Do Straight Men 100% Enjoy Sex Between A Man And A Woman?

[mxguy52]

I am a gay man. and for the most part, I don't enjoy straight porn, obviously because of the female.
It stands to reason that straight men don't necessarily enjoy 100% of the sex between a male and a female.

To my understanding, most porn consumed by men is between a male and a female, even though you have lesbian porn as well.

The way I see it. straight men should only enjoy female on female action only

Do straight men really enjoy watching the guy in action?

 

[Sagittarius84]

I am a gay man. and for the most part, I don't enjoy straight porn, obviously because of the female.
It stands to reason that straight men don't necessarily enjoy 100% of the sex between a male and a female.

To my understanding, most porn consumed by men is between a male and a female, even though you have lesbian porn as well.

The way I see it. straight men should only enjoy female on female action only

Do straight men really enjoy watching the guy in action?

Straight men typically live/act vicariously through the male porn performer. We lust after the female actress, we aspire or relate to the male actor. Though "lesbian" porn can be titillating, in general men seek PIV sex and so seek visuals that demonstrate this.
A parallel would be men and sports fandom, fans didn't spend years imagining they were playing against Jordan, Kobe or LeBron, the fantasy lies in somehow being those individuals in a metaphysical way, we dont sit around asking why someone would observe an athlete that would beat them in their respective sport.

 

[ronin001]

Kind of what @Sagittarius84 said.

 

[Sagittarius84]

Honestly, I cant decide whether it's odd, annoying, or some combination of both that this question keeps coming up...and never really from women(past young adulthood) but from bisexual/gay men.
It's either this ongoing straight baiting campaign where gay guys think they're going to "Tiger King" some confused heteros into their camp, or some dissonant inability to recognize how porn is no different in its avatar-esque appeal to straight men than video games, sports, or any other entertainment media aimed at men. Men(at least straight men) tend to like to see idealized versions of themselves doing stuff, period.

 

[1069369]

The way I see it. straight men should only enjoy female on female action only

Do straight men really enjoy watching the guy in action?

100% srtr8 here. I certainly enjoy watching pornstars like Danny D pound pussy. I find him an inspiration in my own fucking adventures.

As for watching FF action, I’ve actually never been fond of it.

 

[cofrader]

I am a gay man. and for the most part, I don't enjoy straight porn, obviously because of the female.
It stands to reason that straight men don't necessarily enjoy 100% of the sex between a male and a female.

To my understanding, most porn consumed by men is between a male and a female, even though you have lesbian porn as well.

The way I see it. straight men should only enjoy female on female action only

Do straight men really enjoy watching the guy in action?

Rule
229 Latinum lasts longer than lust.
Offer a product that people don’t like is ridiculous.
Just get an ear massage and keep them open.

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

If I didn't know know any better I'd think that the whole premise of the question is to prove any straight man who enjoys watching a woman interact sexually with another man must mean the straight man in question secretly likes dick.

Not sure why I would assume this since it's not like any similar argument has been proposed before here.

 

[deleted1547822]

If I didn't know know any better I'd think that the whole premise of the question is to prove any straight man who enjoys watching a woman interact sexually with another man must mean the straight man in question secretly likes dick.

Not sure why I would assume this since it's not like any similar argument has been proposed before here.

I think he's making a reasonably logical argument, and asking a valid question - especially compared to those we usually get.

Sagittarius has the answer, and it's because different psychology isn't taken into account.

 

[mxguy52]

I don't mean to imply in any way that a straight man secretly likes dick just because he watches MF action. I genuinely want to know what goes in the mind of a straight man. As I explained my perspective, watching MF action is more of a distraction for me even though I focus on the guy.

But I got the general idea from the replies.

 

[steve2727]

Honestly, I don't agree with the idea that straight guys watching straight porn are always putting themselves in the place of the guy in the scene. Personally if I want to imagine myself in a sex scene, I would rather build up the scene from scratch in my head rather than putting myself into some porn. It's more fun and will turn me on more because the scene is tailor made for me.

Straight porn turns me on because watching people fucking just turns me on, on a visceral level I can't explain, I don't want to be the guy, it's just hot as hell watching them go at it.

IDK maybe I'm in the minority that way.

What I would say is that what turns straight guys on is watching women fucking & being fucked. For that you need a guy, or more specifically, you need a cock.

If you actually look at the role the guy plays in porn aimed at straight guys, it's not as a full fledged actor in the scene, he's really there to provide a 'stunt cock', something for her to suck, something to pound her while she bounces and groans.

Most of the time all you see of him is his cock and butt, you rarely see his face unless it's buried in her crotch, he hardly ever talks or makes much noise at all. It's abundantly clear it's not really about him.

So I think most straight guys watching hetero porn want to see a woman getting fucked without thinking a whole lot about who's doing the fucking, and the porn is aimed to make that as easy as possible for them.

 

[Shackleford]

@Sagittarius84 explained it nicely. It’s usually vicarious fantasy where we see ourselves in the guy’s place, but I’ll add another wrinkle. Sometimes with some amateur porn, it feeds my bull fantasies. If the guy’s got a particularly smaller cock or is just generally a lousy lay and the woman looks bored, I’m thinking about how much better I could fuck her.

 

[techpump]

If I didn't know know any better I'd think that the whole premise of the question is to prove any straight man who enjoys watching a woman interact sexually with another man must mean the straight man in question secretly likes dick.

Not sure why I would assume this since it's not like any similar argument has been proposed before here.

This is similar to the "if you look at your own cock when you masturbate, then does that mean you like cock or like men?" I don't get that at all but that's what I've read online by some guys who think they will become (or are) gay for men if they look at their own body while getting off. Makes absolutely no sense to me! I think the guy asking that question is probably questioning their own sexuality, and might be leaning towards gay.

 

[techpump]

Yah I love to see a hottie getting pounded by a decent, hopefully big, cock and see her get off on it. Or just watch the action; watching people have sex is extremely hot to me. I don't put myself in the place of the guy but imagine what I'd do to her if I had the chance to have her. More like "if I could do you from behind, I'd do it like this and hope you got off in similar or more intense ways..." I do prefer to watch larger, more beautiful cocks work with a woman than smaller and not so good to look at cocks. If I'm watching porn, M/F, I want everything on both in the scene to be hot or attractive to me, even if she's way hotter than the guy. My wife prefers scenes with hot guy actors and I do the same! But I don't necessarily want the guy, I just want good looking people, period.

Lesbian porn gets me off extremely hard, its my preference. Even more preferably is solo women scenes. Love to see a woman get herself off alone, I love the intimacy and privacy of that; the honesty of it.

 

[Mickey Finn]

Honestly, I don't agree with the idea that straight guys watching straight porn are always putting themselves in the place of the guy in the scene. Personally if I want to imagine myself in a sex scene, I would rather build up the scene from scratch in my head rather than putting myself into some porn. It's more fun and will turn me on more because the scene is tailor made for me.

Straight porn turns me on because watching people fucking just turns me on, on a visceral level I can't explain, I don't want to be the guy, it's just hot as hell watching them go at it.

IDK maybe I'm in the minority that way.

What I would say is that what turns straight guys on is watching women fucking & being fucked. For that you need a guy, or more specifically, you need a cock.

If you actually look at the role the guy plays in porn aimed at straight guys, it's not as a full fledged actor in the scene, he's really there to provide a 'stunt cock', something for her to suck, something to pound her while she bounces and groans.

Most of the time all you see of him is his cock and butt, you rarely see his face unless it's buried in her crotch, he hardly ever talks or makes much noise at all. It's abundantly clear it's not really about him.

So I think most straight guys watching hetero porn want to see a woman getting fucked without thinking a whole lot about who's doing the fucking, and the porn is aimed to make that as easy as possible for them.

I think you've nailed it. 'Stunt cock' is a very good way of putting it. The men tend not to express themselves very much, other than with their cock. They remain impassive so the male viewer is not distracted and can concentrate on the woman.

 

[longstroke7]

I honestly just like watching people have sex. The woman is what pulls me into it yeah but just watching people having and enjoying sex makes me horny. But for me sexually, I have no desire for anything other than a woman.

 

[merc41]

Jeez what a silly question

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

The reason I find the question (or premise) both suspect and ludicrous is this line:

The way I see it. straight men should only enjoy female on female action only

Yes, as a straight male I have always found scenes of two women together very arousing as it does have the advantage of multiple women being naked and sexual without the distraction of a guy. Thus watching a real-life version with my wife and another woman used to be one of my favorite things when we played with other couples.

However, using the analysis proposed by many here that guys mentally put themselves in the place of the actors, no man, including myself, could be satisfied with only lesbian porn by virtue of the fact that barring a rare threesome with bi-women, the average guy would never find himself in such a real life situation since the participants wouldn't even want him in the picture. Thus at least with watching another guy fuck a woman, any straight man can identify with the situation and how it feels and as others have said, imagine that's his dick doing the fucking.

If we were to go by the OP's premise that straight men should only enjoy lesbian action, then it should follow straight women should only enjoy watching two gay men since there's no distraction of another vagina. Although unlike a large portion of men who like female on female images, the average woman (if this forum and other polls are any indication) does not find guy on guy arousing, especially if compared to opposite gender porn.

In fact although both my wife and myself do enjoy the occasional scene of female on female action, especially since we've experienced it for real, but we still prefer couples porn most of the time, which means just a man and woman fucking since that's the acts we do with each other.

 

[deleted6604521]

I enjoy straight porn for the same reasons that @Sagittarius84 mentioned....I use the visuals of the guy fucking the girl to place myself in the situation. That being said...in order for me to really like a straight porn video...not only does the girl have to be attractive to me, the guy does too. Guess that's where my 1% gay stat goes lol.

 

[svrocks]

Yes. I can relate to it better when it's a man and a woman. Lesbian porn doesn't really do anything for me because I couldn't fully relate to what's going on. It's kinda like watching a regular film really -- the better you can relate to the character or the activity, the more you can immerse yourself in it. So if I couldn't relate to what's happening on the screen somehow then it becomes less enjoyable.

Fetishes are good examples. If it's a fetish that doesn't resonate with me, even if it is a straight porn, then I'm not going to enjoy it.

 

[CobraKai1996]

I am a gay man. and for the most part, I don't enjoy straight porn, obviously because of the female.
It stands to reason that straight men don't necessarily enjoy 100% of the sex between a male and a female.

To my understanding, most porn consumed by men is between a male and a female, even though you have lesbian porn as well.

The way I see it. straight men should only enjoy female on female action only

Do straight men really enjoy watching the guy in action?

Even if people find that question silly like I've seen in some comments above, I think it's clever. I had a friend asking me the same a few days ago. The answer, from my personal point of view and from what I've heard my friends say it's Yes. 100% yes, now I am gonna be more specific, Lesbian porn is hot as well, but sometimes they don't do it for me, there's this "I wanna feel my dick getting something" feeling and you can't get that with only two girls, it can even be frustrating to the point of why in hell do we exist if they can have fun on their own, so yeah that's why I prefer straight porn. About the male models, they don't annoy me, I have a penis and I see it everyday when I take a shower so I ain't seeing anything new, tho I do try to search for performers I can relate to like Johnny Castle, Charles Dera or Lucas Frost.(Big dicks make me feel uncomfortable). That's it, i conclusions "I prefer straight porn and I enjoy it when the girl is smoking hot and the guy is someone I could be"