Do some women actually like to be gagged with a large penis?

[Fleur]

I did read the posts maybe you should reread mine cos I think you missed what I'm saying. I disagree that you always have to talk about it , that ruins the flow it's not sexy. "ah um excuse me, um I was wondering, er um, how hard can I fuck your mouth?" that's kinda not really ideal in my opinion.

Okay, let's pretend you didn't just stereotype and make false assumptions about the ladies here and address your post.

No one is misreading what you're saying. We read what you said and repeated in multiple posts.

Communication, it helps not make an ass out of you and me.

And I don't agree with you at all. Talking about sex is SEXY, IT'S HOT, MAKES ME HOT....I LOVE IT. When I talk with my guy about sex, it might as well be another form of foreplay. We talk about what we did, what we want to do next, what turns us on, what we want to do again...etc. etc. I love it.

Communication is SEXY. If anything, it makes me want him more when we talk about sex. In fact it does.

 

[petite]

Okay, let's pretend you didn't just stereotype and make false assumptions about the ladies here and address your post.

No one is misreading what you're saying. We read what you said and repeated in multiple posts.

Communication, it helps not make an ass out of you and me.

And I don't agree with you at all. Talking about sex is SEXY, IT'S HOT, MAKES ME HOT....I LOVE IT. When I talk with my guy about sex, it might as well be another form of foreplay. We talk about what we did, what we want to do next, what turns us on, what we want to do again...etc. etc. I love it.

Communication is SEXY. If anything, it makes me want him more when we talk about sex. In fact it does.

Bingo! Talking about what you love should turn your partner on! If it doesn't then you're doing it wrong!

You've described enough times how hot what you like makes you, tell that to the woman you want to have sex with! Make her want to do it because you've made it sound so sexy.

 

[TheBoyfriend]

Petite- I did read the posts maybe you should reread mine cos I think you missed what I'm saying. I disagree that you always have to talk about it , that ruins the flow it's not sexy. "ah um excuse me, um I was wondering, er um, how hard can I fuck your mouth?" that's kinda not really ideal in my opinion. I think it's better to build up gradually and go by instinct and read her reactions and how much she is into it. If you've had a guy previously shove your head down too far past your threshold and you have a small mouth and throat I can see how that would piss you off.

Fleur - I respect that not every girl is into the rougher side of sex, I appreciate the feedback.

Heh from the tone of your original question I'm guessing you don't currently have a girl that is willing to let you do this... so no; you always have to ask. Eventually, asking doesn't need to be verbal. It can be a glance or a touch or gentle pressure, but this is not something you can pull off from the start. If this is a one night stand, a fling or your first time, then the two of you are not in sync enough to communicate in this way. Start with something simple like "squeeze my wrist if I'm hurting you" before you start being forceful.

You need to know where the lines are, a woman who is actually afraid she'll be hurt is usually not turned on. Even those who like it a little rough will not be willing to let you ramp it up if they don't trust you in the shallow end first. So in conclusion listen to the ladies, not the letters to penthouse. The former are much more fun in the dark.

 

[Alex_Delarge]

Look like I said I respect that some people are not into rough at all and vanila blowjobs work for some. Thanks for your feedback, I would like to know what other women feel about it specifically first hand from women who like "rougher" blowjobs and facefucking.

As I've posted earlier yes I have a gf right now who likes it rougher than most, I love it and make home porn with her and have an awesome sex life. She does not like gagging and can't do deepthroat but she likes me to take control and facefuck her, I don't push her down more than she can handle unless it's an accident or I'm a little carried away but she still always comes back for more even if she gags or chokes on my cock. She loves my cum and almost always swallows every drop.

 

[petite]

Cool story bro

 

[Pitbull]

If we are done discussing:
Do some women actually like to be gagged with a large penis?

can the next topic be:
Do some women actually have a bite reflex when gagged with a large penis?

 

[Alex_Delarge]

Funny pic, So that's supposed to mean you think I'm making it up? Well that's fine It doesn't bother me if you believe that, but what I posted is true. I'm not on this site to make up bullshit about myself. I've joined up here since I recently started doing pe and that's how I found this site. I noticed there are women posting on here so I thought I would ask about something I've been interested in.

I appreciate your comments and opinions and respect that but I would now like to read some comments from others as you've made your position clear. Not saying your points are not valid just saying different people have different views and preferences.

 

[petite]

If we are done discussing:
Do some women actually like to be gagged with a large penis?

can the next topic be:
Do some women actually have a bite reflex when gagged with a large penis?

Everyone other than Alex knows that the answer to that question is "Yes!"

He's still waiting for real women to show up and tell him that they love it when a guy forces a brutal facefuck on them without discussing it beforehand or establishing trust, and who won't call it rape because as women they're naturally submissive and awed by large cocks and masculinity and long to be dominated.

 

[someone1]

Okay, let's pretend you didn't just stereotype and make false assumptions about the ladies here and address your post.

No one is misreading what you're saying. We read what you said and repeated in multiple posts.

Communication, it helps not make an ass out of you and me.

And I don't agree with you at all. Talking about sex is SEXY, IT'S HOT, MAKES ME HOT....I LOVE IT. When I talk with my guy about sex, it might as well be another form of foreplay. We talk about what we did, what we want to do next, what turns us on, what we want to do again...etc. etc. I love it.

Communication is SEXY. If anything, it makes me want him more when we talk about sex. In fact it does.

definatly agree with that

 

[Alex_Delarge]

Everyone other than Alex knows that the answer to that question is "Yes!"

He's still waiting for real women to show up and tell him that they love it when a guy forces a brutal facefuck on them without discussing it beforehand or establishing trust, and who won't call it rape because as women they're naturally submissive and awed by large cocks and masculinity and long to be dominated.

I don't know what your trying to achieve by misrepresenting what I've posted. There really is no need to get your panties in a twist, I'm not advocating anything non consentual, try to accept that people have different sexual preferences to your own.

I'm sorry if you've had bad experiences in the past, maybe you've been gagged down too harshly in the past or something and that made you angry at the guy(s) who did it to you, but please don't take it out on me, ok just asking for different opinions and experiences, and you've stated yours so please refrain from jacking this thread, thanks

 

[petite]

I don't know what your trying to achieve by misrepresenting what I've posted. There really is no need to get your panties in a twist, I'm not advocating anything non consentual, try to accept that people have different sexual preferences to your own.

I'm sorry if you've had bad experiences in the past, maybe you've been gagged down too harshly in the past or something and that made you angry at the guy(s) who did it to you, but please don't take it out on me, ok just asking for different opinions and experiences, and you've stated yours so please refrain from jacking this thread, thanks

I'm just telling you how I would react if someone ever did what you keep proposing.

No one has ever done that to me. You keep assuming that all the women who dislike a rough facefuck have had someone do that to them. Most of the women who post regularly on LPSG have already answered this thread and most of them have already told you that they don't like it. I guaranteed it's not because someone else traumatized them, it's because it's not the way they like to be treated in a sexual situation and most other men seem to understand that instinctively. You just aren't listening.

You really aren't listening because I like rough blowjobs. Remember the posts where I talked about liking it? I love a rough blowjob with TheBoyfriend. I've only written about blowjobs about 100 times on LPSG and at least twice in this thread. He gets more blowjobs than any straight man on LPSG, I'm sure of it, because it's one of my kinks. I watch blowjob porn and I'm the one who insists on more of it. Remember how I wrote about watching blowjobs in porn? Most women don't. However, he wouldn't have gotten a woman who loves giving him blowjobs blowing him all the time if he'd tried forcing me to be rougher, which is what I've been trying to tell you.

I'm talking about your "I don't want to talk about it first, just push her head down, then manhandle her more, then more, then more" method is a terrible idea! She's going to freak out at some point. I was talking to TheBoyfriend about it and he thought you were nuts. He actually said, "I'd expect a woman to punch a guy in the balls eventually if he did that."

 

[Alex_Delarge]

I've personally never experienced a reaction like that, not even close. Once again, I'm not talking about brutally slamming my cock down the girls throat if she is not into it. And yes it does seem like your speaking from experience.

How many time do I have to say this; I would build up the intensity gradually to get a feel for how much she can take and enjoys taking. In my experience itsnt that hard to figure out if a girl is into facefucking, if she is not into it I would ease off. But without the intensity I'm not really feeling it and I wouldn't even bother trying to get off from the bj if the girl couldn't take it and wasn't into it.

 

[petite]

I've personally never experienced a reaction like that, not even close. Once again, I'm not talking about brutally slamming my cock down the girls throat if she is not into it. And yes it does seem like your speaking from experience.

How many time do I have to say this; I would build up the intensity gradually to get a feel for how much she can take and enjoys taking. In my experience itsnt that hard to figure out if a girl is into facefucking, if she is not into it I would ease off. But without the intensity I'm not really feeling it and I wouldn't even bother trying to get off from the bj if the girl couldn't take it and wasn't into it.

I'm just lying? Why would I lie? I can't think of a single reason why I would lie about that.

See this is why you keep annoying me. If I told you the sky was blue, you'd insist it wasn't.

Shouldn't you be writing a guidebook for other men by now since you know that all the women here are just lying or they have biased opinions because they've had negative experiences that for some unknown reason they're unwilling to admit to and you are the only one here who really knows the truth about how to get a rough facefuck from women?

May I ask, if you already have so much success with women who like it and with your method of getting rough facefucks, then why are you seeking the opinions of women? Why do you need anyone to tell you anything?

 

[Alex_Delarge]

Petite- I'm not talking about forcing the girl to take a rougher bj than she can handle. I want to see how much she can handle and ease off when I find that max level of intensity she enjoys. As you know communication is not all verbal, I agree talking about it is not a bad idea at all I'm not saying that.

 

[petite]

Petite- I'm not talking about forcing the girl to take a rougher bj than she can handle. I want to see how much she can handle and ease off when I find that max level of intensity she enjoys. As you know communication is not all verbal, I agree talking about it is not a bad idea at all I'm not saying that.

Non-verbal communication is also easily misunderstood.

This is the scenario I envision:

1st BJ: Level 1 Roughness, no complaints

2nd BJ: Level 2 Roughness, no complaints

3rd BJ: Level 3 Roughness, no complaints

4th BJ: Level 4 Roughness, She stops in the middle, gets angry at you and leaves

See, you thought that accepting level 1-3 roughness meant that you could ramp it up more, but she's thinking, "He keeps getting more and more violent with me" and she gets more and more worried by your behavior during a BJ. Then you hit a certain level of roughness and it's the final straw. You went too far without discussing it. She's learned that you're just getting more forceful and forceful and then she's afraid of you and wants nothing more to do with you because you're acting in a scarier and scarier way when your penis is in her mouth. Your method loses her trust.

It's not a good idea.

You'll have more success getting a woman to do what you want if you tell her what you want from her and you talk about it! You need to talk about it with her before you use any force with her. If you aren't close enough to discuss it, then your relationship isn't ready for a brutal facefuck yet. It requires her trust in you.

 

[Alex_Delarge]

Good points but It's simply not true that the reaction goes from nothing to max with zero inbetween

I don't think we disagree as much as you think we do. The only point of disagreement I'm reading is you insist verbal communication is the only way while im saying i think body language can be just as good.

I'm not calling you a liar it just came accross that it was from experience. Incidentally you implied I was making up the "story" about my current gf. Let's just agree to disagree and not continue this circular shit ok. No hard feelings...

 

[petite]

Good points but It's simply not true that the reaction goes from nothing to max with zero inbetween

I don't think we disagree as much as you think we do. The only point of disagreement I'm reading is you insist verbal communication is the only way while im saying i think body language can be just as good.

I'm not calling you a liar it just came accross that it was from experience. Incidentally you implied I was making up the "story" about my current gf. Let's just agree to disagree and not continue this circular shit ok. No hard feelings...

Re-read it. I described what's happening with her internally. She didn't go from zero to max on the 4th BJ, she went from zero to max between the first BJ and the fourth one. You just finally crossed the line on the fourth one because you made assumptions you shouldn't have made.

Seriously, if you're incapable of discussing these things beforehand, you aren't mature enough to be doing this with a woman. Even if a woman loves it, you still need to discuss things verbally before you ever do anything involving force in a sexual situation.

Regarding LPSG, I don't lie here. If I don't want to disclose something, I don't bring it up, but I don't lie. I've admitted to many embarrassing and personal things here. Blowjobs happens to be a topic I discuss often on LPSG.

I didn't mean to imply that you were lying about your girlfriend.

 

[Alex_Delarge]

Why do you think it's all just "internal" ? Like I/other guys are completely oblivious to what she is going through, there's always a gray area from enjoment to storming out, there's gona be detectable agony before the girl just snaps suddenly. Most likely the first sign would be she is gripping hard on the shaft using the stopper technique or she it pulling her head away from the cock, resisting it. As if I couldn't feel the tension in her neck if I'm pushing her head a little harder than she enjoys?

 

[petite]

I'm going to repeat this, because this two points need to be reiterated:

-If you're incapable of discussing these things beforehand, you aren't mature enough to be doing this with a woman.

-Even if a woman loves something involving force, you still need to discuss things verbally before you ever do anything involving force in a sexual situation.

Your incredible reluctance to talk about any of it with the woman giving you oral sex indicates that you shouldn't be doing this at all.

 

[Alex_Delarge]

It could be a look she gives me or a facial expression or her breathing or moaning that indicates if she can't take it, and I would ease off