Do men respect well endowed men more?

Do you respect well endowed men more than less endowed men?

  • YES

    Votes: 858 44.5%
  • NO

    Votes: 377 19.5%
  • Depends or other variables

    Votes: 439 22.7%
  • Never thought about it

    Votes: 256 13.3%

  • Total voters
    1,930

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If you respect someone because of the size of their dick, you are extremely shallow. Respect is something gained through interaction and based upon your perception of someone. I can understand how someone may become envious of someone that is better, or 'well endowed', yet I feel as if those that voted 'YES' seem to not fully understand the meaning of 'respect', and their opinions diverge from the general message that it implicates.
 
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If you respect someone because of the size of their dick, you are extremely shallow. Respect is something gained through interaction and based upon your perception of someone. I can understand how someone may become envious of someone that is better, or 'well endowed', yet I feel as if those that voted 'YES' seem to not fully understand the meaning of 'respect', and their opinions diverge from the general message that it implicates.

I agree with you except that many people respect others because of their looks or body so it's difficult to make a judgement about this. I think human beings can be shallow about a lot of things.
 

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There is currently a marked difference between those responding and those just voting on the poll. Come on guys, if you voted yes, say why! (and then get told you're shallow or an idiot...):rolleyes:
 

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Wow, 40% said yes?! That's sad. Why would respect for someone have anything to do with their dick size?

It's more about jealously than respect. I doubt anyone in real life respects a man more for just having a big penis (how would one know anyways if he or she never saw it LOL).

In the sexual world, though, big boys get more respect (in porn, etc). Do they ever!
 
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It's more about jealously than respect. I doubt anyone in real life respects a man more for just having a big penis (how would one know anyways if he or she never saw it LOL).

In the sexual world, though, big boys get more respect (in porn, etc). Do they ever!

Even sexually I don't think that's true outside of the porn industry. They may get more attention or intrigue, but not respect. In fact I would say the big dicked guys that think they should get more respect because they are large probably get less respect. They do from me anyway, in the same way the people who flash expensive cars or jewelry and expect more respect from that crap do.
 

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Don't be intimidated. God has given you other endowments and talents. Be blessed.

No he hasn't.

It makes perfect sense to be intimidated by a large cock. A large cock, along with muscles, is the most basic sign of masculine strength. A true sign of being a alpha male.


how ridiculous, to submit to someone just because they have a bigger cock? there's nothing instinctive about it. it's all in your head. cock size should have NOTHING to do with respecting someone, beyond respecting the fact that they have a large cock. no implications beyond that except that which we (no pun intended) endow it with.

The submissiveness is so that I don't get on their bad side. What if I pissed off this imaginary man with a big cock and he decided to get revenge? How could I stop him from fucking my girlfriend or cockblocking me when I'm trying to get with some other girl?

That's right, I can't. I have to submit to them out of fear of what they can do to me.
 

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I've been reading the various posts to this thread and I think there are a subset of men and maybe women too who get aroused by the thought of guy with a big dick having power over them. I know I've gotten a few ims from people on this site who want me to denigrate them sexually. I'm wondering if this might be one of those cases?
 
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This is a TOUGH poll. I hesitated while pondering the question. Respect is an elusive aspect of social interaction, thus I concluded my answer must be yes. I respect many people regardless of their penis size, and attempt to find reasons to respect every one's right to be as they are. It is true that one's penis size can affect their perceived personality. I've observed other's being distracted by my penis size, both complimentary and negative reactions. I don't always interact correctly with others, so I assume my personality is not perceived in the manner that I would prefer. Therefore, I respect the person who can deal with adversity constructively.
 
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I think it is just natural. There are all kinds of reasons why people might treat others better without even knowing why themselves. Supposedly body language accounts for more communication than what we actually say. If people see a big bulge, they will notice consciously or unconsciously and respond in kind. Just like we notice people who are attractive and treat them differently because we like looking at them.
 

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I've been reading the various posts to this thread and I think there are a subset of men and maybe women too who get aroused by the thought of guy with a big dick having power over them. I know I've gotten a few ims from people on this site who want me to denigrate them sexually. I'm wondering if this might be one of those cases?

This. I think there a number of men who voted "yes" who are caught up in the SPH fetish.
 

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Even sexually I don't think that's true outside of the porn industry. They may get more attention or intrigue, but not respect. In fact I would say the big dicked guys that think they should get more respect because they are large probably get less respect. They do from me anyway, in the same way the people who flash expensive cars or jewelry and expect more respect from that crap do.

I'm looking at things from a bedroom fun point of view (fantasy).
 

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In my experience......alot of men, well, i wouldn't say respect, but give kudos to a guy if he has a bigger cock than them....like i said, this is only in my personal experiences.
 
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I doubt very much that it is a case of giving more respect as it is taking a sub-servient role and protecting the ego by saying 'respect' rather than truthfully admitting that 'green eyes' have developed.
 

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Not everyone would be envious though. Like Rick says, I'm more likely to be happy that my friends have what they want and need. Nobody really needs a big dick, but everyone wants one.
 
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