Do Straight Men Let Another Man Give Them Blowjobs?

[Tight_End_SC]

I think that sexually adventurous people will dabble into same sex fun. I have totally blown away a few guys that are 'straight'. Not here to debate the orientation identification mind fuck that many are stuck in. But yea.... it has happened. Not that I want to marry them, just give em the totally amazing head they obviously want.

 

[Draconis71]

Ok, let me ask another 2 questions...
If a guy sucks his own penis, is he gay?
If a guy fucks himself up the ass, is he gay?
I just don't want to see this thread die!
Please answer!!! I'm sooo needy for an answer to a ridiculous question! (or 3)

 

[Tight_End_SC]

Ok, let me ask another 2 questions...
If a guy sucks his own penis, is he gay?
If a guy fucks himself up the ass, is he gay?
I just don't want to see this thread die!
Please answer!!! I'm sooo needy for an answer to a ridiculous question! (or 3)

The Rule book says yes but it's wrong.

 

[Smaccoms]

Oh to be alive in a time of change!

Oh wait, culture is always changing, thus making this thread indestructible.

Just calm down people. Yeesh

 

[silvertriumph2]

To keep it going.....
Yes....and v.v......do straight men suck....yes, some do...and well at it.

 

[mikemikenj]

Without a doubt. A stiff dick has no conscious. What a woman won't do, a gay/bi man most definitely will (and do so better.)

 

[Watereyes]

Eh, it's happened. I've sucked many a straight dick. I personally don't care one way or another how a guy self-identifies with his sexual orientation.

Do I think if you're constantly seeking out guys to blow you, that you're straight? No. You're probably bi or pan.

However, as a gay man I'm not going to police someone's right to self-identify. If they're comfortable with themselves all that matters.

Just get hard and come over. We'll share a beer after.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

If labels are bad and shouldn't be used, then why is it SO important that these guys be called "straight"???

 

[firsttimecaller]

If labels are bad and shouldn't be used, then why is it SO important that these guys be called "straight"???

Because not hurting peoples feelings trumps logic nowdays

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Because not hurting peoples feelings trumps logic nowdays

If that's all it was, and it was applied universally, it would at least make sense.

But we have countless threads where the subject is "would/have you ever (fill in sex act) with a straight guy".

Then someone points out that given the mm acts, the "straight" guy might not be straight, but bi or gay.

*Then* someone says we shouldn't apply labels.

Why is the "don't use labels" stance only brought when, and only if, someone points out the possibility of bisexuality or homosexuality? In all the many similar threads, none of the no-labels folks ever immediately bring up the fact that the thread is labeling these guys "straight", and that labels are bad.

 

[firsttimecaller]

If that's all it was, and it was applied universally, it would at least make sense.

Why is the "don't use labels" stance only brought when, and only if, someone points out the possibility of bisexuality or homosexuality? In all the many similar threads, none of the no-labels folks ever immediately bring up the fact that the thread is labeling these guys "straight", and that labels are bad.

Its kinda being applied there too.

You can't label someone bi who doesn't identify that way cause, regardless of it's accuracy, could hurt their feelings.

You can label someone straight who does identify that way cause, regardless of it's accuracy, it doesn't hurt their feelings.

World's going crazy

 

[Smaccoms]

If that's all it was, and it was applied universally, it would at least make sense.

But we have countless threads where the subject is "would/have you ever (fill in sex act) with a straight guy".

Then someone points out that given the mm acts, the "straight" guy might not be straight, but bi or gay.

*Then* someone says we shouldn't apply labels.

Why is the "don't use labels" stance only brought when, and only if, someone points out the possibility of bisexuality or homosexuality? In all the many similar threads, none of the no-labels folks ever immediately bring up the fact that the thread is labeling these guys "straight", and that labels are bad.

People want there to be an issue here. Sexual orientation is so last century. It's all about gender identity now. Who cares whom you have sex with anymore?? Us millenials are aging, and so our libidos are going down. So we're not so horny we need to "road rage" about it online so much anymore. It's just a mild curiosity.

It's just hormonal driven passions blowing through what's left of whatever current social construction that's taken center stage. That's what us human do; we build a society, and then argue endlessly about all the constructions we've created that go into maintaining it's existence.

Sexual orientation is one of those constructions. Along with gender, race, the church, education, the military. Etc, etc. All of it exists within a specific contect, and thus does not need to make any logical sense when examined in isolation (or, in other words, when removed from that context).

 

[WangDoodler]

I’ve been getting blowies and topping guys on occasion for 20 years and always considered myself straight... I’ve never dated a dude, kissed a dude, cuddled a dude or anything like that... I just think of them the same as I would a fleshlight.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I’ve been getting blowies and topping guys on occasion for 20 years and always considered myself straight... I’ve never dated a dude, kissed a dude, cuddled a dude or anything like that... I just think of them the same as I would a fleshlight.

Orientations are defined by either romantic OR sexual attraction of a pervasive (as opposed to experimental, dabbling) nature. Why wouldn't you consider yourself bisexual? Not saying you should, just asking why you don't. You clearly have sexual attraction to men, and presumably women.

 

[WangDoodler]

Orientations are defined by either romantic OR sexual attraction of a pervasive (as opposed to experimental, dabbling) nature. Why wouldn't you consider yourself bisexual? Not saying you should, just asking why you don't. You clearly have sexual attraction to men, and presumably women.

I really don’t fit into the LGBTQ community. I’m just a really horny guy and I take whatever I can get. I’d much prefer sex with a homely woman than a Brad Pitt clone.

 

[Smaccoms]

I’ve been getting blowies and topping guys on occasion for 20 years and always considered myself straight... I’ve never dated a dude, kissed a dude, cuddled a dude or anything like that... I just think of them the same as I would a fleshlight.

I really don’t fit into the LGBTQ community. I’m just a really horny guy and I take whatever I can get. I’d much prefer sex with a homely woman than a Brad Pitt clone.

I mean, I do agree with your fundamental point of view. But Jesus is that dismissive of the value of human life and of a spiritual connection with your partners...maybe I should reconsider my perspective.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I really don’t fit into the LGBTQ community. I’m just a really horny guy and I take whatever I can get. I’d much prefer sex with a homely woman than a Brad Pitt clone.

You figure "blowies and topping guys on occasion" fits into the straight community?

 

[WangDoodler]

You figure "blowies and topping guys on occasion" fits into the straight community?

A lot of straight people are into meaningless casual sex... I meant that I don’t fit in with the lifestyle... parading around in hot pants, dancing on floats, plus I am very libertarian in my politics, I don’t like most Republicans (I do love Trump though) but I absolutely despise Democrats and socialism.

 

[trackjock13]

in the right circumstances, yes I think many straight guys would allow that. I can speak from experience several times.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

A lot of straight people are into meaningless casual sex... I meant that I don’t fit in with the lifestyle... parading around in hot pants, dancing on floats, plus I am very libertarian in my politics, I don’t like most Republicans (I do love Trump though) but I absolutely despise Democrats and socialism.

Again, how do "blowies and topping guys " fit the straight lifestyle?