I would say giving a blow job would be a lot more appetizing that eating the biscuit.
It might be eye opening to learn what guys have been up in the past.
People were playing around a long time before they could be as open as they are today.
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I would say giving a blow job would be a lot more appetizing that eating the biscuit.
It might be eye opening to learn what guys have been up in the past.
People were playing around a long time before they could be as open as they are today.
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There are several truths of LPSG, and this thread is one that is in the top three, in no particular order.
- Any thread that asks "How old were you when...", or "When was your first...", will always end up being closed down, because someone ALWAYS posts content involving a minor (against the Terms and Rules).
- The question of "Who gives better head, men or women?" will never be definitively answered, no matter how many threads there are about it, or how many ways you rephrase it.
- Any thread that hints at "Do straight men ever...", will devolve into a bilious discussion of labels, and typically will draw in the same cast of opponents like neodymium magnets, and the thread will go on for days of senseless textual screaming.
There are more, but these are definitely the top three.
But I am so glad I read this. @novice_btm, thanks for the heads up.
Speaking only for myself, If I experienced a new event that tends to be sexually laced, I always search to see if it's been brought up as a topic to see who's had the same experience.
Or recently because I'm so intrigued how some aspects of human sexuality has evolved, I bring out those topics a lot for discussion.
I think this could be a guide of what can encapsulate a lot of unnecessary back and forth in conversation. At the end of the day, we'll all have our inherent set of beliefs and go to out perspective tables.
Although I do like combing though some of the commentaries of posters who have been here longer than me and see how aspects of their view points have changed, them coming into themselves, and changing up certain parts of their insight into their own sexuality.
I need to consider this my own tutorial..
I submit to you that the exact opposite is true! It’s the guy GIVING oral that is in the dominant position ! He decides on the intensity of the experience, he is the one that holds the receiver’s most prize possession in his mouth, he controls if and when the orgasm occurs,he determines whether the receiver will actually have his semen swallowed .
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This thread: "I'm terrified someone might think I'm not straight."
This thread: "There's no such thing as totally straight. They're lying to themselves. However, there is such a thing as totally gay."
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My personal response: "Human beings, if anything, are born bisexual. We are born as closely aligned to a 'blank slate' as possible to maximize an abiulity to adapt to any social structure. And sexuality is a part of that structure. The gay/straight binary was invented to suit it's needs. So I personally believe that BOTH 100% straight AND 100% gay are...symbolic ideas rather than concrete realities.Nothing more than pure theory and silly talk. The core philosophy of the idea lakcs any level of praxis imho."
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Wow. A blast from the past. Fuzzy feels like we should be on a porch in rocking chairs complaining about the yunguns and their instatexting.
So true! The blank slate comment is very buddhist-sounding: what you are at the core of your mind before the defilements of illusions, ignorance and culture. When you're in a higher state of consciousness, you're attuned to the true nature of human sexuality. That's to say that labels are just social constructs. Do they really exist outside of culture?
Are you only what your culture defines you as?
Are we more than our thoughts? Do we let our thoughts define us?
So, what is pure and authentic sexuality? How can we see our authentic and pure sexual selves void of cultural realities? Can you really enjoy your sexuality if you operate only in a realm of what you think sexuality should be according some set of cultural norms?
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I dislike it when people use "only social constructs" as such a dismissive argument. My point is that human nature itself is maleable because we are reflections of our ultimate social construct, which we call society. Not to say that social constructs are bad or good, but necessary. Social construct = neutral term. Culture and social structure is the essence of what it means to be human, and the many various constructs that class society creates (like sexuality and gender) are a part of it.
But if human beings are defined by culture and social structure, then the core of human nature is to be able to create something out of nothing. To be adaptable on a psychological and sociological level. Meaning any one person's sense of self as an individual and as member of a group is initially defined by social constructs, yet not need be constrained by them. As being a member of any one group is a choice, so too are the social constructs we may or may not abide by.
It doesn't matter whether any one person is gay, straight or something else entirely. It's about as relevant as whether a guy prefers to piss at a urinal or while sitting on a toilet. What matters is how well the social structures we create/live in function. And as such, the question of whether or not "gay" or "straight" is a part of reality or only a part of "our" reality is quite immaterial. Sexuality boils down to the experiences you accrue over time, and the choices you've made in those experiences. The intimate relations you've built and learned from. The strength of your most loving relationships. And whether these labels are a crucial part of any of that is optional, and could be anyone's guess.
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I’m still working on why anyone should care what someone calls themself. Don’t you have enough in your own life to work on?
Some interesting thought here, but somehow I see a conflict.
Today’s social contracts seem quite real to me. And labels, however derived (real, imagined or draconian), can be a real problem to deal with in the actual here and now.
When people are more enlightened, they look past the labels (she's Catholic; he's transsexual, dad's a redneck; etc.).
The straight label still matters so much because the gay label is still so taboo.
The straight label still matters so much because the gay label is still so taboo.
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That's just it though. Social constructs ARE real, within their respective social structures. But that doesn't mean they define human nature specifically. The power of the human being is in the ability to adapt to any social environment through culture. So the gay/straight binary helps society function, which in turn contributes to our survival...It is a part of our culture.
But that doesn't mean you have to play by the rules, nor does it mean that all humans are gay or straight. What I'm saying is that these labels are a CULTURAL phenomenon as opposed to a psychological one. Sexuality is more complex on an individual level then a cultural approach on the scale we see today could ever possibly take right now.
A dick has a mind of it's own. What you do with it is up to you. Just don't tell me about it. I don't want to know.
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