. Anyway, thank you for clarifying, despite your useless, unwarranted condescension.

 

[bigbull29]

I would say 'no'....not comparing erections. Erections happen when sexually excited, so unless the male is in a group sex or other MFM type situation...it is hard to find other hard cocks just by chance. Seeing soft cocks at urinals...sure, but less now as most urinals have privacy partitions (in USA anyway)--

I said more or less the same thing (first part), but I got a "sigh" and you got a "like" ...and this from the same person. LOL.

I'm glad 100% straight Hatt no longer looks everyday at my gallery.

 

[ronin001]

This is LPSG Miss A / E you should probably be prepared to expect the unexpected, and then some.