thats lovely, thanku.
honestly, i could have a fucking field day on this fucking section of the forum - its a fucking joke. you dont know how frustrated it makes me reading some of the shit that gets posted up here.
i was blessed with parents that taught me a part of sex is always social and political. its made me understand everything from how to talk to a woman, to how to fuck.... but it also leaves a nasty taste in my mouth when guys mention things like A2M etc..... :wink: hohoho
dead men don't rape!
honestly, i could have a fucking field day on this fucking section of the forum - its a fucking joke. you dont know how frustrated it makes me reading some of the shit that gets posted up here.
i was blessed with parents that taught me a part of sex is always social and political. its made me understand everything from how to talk to a woman, to how to fuck.... but it also leaves a nasty taste in my mouth when guys mention things like A2M etc..... :wink: hohoho
dead men don't rape!
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no, you silly, naive little creature.
you just think you do because you used the wrong sort of door.
let me show you how and you'll LOVE it. promise!
maybe if you give it some leopard print fur trim
it would soften the blow a bit.:wink:
...and even though all men have prostate glands not all of them enjoy the sensation of having it stimulated
I'm pretty sure at least several of the comments on the value of lube came from females. And it's not entirely unfair to point out that, like nearly every other sexual act, technique counts. Probably even moreso with anal sex and probably the reason people are eager to offer tips or suggestions.
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I agree. It sounds like she has not had it done right. You can give yourself anal sex with a finger or toy and it can feel better than someone using a finger, toy, or cock in you that does not know what they are doing. At least try it yourself alone with a finger, small/thin toy, lube, and lots of patience before you say how it is not for you.
That wasn't really my point. People are free to not like anything they choose... including ice cream, puppies and world peace. Done right, wrong or indifferently some people will still not like it.
But I'm not sure I get the outrage at someone replying that maybe you should try a different brand of ice cream or go over and pet the cute little dog and maybe you'll like it. It's a fairly natural thing for people to advocate for that which they enjoy. No harm here.
Wow, you are stubborn. Do you just not get it?! Why are you trying to recruit us to the joys of anal sex? Why do you keep assuming that Dolfette, or any other woman on the thread who replied that she doesn't like anal sex, has not "done it right?"
Why does she need to try it per your suggestions? We are not shy, inhibited, uninitiated, women here. Most of us are very sexually experienced and have tried everything and more than you have so persistently suggested.
Once again, we females, have wonderful self-lubing vaginas that we enjoy very much, thank you. Knock yourself out with all the anal sex you can get...some of us will stick to good old vaginal Heaven.
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How about this?
I HATE HAVING MY ASS FUCKED.
Most of the time it hurt. Sometimes it felt OK. Sometimes it was the only alternative to "that time of the month."
But guess what?
I HATED IT.
I'm a clean freak, and I refuse to have anything to do with it anymore.
Kind of pisses me off that women have perfectly good functional inputs (vaginas), yet so many men insist on engaging in risky, germ-y behavior.
WTF is that all about????
I HATE HAVING MY ASS FUCKED.
Most of the time it hurt. Sometimes it felt OK. Sometimes it was the only alternative to "that time of the month."
But guess what?
I HATED IT.
I'm a clean freak, and I refuse to have anything to do with it anymore.
Kind of pisses me off that women have perfectly good functional inputs (vaginas), yet so many men insist on engaging in risky, germ-y behavior.
WTF is that all about????
Good question. Here are some guesses:
1. It's interesting and "dirty" fun to some
2. some guys stick their dicks in all sorts of things
3. porn glamorizes it and makes many men feel like they should "want/need" to have it or they are missing out
4. Porn gives men the idea that most women really want it (with the "right" technique of course) regardless of what most real women tell them
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Yes, that is what some men have said when I ass, I mean, ask.
Like this video of a man being rescued after sticking his dick in a park bench...
Perhaps porn is fairy (furry?) tales for grown-ups.
Good points.
(Nice pics, BTW)
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I understand where some of the women on here are coming from. I've never tried anal, and TBH, I'm afraid I'd hurt the person I'm with. Plus, there's the whole cleanliness factor. The concept of something tighter than a pussy has some appeal, but it's not enough to stick my dick in something that pushes out feces.
I do watch anal porn sometimes though. Mostly because some pornstars get off on it pretty well (or they pretend to, but if its good enough that I can't tell, then I can fantasize about it). I don't think it's the anal that turns me on that much (seriously, a gaping stretched asshole just makes me cringe), it's watching the girl cum. Watching a woman orgasm (eyes roll back, pussy contracts, uncontrolled shaking and/or getting really wet) is just so hot to me.
I do watch anal porn sometimes though. Mostly because some pornstars get off on it pretty well (or they pretend to, but if its good enough that I can't tell, then I can fantasize about it). I don't think it's the anal that turns me on that much (seriously, a gaping stretched asshole just makes me cringe), it's watching the girl cum. Watching a woman orgasm (eyes roll back, pussy contracts, uncontrolled shaking and/or getting really wet) is just so hot to me.
stop being thick, doll.
i end that post with '/random rant'.
end RANDOM rant???
random meaning unconnected to other posts.
rather connected to actual experiences with men.
i assume you're just a troll trying to get a rise.
how lame.
I said this a few years ago and it still works for me :wink::
To be crass it really isn't my piece of ass until I bury the flag pole deep in fertile ground and claim it for the king.
Nowhere near appropriate to say just felt like saying it. Half of ass sex for me is being the dominant partner at the moment. It would be great if she liked it but if not submission is good enough.:biggrin1:
Caveat - of course she has to consent.
http://www.lpsg.org/38326-butt-etiquette-2.html#post627109
Damn, snoozan looking sexy these days.
To be crass it really isn't my piece of ass until I bury the flag pole deep in fertile ground and claim it for the king.
Nowhere near appropriate to say just felt like saying it. Half of ass sex for me is being the dominant partner at the moment. It would be great if she liked it but if not submission is good enough.:biggrin1:
Caveat - of course she has to consent.
http://www.lpsg.org/38326-butt-etiquette-2.html#post627109
Damn, snoozan looking sexy these days.
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i think they call it the "female degenerated prostate", but i have only heard desmond morris use this term. interesting fellow.
Desmond Morris: The Clitoris, A-Spot, G-Spot and U-Spot
quote that mentions the female prostate:
Also referred to as the Epicentre, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner end of the vaginal tube between the cervix and the bladder, described technically as the 'female degenerated prostate'.
another interesting article referring to morris:
Male and Female Orgasm
addendum: i have never had anal sex with a penis, but one day i might try it.
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Do most women like it? Hell, how would anyone know the answer to that question?
What I can say is that my wife enjoys it... now. But it wasn't always like that.
When we were first married, she told me a story about some guy (who was rather small) who had put on some kind of strap on/slide on thing, and tried to push it up her ass.
She was not amused, and kicked him in the groin. It spoiled her on thinking about it for a long time, because, well, the idiot who tried that didn't tell her what he was going to do, and it obviously hurt like hell when he did.
Well, this caused me to not mention my rather intense fascination with doing anal sex with her for a long time thereafter. But about 8 or 9 years ago, I started rimming her while performing oral on her. She enjoyed that sensation, and it helped us to open up a line of communication to discuss anal sex again. Eventually we tried it, and although I barely got in at all, it was a start.
These days I can sometimes get in as far as balls-deep, though more often than not I can only get in about 4 inches or so. But does she enjoy it? Yes, absolutely. She's told me as much. It's a different sensation for her, and she's orgasmed from anal sex too. She says it's a different kind of turn-on, partly because she knows I enjoy it so much, and partly because it feels different for her.
She's at a point now where, given the right level of being turned on, she enjoys anal sex, rimming, and sometimes a DP with a dildo or vibrator in one, and my dick in the other. Oddly though, she doesn't care for fingering; but that's okay too.
Now, it has to be the right time for her, and she's always the ultimate arbiter of when it's okay and when it's not. What's nice though, is that since we discuss it openly now, she will ask me if I want it far more often than I ask for it. Of course, plenty of lube is essential.
I still prefer vaginal sex with her most of the time. But anal is a nice "something different" and because it's such a huge turn on for me personally, it also makes me come far faster (which helps her "down there," since I'm on the large side).
The decision is hers though. It's always up to her, and she is always free to let me know, "No, honey - not tonight for that." And sometimes it will be a month or two or more before we do anal again. That's okay, too. It's just plain old respect, period. And I must say, I'm amazed at some on here who seem to be unable to grasp that simple concept.
What I can say is that my wife enjoys it... now. But it wasn't always like that.
When we were first married, she told me a story about some guy (who was rather small) who had put on some kind of strap on/slide on thing, and tried to push it up her ass.
She was not amused, and kicked him in the groin. It spoiled her on thinking about it for a long time, because, well, the idiot who tried that didn't tell her what he was going to do, and it obviously hurt like hell when he did.
Well, this caused me to not mention my rather intense fascination with doing anal sex with her for a long time thereafter. But about 8 or 9 years ago, I started rimming her while performing oral on her. She enjoyed that sensation, and it helped us to open up a line of communication to discuss anal sex again. Eventually we tried it, and although I barely got in at all, it was a start.
These days I can sometimes get in as far as balls-deep, though more often than not I can only get in about 4 inches or so. But does she enjoy it? Yes, absolutely. She's told me as much. It's a different sensation for her, and she's orgasmed from anal sex too. She says it's a different kind of turn-on, partly because she knows I enjoy it so much, and partly because it feels different for her.
She's at a point now where, given the right level of being turned on, she enjoys anal sex, rimming, and sometimes a DP with a dildo or vibrator in one, and my dick in the other. Oddly though, she doesn't care for fingering; but that's okay too.
Now, it has to be the right time for her, and she's always the ultimate arbiter of when it's okay and when it's not. What's nice though, is that since we discuss it openly now, she will ask me if I want it far more often than I ask for it. Of course, plenty of lube is essential.
I still prefer vaginal sex with her most of the time. But anal is a nice "something different" and because it's such a huge turn on for me personally, it also makes me come far faster (which helps her "down there," since I'm on the large side).
The decision is hers though. It's always up to her, and she is always free to let me know, "No, honey - not tonight for that." And sometimes it will be a month or two or more before we do anal again. That's okay, too. It's just plain old respect, period. And I must say, I'm amazed at some on here who seem to be unable to grasp that simple concept.
