Ok. This is going to sound egotistical, but it happens to be true.
So all the guys I've fallen for have ended up choosing guys who are not what I'd call "nice guys". I'm smart, funny, interesting, not a troll, caring, compassionate and very successful in my field. It always hurts for me to hear they "love" me, but are not in love with me, then run off with some non-achiever and often fugly.
Am I doing it all wrong? Should I pretend to be dumb and a total bastard? I'm not succeeding by just being myself.
Particularly keen to hear from men who've had someone love them more than they like that guy.
Thoughts?
So all the guys I've fallen for have ended up choosing guys who are not what I'd call "nice guys". I'm smart, funny, interesting, not a troll, caring, compassionate and very successful in my field. It always hurts for me to hear they "love" me, but are not in love with me, then run off with some non-achiever and often fugly.
Am I doing it all wrong? Should I pretend to be dumb and a total bastard? I'm not succeeding by just being myself.
Particularly keen to hear from men who've had someone love them more than they like that guy.
Thoughts?
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