DO PEOPLE ONLY DATE YOU CAUSE YOUR HUNG

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:) I agree with Hung muscle. I am 51, love to have sex in the shower at the gym when possible, but dont necessarily want to date them. Like Double Meat Whopper, I dont want to ge thought of as a walking dildo. We already have George W Bush to serve that purpose. It does help to have a huge penis (especially when I am interested in fellow gay Latino men), but it does not do much for a relationship when the discussion stops after our lust has been satisfied. My university degrees are often more harmful than helpful when i open my mouth to speak rather than suck.
 

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Originally posted by joe22xxx@Sep 17 2004, 03:38 PM
DO PEOPLE ONLY DATE ME BECAUSE I'M HUNG?

I would hope so. I don't want anyone liking or loving me because of the quality of my mind or my empathy for others! I really enjoy just being a big piece of meat.

(This is supposed to be humorous!)
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Yeah, but there are some (l)users on LPSG who actually like the idea of being a piece of meat. LOL For a one-night stand, it's a turn-on; but for a LTR, it's not. It's the context. I mean, in the bedroom, words like "whore" are just a way of vocalizing your arousal; outside the bedroom, *slap*
 
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I have had several guys hook up with me because of my size. I say hookup because that is all it was meant to be. This didnt bother me as much as the guys I have actually dated that were with me simply because of my size. Having an extremely large dick doesnt make a person shy, but it does make my point of view specific in that I want someone to be with me for me. I realize my cock is a huge deal and sexual aspects of a relationship are also important but its just a part of me. Granted a large part LOL but there is more to me then how many inches my cock is.

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Originally posted by autumnbreeze4321@Sep 2 2004, 02:27 AM
As a young woman, I must admit that I have and am dating guys just for their size. They know upfront that I am not looking for a long term relationship, as my current status as a student, employee and guardian for my younger brother does not permit me time to develop a long term, deep relationship.

Hope that doesn't offend anyone
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You see I dont think there anything wrong with that at all and the whole point as far as I can see it, its about honesty.

If a girl says to a guy, look I want to get laid, I like well endowed men, after tonight thats it...well if he does anything, its up to him and he knows the score in terms of what they both expect.

Really its nothing to do with being hung or not, or a girl having big breasts or something, its to do with people not being upfront or honest with how they see things.

As long as someone says they are just looking for sex and a lil fun, I do not think there anything wrong with that all.
 

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Yes, in college several girls played me more out of curiosity than anything else. When it came time to do the deed some refused while others went further but seldom was it successful. I was clueless and became frustrated. A friend finally told me what was going on.
 

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Being played is awful, you have the right to be treated like a human being. I agree that hot sex is different than a ltr, and honesty is always the best policy. If a woman is just looking fot sex with a hung guy and lets this be known, then he can decide if that's okay with him or not. Very pretty women face this dilemma a lot- men like to fuck them as a status symbol, and they never know if they'll ever hear from him again or not. It's bullshit nomatter who is being used.

DMW, you may laugh at this (or you may not), but I posted an ad on a dating network a while ago seeking hung guys. The ad states that pics must be submitted as proof! I don't go on there much anymore, but I can be pretty certain that anyone who answers won't mind my interest in their dick.
 

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Hey,

I like to be liked or loved for who I am by my gfs / bfs and not solely for the size of my dick.

A guy I met seemed to think he could size me up by placing his hands around my crotch and having a good feel there before deciding if he wanted to have sex with me. I found his grabbing of my dick offensive and unacceptable. I'm an easy going guy but he went too far.

Women never in my experience behave in this way. Men who do or attempt to do so really piss me off. :angry:

Some guys might think I shouldn't have broken the guy's arm and nose. Other guys might have just walked away or even enjoyed what happened. What would you have done? ^_^
 

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Originally posted by Bluespeedoz@Oct 16 2004, 10:22 PM
Hey,

I like to be liked or loved for who I am by my gfs / bfs and not solely for the size of my dick.

A guy I met seemed to think he could size me up by placing his hands around my crotch and having a good feel there before deciding if he wanted to have sex with me. I found his grabbing of my dick offensive and unacceptable. I'm an easy going guy but he went too far.

Women never in my experience behave in this way. Men who do or attempt to do so really piss me off. :angry:

Some guys might think I shouldn't have broken the guy's arm and nose. Other guys might have just walked away or even enjoyed what happened. What would you have done? ^_^
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I, too, would have been offended but I would have pushed his hand and arm away from me and told him to fuck off. Then, I would have dropped it and not given it another thought.
B)
 

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Originally posted by nacard01@Oct 2 2004, 05:37 PM
I have had several guys hook up with me because of my size. I say hookup because that is all it was meant to be. This didnt bother me as much as the guys I have actually dated that were with me simply because of my size. Having an extremely large dick doesnt make a person shy, but it does make my point of view specific in that I want someone to be with me for me. I realize my cock is a huge deal and sexual aspects of a relationship are also important but its just a part of me. Granted a large part LOL but there is more to me then how many inches my cock is.
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You got that right! Until recently I wondered if it was possible to find a guy (or girl, if I got really desperate and horny :D ) who would enjoy being with me and love me as more than just a ticket to play with "the monster." Then, I met another young bull who makes great conversation, snuggles and makes out in a way that makes me melt, and understands both my pride and pain in having an unusually large organ because he's even a bit bigger.
 
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Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Aug 29 2004, 03:21 PM
Anyone who has been a member of this site for any length of time knows how I dislike being objectified for the size of my cock. Want a sure fire way to turn me off? Just say, "Damn! You have a big cock!" before you have said anything else to me. That's just me. Some guys really get off on being appreciated solely for their endowment. Don't misunderstand me; I don't mind that people enjoy my cock size, but I'm more than a walking dildo. I'd like to think that I have more things to offer that a big dick, and I like it when people notice and appreciate those qualities. If someone is dating you just because you're hung, she's not in a relationship with you. Her relationship is with your penis. Give her a large dildo for a parting gift and you'll both be happy: she'll have the big cock she craves, and you'll have free time to look for someone who likes you as a person rather than a sex object.
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right on doublemeat!! I totally agree!! Thought I was the only one there. ^_^
 

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And yes, even at 51 guys want to hook up with you because of a large penis. It still happens to me now and then. While I am flattered, I, too, want to be appreciated more for my other qualities
that are not immediately visible. This takes time and effort. At the gym, at least, I see the same guys who are interested in "Pancho" . I make an continued effort to enlighten them that there is much more to me than just my penis. Some men are interested, others are not. I have had the same experience with 2 men who belong to this internet website who shall remain nameless. They know who they are!
 

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Dating one for their large dick would be 'using' them, correct? And this is a bad thing, right?

Bull.

If it ain't your big dick, it's your pretty blue eyes... your swelling biceps... your sense of humor... your lovable personality... or any of the other good qualities you have.

Could one could go off about how they dated a girl because she thought he was charming? That's a quality which is generally referrenced as a 'good' reason to start dating a guy... Yet it's the same thing as a girl craving a big cock, just switching variables.

You're getting 'used' for one thing or another, one way or another.
 

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I've never dated a guy just cos of his size, but this time I got lucky!

I didn't know my current bf's size before I started going out with him - and he definitely qualifies for this site! - but I'm incredibly happy with him and his penis.

I do much prefer a big man, but I'd love him whether he was hung or not, and I certainly don't see him as just a piece of meat - his size is merely a very pleasurable bonus.
 
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Anyone who has been a member of this site for any length of time knows how I dislike being objectified for the size of my cock. Want a sure fire way to turn me off? Just say, "Damn! You have a big cock!" before you have said anything else to me. That's just me. Some guys really get off on being appreciated solely for their endowment. Don't misunderstand me; I don't mind that people enjoy my cock size, but I'm more than a walking dildo.


I agree 100 percent. I remember when I met my first "size queen". Talk about feeling like a walking dildo! And, as I have said before, if you want to get one of "those" looks from me just use the words "nice dick".
 

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Originally posted by hungshyman@Dec 8 2019, 01:48 AM
Ill date any woman that will have me !!! Im lonly and its beed a year sine I had sex :( :huh:
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Why? Did you bead your condoms?
 

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Originally posted by eddie@Nov 17 2004, 02:24 PM
Dating one for their large dick would be 'using' them, correct? And this is a bad thing, right?

Bull.

If it ain't your big dick, it's your pretty blue eyes... your swelling biceps... your sense of humor... your lovable personality... or any of the other good qualities you have.

Could one could go off about how they dated a girl because she thought he was charming? That's a quality which is generally referrenced as a 'good' reason to start dating a guy... Yet it's the same thing as a girl craving a big cock, just switching variables.

You're getting 'used' for one thing or another, one way or another.
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This is a very thoughtful response. I don't think I've heard this view before, but it is so true.
 

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Originally posted by eyemready+Dec 8 2004, 09:43 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(eyemready &#064; Dec 8 2004, 09:43 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-eddie@Nov 17 2004, 02:24 PM
Dating one for their large dick would be &#39;using&#39; them, correct? And this is a bad thing, right?

Bull.

If it ain&#39;t your big dick, it&#39;s your pretty blue eyes... your swelling biceps... your sense of humor... your lovable personality... or any of the other good qualities you have.

Could one could go off about how they dated a girl because she thought he was charming? That&#39;s a quality which is generally referrenced as a &#39;good&#39; reason to start dating a guy... Yet it&#39;s the same thing as a girl craving a big cock, just switching variables.

You&#39;re getting &#39;used&#39; for one thing or another, one way or another.
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This is a very thoughtful response. I don&#39;t think I&#39;ve heard this view before, but it is so true.
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Reguardless .. theres a whole package .. a real person, and every aspect of the individual deserves as much worship and care as any other. Sure, everyone has their personal favorite aspects ... but to objectify someone or obsess over only one or two things, is surely a path to destruction.

Neglect is no fun.