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Do men respect well endowed men more?
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Agreed. Especially under cold water or in a nervous situation like public showering. If I’m cold my flaccid state can’t be more than 3in. If someone saw me they’d swear I was tiny.
Flaccid doesn’t mean a damn thing.
I would say admiration more than respect because respect should be earned, and cock size distribution is arbitrary and random. But if a hung guy is interested in my that is flattering because it seems like they have more options and they picked me. I’m fairly hung, and I see it the other way too like, is this guy actually into me or just my dick?
I guess it’s like being really good looking? I don’t instantly respect someone who’s hot, but I do admire hotness.
I guess it’s like being really good looking? I don’t instantly respect someone who’s hot, but I do admire hotness.
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It shouldn't happen, but I have to admit it has happened to me :/ Some guys who treated me horrendously rapidly changed their tune, when they saw my size. Sure, you can sometimes feel that hatefulness, they have gotten a lot more respectful when treating me directly. Though I do admit it feels wrong, it shouldn't had been my dick's size what got them to be respectful. Yet, I don't find it surprising a lot of guys still grow with the idea that a big cock is a sign of manhood, and said guys must be respected. Which at the end only leads to a false respect, and smaller guys feeling pretty bad.
If dick size changes your level of respect for a human being, it may be time to look at what 'respect' means to you?
i don't get this
i don't get this
It seems like big dicks have been valued and used as a measure of masculinity for eons. I am not sure how much of that value originated from females. Men seem to be the ones most obssessed with size. The funny thing is that the man with the large dick did nothing to earn it. It’s just a genetic lottery and has no reflection of the actual quality of the man who posesses it or even his sexual prowess. Yet, the “respect/awe/envy” continues to be give to the well hung. There is a conotation of power connected to a huge cock.
If anything, it makes it harder for me to respect them. Perhaps unfair, but i view guys with large dicks the same way as I view extremely good looking men. Genetics have played them a good hand and for the rest of their lives they'll benefit from that, envied by fellow men and mostly always having an upper hand with women, without having done a thing to deserve it. Whether or not they're happy within themselves is irrelevant - having a large dick and a beautiful face is going to get you further than most other men, and a combination of the two would be unbeatable unless the man really has no personality, is very obese, has terrible hygiene or is a really bad individual. I know this is unfair as it's not a man's fault he's born beautiful or big dicked, but before I think he's a nice guy, I'll assume he's smug and a smidgen of respect will be lost.
On the other hand, when a man has a big dick, and this is known by his friends and women, but he is a charming, unassuming dude and unaffected by his assets... well, then, he deserves everyone's respect and is pretty much a godlet on earth.
On the other hand, when a man has a big dick, and this is known by his friends and women, but he is a charming, unassuming dude and unaffected by his assets... well, then, he deserves everyone's respect and is pretty much a godlet on earth.
The ancient Greek ideal man was not a lustful lover but a wise public servant. “Greeks associated small and non-erect penises with moderation, which was one of the key virtues that formed their view of ideal masculinity,”
It was a badge of the highest culture and a paragon of civilization.”
So it is because small was associated with not being sexually lustful, and desired that they were accepted, as opposed to big ones. So inherently they still sexually accepted sexual superiority of large ones.
Men are secretly jealously of men they know are very well-hung men. Nowadays it's worse because men see other men's penises much more frequently in the age of the internet and social media. Years ago, for typical straight men, you saw dicks: in porn and in the locker room. You may have seen a few at the urinal by accident, or your friend possibly whipped his out during a hunting trip for all to see the Big Boy.
It is interesting to note that some of my biggest fans are men who are romantically very heterosexual. Being aroused by big penises in and of itself has absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation. LPSG has really opened my eyes about that.
It is interesting to note that some of my biggest fans are men who are romantically very heterosexual. Being aroused by big penises in and of itself has absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation. LPSG has really opened my eyes about that.
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For me, am I envious? Yes. Am I more respectful? I hope not. I would like to think that a person has to earn my respect through their behavior.
In all the years I have been on LPSG, I had a few "straight" dudes who are so jealous of my dick that they went out of their way to say I had a "small dick" (nothing too big).
I am not better than a small-dicked buddy. But I am a very, very well-hung man. Facts are facts. I know that I am more hung than 99.9% of all men in penis volume. That doesn't make better than anyone. I'm just a Bull in the bedroom. LOL.
I don't have low- hangers like some men do. My ball sack is just average.
I am not better than a small-dicked buddy. But I am a very, very well-hung man. Facts are facts. I know that I am more hung than 99.9% of all men in penis volume. That doesn't make better than anyone. I'm just a Bull in the bedroom. LOL.
I don't have low- hangers like some men do. My ball sack is just average.
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Hell fucking no. Im a bit over 4.5 uncut, and have met kind guys smaller then me and hung also. Ive also met complete assholes and guys with dead personalities both micro and hung. So that's what it's based off of and matters most..just being yourself, kind and respectful in a sense.
That also applies to fun and size difference fun/worship. If I give into it, there has to be chemistry and vibe..and good click. If not, im not into it at all
That also applies to fun and size difference fun/worship. If I give into it, there has to be chemistry and vibe..and good click. If not, im not into it at all
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Over the years....decades.....I have had some what similar experiences from the other point of view....through business or other social contacts...had the beginning of a friendship start forming...then the proverbial "light bulb" went off over their head...the expression on their faces....they suddenly realized that I am way over endowed....and much of the time, while they were also "curious"...they freaked out and decided that no real friendship could continue....especially if they were married/girlfriend.
Curiously....those guys who I met through serendipity...in a nudist/clothing optional environment....or decades ago when I was in the "lifestyle"....those guys who they themselves were also extremely endowed...they and their wives/girlfriends....were still surprised...stunned....to meet me and see mine....some of them got defensive...rarely...but the women...the wives/girlfriends...they were always just as curious and staring as their husbands....but some of the women, after they got. over their initial surprise and shock...THEY were the ones that got pissed off...upset....even hurt/defensive/upset...that their husband/mate was no longer the "biggest" they...or their friends...had seen. A lot of women seem to find a source of "ownership"...being with a very endowed guy...and don't like the idea of their lover/mate no longer being the "largest" they had encountered. I learned to "tread gently and politely" around such encounters....I never knew for certain exactly how the other guy...or his wife/girlfriend...would react. So be Mr Nice Guy with the elephant hose...but always Mr. Nice Guy.
Thank you for sharing this BigBen.
I think that for some women, having a well endowed husband is a status symbol, and they don't like being shown up by a man like you with a bigger cock.
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I've also experienced this and I think for some they do like the status of being 'queen bee' among friend and acquiescence.
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Yes, Amazed 2, I have encountered women who being married to the guy with the biggest and most virile cock they or any of their family of friends or coworkers knew of...was very much a "status symbol" for them....they were the "most feminine" or "sexiest" or best at "sex" woman to get the guy...and meeting me and seeing how much I am "more" really just rocked their own perceptions of their world...worse if any of their friends and family or others witnessed their "down fall". Such women may love the sex with someone who is finally bigger and "better" than their own extreme size mate...but they are not always pleased that they were so totally outfucked and not up to keeping up with me.
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Yes...and those women are often times...from my experiences...I have most enjoyed just fucking them with so many orgasms they are totally limp and drained and they show they are "out of their league" with me...not able to keep up at all. They love the orgasms...but really dislike being so sexually overpowered and shown they are not "the queen"....
