The idea that anyone is totally straight or totally gay is constantly challenged by the ratings members here give themselves, "90% straight, 10% gay," etc. I was convinced that I was TOTALLY straight until I was 23 years old. I knew I enjoyed watching hard core porn and appreciated the visual beauty of SOME male bodies and especially SOME (huge) penises, but thought ALL of my enjoyment was based on seeing the female partners getting off on them and wishing I could affect women that way. Eventually, because I was a good looking young dude and hung better than average and an athlete who was in the gym and showers a lot, so many men kept cruising and hitting on me and making blatant comments flattering me, and because my wife (then GF) had a kind of thing where she found the idea of two men together hot in the same way that many men find the idea of two women together to be hot and because she encouraged me to "go ahead and try it" with a guy, I have always found that when I finally gave in and gave it a try on a limited basis with male partners, I really ONLY enjoyed it when they were like me, mostly straight and doing it as an experiment or for the first time or first few times or were pretty bisexual. When I tried anything with gay men, it was somehow very boring and hard to relate to them. Men who aren't attracted to women aren't attractive to me as a rule, no matter how good their bodies or big their cocks are. So the best sex I ever had with a male of the species was with a 19 year old man when I was 26 who had never tried anything with a male partner, had a lot of experience with women and after I gave a very long spiel on why I became interested in trying it and finally did and what I enjoyed about it, etc., laid back and let me go down on him. The mental aspects of relating to someone who thought of the experience in a way that was like my own was a big part of what made it satisfying and enjoyable and an important experience.
