Do Straight Men Let Another Man Give Them Blowjobs?

[AlteredEgo]

Well, I get a lot of views as you can see. He's been on their solidly for months.:biggrin1:

Not being among your visitors, no I cannot.

 

[deleted15807]

Originally Posted by sargon20 View Post
Is that your view or do you have evidence this is so? What about being gay wrecks a marriage? Are you assuming these people are sneaking out to have sex? That's a trait that isn't unique to homosexuality.

Are gay men unable to love their wives and children? Are these men happy enough in their lives that even though they harbor sexual desires and thoughts for the same sex they can be happy in an opposite sex relationship?

What about women who just want a "normal" life and to live right perhaps in the eyes of their family and God? Are their lives "wrecked" as well?

Again orientation is not behavior and is not necessarily who you love.

If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with. It's trite but it does work.

I think this is an excellent answer. There is way more to love and relationships than sex

Wholeheartedly agree. For a few here that seems to be the sole focus.

None of this suggests homosexual acts though. It suggests maybe competition with other men, or maybe wishing you had the qualities of another man, but it does not mean you want to be with one.

It is competition and a certain degree of 'admiration' I think but yes it does not dovetail into 'desire'. Guys have always and will always look. It's how men are, women much less so.

"Dick free" porn like lesbian porn (e.g. "No Man's Land") is not very popular nor is porn with "small" dicks and men who are the vast majority of porn buyers/viewers seem to clue in on and demand "large' dicks in their porn. Maybe it's 'I'd like to fuck her with that ginormous dick that guy has'? I don't know.

 

[622675]

No one ever said human relationships could be easily explained. We all have them but I expect most people have never tried to understand why they think/behave as they do.

B. F Skinner’s work with positive and negative reinforcement likely explains much of why we get turned on by seeing someone else having sex, masturbating, or just looking at a favorite body part. We know what sex feels like so our mental and physical systems join in with some character in the video, novel, or memory we have. It’s a common human process. For example, people who study diabetic issues report that just the thought of eating bread can significantly increase insulin production and activate the digestive process.

I agree with bigbull69 and others who report that competition, admiration, and ownership may explain some of why most men like to study / see all things dicks; and that this behavior is “normal”. However it is my hunch that there is more to the phenomena. Here is one antidote / example I can’t explain.

I don’t travel through the Internet porn world a great deal, mostly because of virus or malware threats. When I do go exploring, my hits are almost 100% gay. When there is a choice on a site I identify as gay and select only gay material. So why is it that 80% of the time and after viewing totally hardcore gay video that the host site throws me back to some form of live female sex view and chat site?

Since these sites are there to make money, I can only conclude that the host site knows who their customer base is. It must be men who get all charged up on XXX gay sex fantasies, and then are willing to pay female models for another kind of thrill. Or perhaps gay men need some form of alternative relief. How can this be explained?

 

[milwjocknow]

The answer to the OP is this: Most straight men do NOT want/allow/wish for gay men to suck their penis.

Enough said already.

 

[BIGBULL29]

You can't read people's sexual fantasies, no matter how gay or straight they identify as. We can only take men at their word...and considering that male homosexuality and many other sexual fantasies are taboo, we can only expect major lies.

What is online and its popularity tells a bigger picture of who men are sexually.

 

[deleted871301]

Why don't we put this to the test...

I challenge every gay man that thinks straight men let gay dudes blow them to do the following:-

Tomorrow, walk up to the first straight guy you know and offer to suck his dick...

Report back as follows:- You only need to respond with a number

1 You received a blue eye

2 You got told to fuck off

3 You received a black eye

The results should be interesting... if not predictable...

 

[milwjocknow]

And, on the flip side... Speaking as a gay man. I have never had a desire to suck a straight mans penis. Part of that is because I know where those dicks have been. And nothing about that excites me. Plus, if I'm sucking a mans dick, it means there is something more than sexual excitement involved..... Why would I suck someone's dick, who doesn't like me? It just seems weird.

 

[deleted871301]

And, on the flip side... Speaking as a gay man. I have never had a desire to suck a straight mans penis. Part of that is because I know where those dicks have been. And nothing about that excites me. Plus, if I'm sucking a mans dick, it means there is something more than sexual excitement involved..... Why would I suck someone's dick, who doesn't like me? It just seems weird.

I agree... These men are straight for a good reason... I am always a good friend to straight men but sexually... let the women have them

 

[Neller]

You can't read people's sexual fantasies, no matter how gay or straight they identify as. We can only take men at their word...and considering that male homosexuality and many other sexual fantasies are taboo, we can only expect major lies.

What is online and its popularity tells a bigger picture of who men are sexually.

So here's the top 5 pornhub searches for the US in 2014
1: Lesbian
2: Stepmom
3: teen
4: cartoon
5: milf
http://www.pornhub.com/insights/2014-year-in-review/

Seems like people are looking for women mostly, not whatever you think they're doing (one of your favorites, gangbang, is 19th).

 

[BIGBULL29]

So here's the top 5 pornhub searches for the US in 2014
1: Lesbian
2: Stepmom
3: teen
4: cartoon
5: milf
2014 Year In Review – Pornhub Insights

Seems like people are looking for women mostly, not whatever you think they're doing (one of your favorites, gangbang, is 19th).

And there are big dicks in all of them! Even lesbian porn has to have dildos to satisfy straight men entirely.:biggrin1:

I read different results from different sites.

Lesbian porn doesn't sell nearly as much as boy-girl porn. I know that is a fact.

Big Cock and gangbangs are huge categories in every porn site. They can be seen in the genres listed above except lesbian.

I actually watch a lot of lesbian porn (I'm being serious.).

Different sites give different ratings. I'm looking at one now that says "Cream pie" is #4.

 

[Hatt_101]

I'm glad that the majority of the gay men here are like Durbanville and milwjocknow. I wish invisibleman was still here too

And from reading from Alteregos post, bull the only reason my name would show up is because when people are talking to you here I some times unblock you to see if you actually post something that is logical but it never is so you stay on the ignore list.

 

[bloodshot69]

So here's the top 5 pornhub searches for the US in 2014
1: Lesbian
2: Stepmom
3: teen
4: cartoon
5: milf
2014 Year In Review – Pornhub Insights

Seems like people are looking for women mostly, not whatever you think they're doing (one of your favorites, gangbang, is 19th).

Oh no! We can't let actual facts get in the way of this "discussion"!!

 

[bloodshot69]

Just for fun, more facts...

I don't see many search terms related to cocks in there...

 

[BIGBULL29]

According to the search engine Dogpile — which provided the authors with search data from Google, Yahoo! and Bing — the Top 10 sex-related searches are variations of these terms:


1. Youth (13.5%)
2. Gay (4.7%)
3. MILFs (4.3%)
4. Breasts (4%)
5. Cheating wives (3.4%)
6. Vaginas (2.8%)
7. Penises (2.4%)
8. (Blocked out in the book — too dirty even for the authors?)
9. Butts (.9%)
10. Cheerleaders (.1%)


You’re not as kinky as you think | New York Post

 

[hung9mike]

You can't read people's sexual fantasies, no matter how gay or straight they identify as.

I think that a lot of us have idle fantasies that will remain just that... we have no intention of ever realizing them. I wouldn't take those fantasies as being exemplary of who we are sexually. What matters is sexual behavior.

That having been said: The sexual behavior of straight men is to have sexual experiences exclusively with women. That is the bottom line and, honestly, so simple to grasp that I can't believe that this thread has gone on for 7 years and over 2000 posts. If a man is having sex with other men at least some of the time, there are other terms to describe his sexual behavior. No amount of rationalizing, wishing, or pretending changes this reality.

 

[hoviscocker]

so I have read through the end of this thread for a while now... I have come to the conclusion... that i am going to go live in the woods... on my own...and fish with a sharpened stick...bye

 

[chadstallion]

so I have read through the end of this thread for a while now... I have come to the conclusion... that i am going to go live in the woods... on my own...and fish with a sharpened stick...bye

that's too bad; I'd be happy to cum visit and service that cock of yours; loved the jack off vid! it would be a waste to not share.:smile:

 

[milwjocknow]

Why is there a debate? Why would anyone ask? The answer is easy. No.
If a so called straight man wants men to suck his dick, he is bisexual.
It's 2015. It's OK . Let your freak flag fly, bisexual man sucking men! Unite!

 

[AlteredEgo]

And there are big dicks in all of them! Even lesbian porn has to have dildos to satisfy straight men entirely.:biggrin1:

I read different results from different sites.

Lesbian porn doesn't sell nearly as much as boy-girl porn. I know that is a fact.

Big Cock and gangbangs are huge categories in every porn site. They can be seen in the genres listed above except lesbian.

I actually watch a lot of lesbian porn (I'm being serious.).

Different sites give different ratings. I'm looking at one now that says "Cream pie" is #4.

You do know that porn fantasy is usually about projection, and a man cannot project his desire into a situation in which he is not represented, don't you? Many men either have a large erection, or fantasize about having one, and watching big dick porn is a vicarious experience. Notice you don't see the men's faces much in straight porn, but you always get plenty of chances to see the woman's face. If he has no face, he might as well be the viewer. Look how much straight porn is POV.

 

[BIGBULL29]

You do know that porn fantasy is usually about projection, and a man cannot project his desire into a situation in which he is not represented, don't you? Many men either have a large erection, or fantasize about having one, and watching big dick porn is a vicarious experience. Notice you don't see the men's faces much in straight porn, but you always get plenty of chances to see the woman's face. If he has no face, he might as well be the viewer. Look how much straight porn is POV.

Face or no faces makes little difference (I see quite a few men's faces in straight porn): men, in general, are still attracted to the penis by nature. Penis is a "sexual organ" that makes men feel good. Peni are not looked in porn like a pretty landscape, or a lightbulb on a theatre set. It's there to sexually arouse the man; otherwise it would serve no purpose, and thus porn would all be just women's bodies (and it's anything but...)

People again downplay the taboo of male homosexuality in culture. It's sad that saying you're attracted to the peni makes you sound gay when all men have a penis themselves.

All that nonsense about "men are just props" is rooted in homophobia. Men can do all they want to hide their phallic attractions, etc, but they can't. That's why we have DP's, DV's, biggest black cocks, etc.....and sometime no face (makes the man feel straighter).

It's strange, however, that most men in straight porn can't identify as 100% but all their viewers do. Does a man's doing porn bring out repressed gay? If all men made porn, the stringent labels might dissolve forever into absurdity.