Do some women actually like to be gagged with a large penis?

[Fleur]

Maybe you can't fathom how this could be possible but some women can tell the guy how hard they want it without having a conversation beforehand. Also when you meet someone you get a an idea of the type of person they are before you have sex so you can use that as your baseline I guess.

Eg, if I take home some slutty type of girl thats grabbing at my cock within minutes of meeting her and shes got heaps of tats on her neck and arms, studs in her face tounge nipples and clit, before I've done anything I'm gona ramp up my baseline just on first impression. If i was with some real cute quiet petite shy chick, I would start off much slower, if she wasn't giving me decent signals I wouldn't expect the quiet shy chick loves it rough from the start.

Don't judge a book by it's cover. That girl with the tats and peircings who is sexually liberated might not like to be fucked in the mouth...

Just because a girl has tattoos and piercings doesn't mean she's a slut who likes it rough.

That cute shy girl might like it rough, how do you know? I've been called cute and shy. I have no tattoos or piercings. My guy wouldn't have known I like it a bit rough if we hadn't talked about it and established the trust we have together. The first time I gave him a blowjob he was gentle with me, he knew I was shy...we talked about it before during and afterward, he asked if he could fuck my mouth more next time, be a little more rough, and I said yes.

This thread has become quite nauseating...obviously you're going to do what you want regardless of our opinions.

 

[Fleur]

I'm concerned about the majority of men who misread "no" signals or signals indicating friendliness as "yes" and sexual interest. Did you read those articles? Men are completely illiterate when trying to read women's body language.

"slutty"? How can you tell she's slutty and that means she wants it hard?

Exactly...

What Alex wants you to say is, "Oh Alex, you really know best. You know better what the ladies want."

 

[Alex_Delarge]

Pfft I'm not claiming that I know better about what women want, but you can't speak for all women, even if you can probably represent the opinion of most of the bell curve.

And come on seriously you can tell a lot about a person by even first impression. It's always possible that the cute innocent shy chick loves it rough and the slutty cock grabbing biker chick is an innocent princess in bed, but it's not as likely. We do this all the time, we look at someone shoes, hair, clothes. The tone of voice the type of language they use etc.

 

[Alex_Delarge]

Apparently some (very freaky) women who are into rough facefucking/throatfucking can get euphoric from the reduced air supply. Supposedly the lack of oxygen caused by the airway being obstructed with cock for extended periods of time causes them to feel high. Anyone have experience with this?

 

[xxuxu]

Apparently some (very freaky) women who are into rough facefucking/throatfucking can get euphoric from the reduced air supply. Supposedly the lack of oxygen caused by the airway being obstructed with cock for extended periods of time causes them to feel high. Anyone have experience with this?

I dunno, my ex just liked the psychological domination, as did I. :smile:

 

[Alex_Delarge]

I was facefucking my girlfriend 2 days ago. I was holding her head and pumping my cock into her mouth, pulling out all the way and shoving it back in pretty deep. She was enjoying it as well but I shoved it in too deep on the instroke combined with pushing her head down at the same time and my cock hit her gag reflex pretty hard. She gagged quite strongly and it made her cough up.

When this happened it turned me on and after facefucking her for a short while longer I blew shortly after that. Does this make me a bad person that I enjoyed making her gag on my cock? She doesn't like gagging or choking at all but I think that she does find the domination a turn on. She does not complain afterwards and she enjoys the experience over all so it's not really a problem for her as far as I can tell. She is happy to give my head and does it regularly.

Is it ok to occasionally push her too far to the point of gagging or choking on cock or should I go a bit easier on her?

 

[D_76froy]

I had a former gf who loved for me to shove my cock down her throat and make her gag. She really enjoyed having my cock fucking her throat, and she would beg me to stick it in as deep as possible while fucking her face. It's not for everyone, but it made her cum and me too!

 

[B_subgirrl]

Is it ok to occasionally push her too far to the point of gagging or choking on cock or should I go a bit easier on her?

My instinct is to say no it is not OK. Once over the knee jerk reaction, my response is 'ask her'. Don't just go with subtle signs of approval here. Ask her outright if she minds/is turned on etc. If she enjoys it, go for it.

 

[molarman]

my "mistress" loves it... but of course at appropriate times when we are having "naughty" sex... she will ask me to fuck her face, and loves for me to hold her head... I had not been fortunate enough before to have a woman that enjoyed this... so at first, I would find myself asking her if she was Ok, or I was being to rough... but she would tell me to do what I wanted, and that she would say if things went beyond a tolerable point. Must say, after relaxing, it was rather enjoyable.. and it is really kinky. I think communication is paramount like it is in all aspects of the relationship.. talk about it

 

[B_VinylBoy]

Gotta be honest here... I don't understand how people can get into the sounds of someone choking and gagging. Doesn't sound like "fun" to me. :sad:

 

[Enid]

She was enjoying it as well but I shoved it in too deep on the instroke combined with pushing her head down at the same time and my cock hit her gag reflex pretty hard. She gagged quite strongly and it made her cough up.

Is it ok to occasionally push her too far to the point of gagging or choking on cock or should I go a bit easier on her?

My advice is similar to subgirl's -- do not take subtle indications she likes it at face value. Talk to her frankly, and establish a safe word and/or gesture. It would be a good thing for her to have a way to let you know when you're about to go too far since there is danger of vomiting and possible physical damage.

 

[bigbiboy]

No!
Only in porno, not in real life. Remember those girls in porn are only doing it for the money, real women deserve a bit of respect.

 

[B_625girth]

I have never met a woman who enjoyed that. I'm over 6" in girth, and I appreciate a woman who can go half way down by cock on a BJ. it really makes no difference to me, it still feels good. it's a good way to shorten my recovery time, and I don't have a power or dominance thing going on. my wife used to surprise me sometimes with 'BJ out of the blue'. push me in the bedroom and pull my pants off. I'd asked why? what did I do? "for being a good man, my man. you are special, rare." i'd think wow, suck away. don't get that anymore, cock worshipping can be a real good thing.

 

[DasLeezard]

I believe in Quid Pro Quo... so if a guy decides it would be fine to forcefully shove his dick down my throat, I, in turn, get to shove my fist down his throat and open and close my hand a few times.

 

[divisiblebyzero]

I have had 3 girls that were into it. two were determined to get all of me in their mouth, which never happened and one was just a freak. As long as she is into it I love it and it gets me off very hard

 

[Belly_Dancer]

I don't gag too much with face-fucking (although I have had a little more problem lately than before, I don't know why).

Anyway, my biggest issue with face-fucking is not having time to breathe -- I understand if you are getting close to orgasm and don't want to stop pumping, but you have got to let me breathe and if it goes on long enough I will forcefully push you away so I can take a breath.

I gag the most with deep-throating, but that is different than face-fucking. My husband can't thrust hardly at all when he is inside my throat or I will gag. I can handle a few gags without having to stop, but there comes a point where I have to take a break or I will hurl. I wish I could overcome all my gag reflexes, but I don't know if that time will ever come.

In the meantime, yes, I like to be used roughly, but I really don't enjoy gagging.

 

[BlkWthThk11]

I don't gag too much with face-fucking (although I have had a little more problem lately than before, I don't know why).

Anyway, my biggest issue with face-fucking is not having time to breathe -- I understand if you are getting close to orgasm and don't want to stop pumping, but you have got to let me breathe and if it goes on long enough I will forcefully push you away so I can take a breath.

I gag the most with deep-throating, but that is different than face-fucking. My husband can't thrust hardly at all when he is inside my throat or I will gag. I can handle a few gags without having to stop, but there comes a point where I have to take a break or I will hurl. I wish I could overcome all my gag reflexes, but I don't know if that time will ever come.

In the meantime, yes, I like to be used roughly, but I really don't enjoy gagging.

reasonable response to a rather pointless question? Who in the world would like to gag and the writer had to write and ask for opinions on that ??????

 

[BlkWthThk11]

I am not intending to be rude or insulting but I can not imagine anyone liking to gag and being turned on by that feeling of nausea and inability to breathe. I am even more curious of all the questions that are worth asking in the realm of the world of sex why one would need to write and ask opinions about such a thing. Ask her and move on.

 

[B_lauaraneeds]

My college boyfriend was very large. He forced me to gag on him all through college. He would shove all the way down my throat and some times I could not talk for days. (Found out from another male friend after college he would brag that I could not talk because he fucked my throat with his big black dick) The sad part was I loved him and wanted him to be happy. I did what he asked. He made me do anal and it hurt like hell! But I loved him. He did a lot of things that I now now were not out of love and was from porn. After graduation he dumped me and basically said he was done using me. To me there's nothing more degrading to a woman, unless she wants to do it!

Now I'm with a man who could not make me gag with his little dick if he wanted to, but he would never try even if he good...

 

[nohidingstyle]

Gotta be honest here... I don't understand how people can get into the sounds of someone choking and gagging. Doesn't sound like "fun" to me.

It's a confirmation of the idea that your penis is "too much/big". I love it and my girlfriend loves getting gagged, face-fucked etc... She likes being choked and feeling slutty. She also gets my respect and we know each others' boundaries.