I'd have thought this topic would have been done to death by now.
I guess not. My cents worth, again, for what it's worth;
Just because you land on the planet with a big schlong doesn't mean
you can or should expect respect. Why?
Respect is earned, it's not a matter of birthright.
Same with looks, big tits, brains, and inherited wealth.
(Bill Gates, Warren Buffet (and the other 38 billionaires) who recently
pledged to donate half their massive individual wealth to charity -
that decision and behaviour is worthy of respect. Dick size (big or small)
doesn't come into it.)
Perhaps 'respect' is being confused here with 'admire' or 'appreciate'.