Do some women not care about oral?

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  1. Swole2112

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    I suppose this question is kind of mute when considering that my wife/fiancee' likes it.

    Anyway, most of the women that I've done oral for loved it. In fact, I think the first women I ever did oral for orgasmed from it. But, there have been a couple of women that didn't seem to get into it at all. I did it for them the same way I did for the other ladies and I wasn't drunk or stoned, nothing.

    So, I guess the question is if there are some women for whom oral does little to nothing. Ladies? Anybody?
     
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    I think it's wonderful personally. It's not just the way it feels, it's looking down at my partner doing it, kissing him afterwards. Such a turn on for me.

    But we all like different things. I'm sure some may not.
     
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    Huge fan of it myself. Best foreplay & sets the stage/primes the pumps for awesome sex.
     
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    Yeah - surprisingly enough all women are not carbon copies of each other. So, and this is really weird like, just as some blokes don't like certain sexual things that other blokes do (ranging from oral sex to prostate massage to foot licking) some women don't like certain things and others do.

    Chicks, huh!?! Go figure :rolleyes:
     
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    I don't like it. I think it feels weird. I'm not comfortable having a guy's face down there. It makes me feel very shy and self conscious.
     
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    It feels somewhat pleasant but really, it's boring and just makes me feel sleepy.

    I like to compare it to massage. A gentle massage just makes me feel sleepy (oral sex), whereas a hard deep massage makes me moan and squirm (penetration).
     
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    I think I made my girlfriend cum with my tongue for the first time the other night. She usually prefers dick.
     
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    you really are always guessing.
     
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    In the flesh.
     
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    You have done exactly what worked on some girls it oughta work on all women.
    I mean where would we get if everyone was different.
    If she tells you she doesn't like it just tell her she has to, because other girls did as well, that works i promise, it is like being a child again and telling your parents that you want more allowance because the neighbors kids are getting more too.
     
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    I suspect that some women are suffering from negative conditioning in their childhoods when they were repeatedly told that their "privates" should stay private. Which is fair enough, we shouldn't be teaching our children to wander around flashing at random. But I think some parents may be too vehement in their teaching. Therefore some girls struggle to let go because in the back of their head they're hearing "this is wrong".

    Of course, there will be some who just don't like the sensation.

    Different strokes....
     
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    I can understand this struggle. I even agree with what one poster said about being embarassed/ uncomfortable about it to a degree. BUT once I relax I enjoy it very much. I'm not asking for it, so if he does it, it is because he wants to which leads me to believe I have nothing to be embarassed about. Breaking out of the mold I grew up in can be difficult at times.
     
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    That's how I feel too. I mean it's nice and all but it doesn't get me anywhere. Fingers are my preference. Fingers + oral is nice too, but I usually tell them they can skip the oral part. Only two guys have really knocked my socks off in that department. I have no clue what they were doing...but damn.

    I wouldn't say it makes me sleepy, but it doesn't get me all hot and bothered either.
     
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    I couldn't agree more. It is definately embarassing but it can be worth it. I wouldn't do it someone I didn't seriously care about ever but if everything is right.....it's better than anything else.
     
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    I've never slept with a woman that didn't enjoy it but a few of them couldn't orgasm from it. They needed penetration to cum. So for them it was just like this drawn out tease that would eventually have them asking for sex. Personally, I love to go down on women. For whatever reason, making a girl cum from oral turns me on a ton. That being said, watching porn where a woman is receiving oral - boring as hell to me. It's really interesting reading what you ladies have posted. Enlightening!
     
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    Point taken. Here's a perfect example, getting head. I think it feels good and I like it, but I don't think it's the end all, be all. While I have guy friends who say they couldn't live without it.
     
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    Man licking pussy = gross to me

    Girl licking pussy, when it's wet and sloppy, with good camera angles, is the most erotic thing I've ever seen.
     
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    Personally I can't live without sex or head.
     
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    I would agree, have no problem watching girls go down on each other. Double standard for sure. :p
     
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    I personally love oral - and I agree with Rubenesque women have received too much pre-conditioning that their genitalia is something that is "bad" or should be "ashamed of". I went through that phase of getting over that and I love oral with my BF!!

    I think the key is listening to your partner and listening to what she likes and how she likes to receive it - just like I listen to my BF about how he likes to receive his BJ's.

    Bring on the oral!
     
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