I like to get it in as deep as she can take and this can lead to choking and gagging which actually really turns me on.
I think most women reacted to this line, which implies that you intentionally choke or gag women because you enjoy it. I see now from your clarification that you didn't mean to imply that you did that.
This Is the kind of scenario I'm talking about, which I personally think is really hot and this is more of less where I am with my gf. She likes getting her mouth fucked.
There's degrees of facefucking, ive never made a girl barf from facefucking her, and wouldnt want to. I wouldn't slam my unit down balls deep (unless she was obviously into that) I like to find the gagging threshold and stay just below that, but occasional choking does occur. I've never had a girl freak out and storm off or try to crush my nuts or something, they mostly don't care that much and some like Fleur actually like it to a degree.
So what is it like to get choked with a big dick? How does make you feel? Can it make you feel kinda dirty/slutty but kinda sexy and turned on at the same time?
If I felt dirty or slutty I think I'd feel turned off. Really turned off. That's not a sexy feeling to me. If you made me feel "slutty" then I don't think I'd want to have sex with you, because the only way I'd feel like that with your penis in my mouth is if I felt like you were judging me for sucking your cock. Honestly, and I don't mean this as an insult, my intention is only to respond sincerely, but I'd feel like you have issues that I'd want to stay very far away from. That perspective on sex makes me feel very uncomfortable. I personally dislike it.
I joke all the time about being a "pervert" and I think I am, but only because other women don't do the things that I do, not because I feel like the things I do are wrong. I think I'm just more open-minded, adventurous, self-confident, and curious about sex than other women, and I feel like I have fewer issues about sex than other women do. I don't feel slutty. On the contrary, I feel like my attitude towards sex is the one that most women ought to have because I feel that it's healthy and fun.
Like Fleur, I don't mind if he holds my head down. I really like it and I follow his hands. I know that if I pushed back with my hands or my head that he'd respond and let go in a hundreth of a second, so it's not real aggression and I feel comfortable and safe with him. I trust him.
About enjoying blowjobs, I'm turned on by how sexy he is and how much he enjoys what I'm doing. It's just enjoyable to me. I love his cock in my mouth. Like I said before, it would bother me if he intentionally gagged or choked me, but like Fleur I don't mind if I do during the blowjob. I really like it when he grips my head and thrusts with his hips, I like it when he moans, the passion is what turns me on!
I enjoy watching porn where the blowjobs are intense, but not the ones where the women are gagging too much and spitting on the ground and the guy holds her nose. Why would you do that? Leave her nose alone! I don't like the ones where the woman doesn't look like she's enjoying herself, which is the case with most straight blowjobs in porn. The woman either looks abused or bored or she's "acting" and there's so much unconvincing "sexiness." The blowjobs in gay porn look far more sensual to me because of the mutual enjoyment. And I've never seen a gay guy hold another gay guy's nose during a blowjob. :tongue:
