20 year old guy here. I'm actually seeing a girl at the moment who loves being forced to deep throat, even to the point of gagging, and is extremely turned on by being submissive. Now that we have a rapport and know each other well, we sometimes play this game where I'll hold her head down and and eventually she'll start to push back and fight, and I'll hold it for a few seconds more and then let go, and then she'll keep my cock down her throat and put my hands back in her hair and push herself for another 15 seconds or so. It is astonishingly hot, I've never met anyone quite like her haha, I can't imagine that very many girls are into that. I wouldn't be down to be forcibly choked, so I totally understand. I certainly wouldn't ever ask for this let alone force the issue from the get go, with her it just kind of escalated to that point.
Specifically, this didn't happen the first time we hooked up, we kind of gradually built up to it by hooking up and by talking dirty via texting. She'd text things like
" Mmmm I want to taste your cum again while you choke me. Although you'd better start an all pineapple diet."
(This is a direct quote lol). Needless to say I could not be happier...
That said, to my fellow guys, bear in mind that some girls get turned on by the thought of something but would be terrified of it in practice. I've even dated someone who had actual rape fantasies, like by random strangers. THIS DOES NOT MEAN SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN COOL WITH RAPE. This kind of "duality" is perfectly allowed, and doesn't give you the right to abuse a woman in the moment. Even after she texted me a bunch of stuff like that, if she'd come up in tears (like the scared kind) the first time I choked her I would have felt
awful and never would have done it again.
@Alex_Delarge I think what many of the women on this site are objecting to is your implication that most women are instinctively as kinky and specifically as submissive as you would prefer
your partner to be. Comments like "You know you love it when..." or "you know you like a powerful cock," shit like that is just insulting when said to someone you don't know, even if saying it turns you on. I've been known to play for both teams lol, but if I said to you "You know you love a big, throbbing cock in your ass," you would rightly object to my arrogance and my assumptions!
Anyway that's my take on the various arguments presented here; in answer to your original question
yes there do exist women who like being forced to gag on cock. Probably not a huge percentage at all. No this does not give you permission to be an asshole to them, and certainly not to assume anything about other women.
My advice is to take it slow and be respectful and careful, and eventually if you're as lucky as me you'll find a partner who is as submissive as you are dominant; you'll be able to (with her loving consent) tie her up, fuck her ass and pussy and throat in whatever order you choose lol, gag her on your cock, and she'll love you for it.
Just as a personal aside I'm not always this much of a dom haha, same girl often ties my hands behind my back and rides my face with her pussy for hours; god I love that...