Do nice guys always finish last?

nakedone

Sexy Member
Joined
Sep 10, 2009
Posts
162
Media
0
Likes
33
Points
53
Location
USA
Sexuality
80% Straight, 20% Gay
Gender
Male
I interpreted this question to mean "When fucking a woman, do nice guys finish last?" It has always been my method, whenever fucking a woman, to do whatever is necessary to bring her to orgasm before trying to get-off, myself. I feel it is the mark of a "nice guy" to give his woman pleasure first, then satisfy himself afterward.
 

dolfette

Expert Member
Joined
Nov 13, 2006
Posts
11,303
Media
0
Likes
108
Points
193
Sexuality
No Response
no, the mark of a nice guy to find out what she wants. the whole pressure to orgasm thing is a pet hate of a sizable proportion of women.
 
Joined
Dec 30, 2005
Posts
497
Media
0
Likes
1
Points
161
i said smart women grow out of it.

and then they become lesbians, right?

bad boys might be fun for a shag though. get a quick fix and then throw them away.
and a few weeks later you miss your period

for a proper relationship you need all that mutual respect & shit though.
said the woman who allegedly is "giving up on men"

(talk about spouting shite)
 
Last edited:

dolfette

Expert Member
Joined
Nov 13, 2006
Posts
11,303
Media
0
Likes
108
Points
193
Sexuality
No Response
just WTF do you know about "proper relationships"?
oh, i see...you think that because i'm not looking for a relationship for the future, that makes void all relationships i had in the past.

tell me, are you the same person as you were ten years ago? looking for the same thing? enjoying the same situations?

as i've posted before, i had 7 years with the ex and we're still friends. i even went to his wedding. we raise two beautiful kids together, deciding together on the important issues in their lives. in the end we just weren't suited to be together as a couple, but we had a very amicable split and decided maintenance payments, custody and the splitting of property without the use of raised voices or lawyers.

i think i know enough about proper relationships, even if i am happier on my own. more than you do i suspect.
 

D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

Account Disabled
Joined
Apr 5, 2006
Posts
5,331
Media
0
Likes
69
Points
193
I've learnt the past few years that its the bad girls who act nice that get what they want. Its true. As long as you look sweet and innocent you can be the biggest bitch in the world and people wont question it.


But as a nice girl (not one just acting nice) who loves a nice guy, we always finish last. Because when we are politely sitting back waiting, some bad girl is out there giggling her tits to get what she wants.
 

B_crackoff

Experimental Member
Joined
Jan 17, 2010
Posts
1,726
Media
0
Likes
3
Points
73
Will the nice folks ever get a break? Have you ever know a good guy/girl go bad?

It's about excitement & sexual frisson & adventure. Nice people don't have that.

Nice people get the well used folk who are either past it, or bored with the game.

You certainly don't need money to bang a lot of people:smile:

Dolf & Scal - I think you were Cleopatra & Mark Antony in a previous life, or is that Hitler & Eva Braun?:biggrin1:
 

dolfette

Expert Member
Joined
Nov 13, 2006
Posts
11,303
Media
0
Likes
108
Points
193
Sexuality
No Response
i'm supposed believe that you've always used "proper precaution" while engaged in "casual sex"?
yes.

well...unless you mean by ''casual sex'' that i wasn't dressed for dinner when i was fucking my partner, that we didn't put it on the dance card and he wasn't wearing his top hat.
 

dolfette

Expert Member
Joined
Nov 13, 2006
Posts
11,303
Media
0
Likes
108
Points
193
Sexuality
No Response
that they usually last longer than 7 years among other things
why?

there are people who stay in shitty, miserable, abusive, disrespectful relationships for 60 years. i don't think them more proper.

knowing when to quit, (before you truly hate each other and all respect is lost) is part of having a proper relationship.

and we still have a relationship. it's just not as a couple. it's as friends and co-parents.

so how long has your relationship lasted?