I've been on this site for many years, read countless threads and msged lots of guys. Pretty much everybody gave the appearance of having a conventional career. Many were married and/or identified as primarily hetero. And... we're all here on a dick worship website, and when any 1-on-1 conversation begins, no matter how the guys identify, once they see each others' dicks and talk about dicks for maybe 5 minutes they start talking about fucking each other.
I have one close dear friend who was a JO bud for much of my life and we constantly talk about sex and dicks to this day. I'm certain that if I'd made the right move years ago, when we were single, we could have messed around. But most other guys I know seem very "PG-rated" at best and are growing moreso as they age. I've had gay friends and colleagues for a long time, we talk about their dating and partners and anniversaries too, and it likewise seems, for lack of a better term, neutral.
I have had two sexual meetups with other men since getting married (one unplanned show-off session, one planned mutual session). Could have had way more if I were less risk-averse. And... I don't think there's anything so special about me? If I can do it, if the guys I met with did it, surely a lot of others do too IRL. The guys in their suburbs, at their football games, in their suits and offices, their anniversary messages to their wives on FB... how many of them admire dick? How many are curious?
I guess my point, if I have one in this ramble, is that body-flaunting and kinky horny sexual lust are constant parts of being male, yet at the same time they aren't. Like we live a double life, and everybody knows everybody else lives a double life, yet it goes unmentioned to such an extent that it seems downright weird to think of it among people we actually know.
Has anyone ever been surprised to find how horny and explorative a particular guy turned out to be? Surprised to see how widespread a certain desire might be?
I have one close dear friend who was a JO bud for much of my life and we constantly talk about sex and dicks to this day. I'm certain that if I'd made the right move years ago, when we were single, we could have messed around. But most other guys I know seem very "PG-rated" at best and are growing moreso as they age. I've had gay friends and colleagues for a long time, we talk about their dating and partners and anniversaries too, and it likewise seems, for lack of a better term, neutral.
I have had two sexual meetups with other men since getting married (one unplanned show-off session, one planned mutual session). Could have had way more if I were less risk-averse. And... I don't think there's anything so special about me? If I can do it, if the guys I met with did it, surely a lot of others do too IRL. The guys in their suburbs, at their football games, in their suits and offices, their anniversary messages to their wives on FB... how many of them admire dick? How many are curious?
I guess my point, if I have one in this ramble, is that body-flaunting and kinky horny sexual lust are constant parts of being male, yet at the same time they aren't. Like we live a double life, and everybody knows everybody else lives a double life, yet it goes unmentioned to such an extent that it seems downright weird to think of it among people we actually know.
Has anyone ever been surprised to find how horny and explorative a particular guy turned out to be? Surprised to see how widespread a certain desire might be?