Do Straight Men Let Another Man Give Them Blowjobs?

[zaynmlk1626]

A lot of straight people are into meaningless casual sex... I meant that I don’t fit in with the lifestyle... parading around in hot pants, dancing on floats, plus I am very libertarian in my politics, I don’t like most Republicans (I do love Trump though) but I absolutely despise Democrats and socialism.

i am gay and i don't fit in the LGBTQ lifestyle either, parading around in hot pants, heavy make up and wearing high heels and wigs is not what all gay men do though. This is why i feel i don't fit into that. These people are just an extravagant part of the community in my opinion. There are ''quieter'' gay men out there who are just doctors or politicians or lawyers or do a job and lifestyle that any other str8 would do. Don't be confused, there are gays with high heels and gays without high heels.

 

[328982]

There's no such thing as the 'gay lifestyle' nor the 'straight lifestyle' for that matter. Gay and straight aren’t styles.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

There's no such thing as the 'gay lifestyle' nor the 'straight lifestyle' for that matter. Gay and straight aren’t styles.

Apparently they are. Per @WangDoodler the LGBTQ community practice a lifestyle, of "parading around in hot pants, dancing on floats" and apparently must include hating Trump, being a Democrat, and being a socialist. Since his "blowies and topping" lifestyle doesn't exactly match his notion of how all LGBTQ folk must live, he's "straight". I'm trying to understand how his sexual activities somehow mesh with what he described....which were only politics....and result in his reckoning himself "straight"

It's turning kinda like Monty Python & The Holy Grail....if she floats and burns, she must be a witch.

 

[circedbychoice]

If the blower is gay and the blowee claims to be "straight," he is in denial. I don't believe a truly straight man would allow another man to blow him.

 

[Josheers]

in the right circumstances, yes I think many straight guys would allow that. I can speak from experience several times.

Can you share those circumstances? I'm in a battle right now trying to get enough courage to ask my coeworker if I can suck him. He doesn't know I'm gay so thats gonna be a thing. Ever sucked a married guy? With kids?

 

[B A]

Many “straight” guys would love the chance. Just sayin....they might just not know it...

 

[Altoid]

...Ever sucked a married guy? With kids?

yes to both, discribes almost my entire experiences with other men

 

[zaynmlk1626]

yes to both, discribes almost my entire experiences with other men

how do you guys do it???? where are those willing str8 dudes? how do u ask them?

 

[trackjock13]

Many “straight” guys would love the chance. Just sayin....they might just not know it...

EXACTLY, even straight guys suspect guys are better at giving head than some girls. If they are on the receiving end of a blow job, it is less "gay" since they feel they are in the dominate role. In my case it has been surprising how many "straight" guys want to see or blow me since I am fairly hung. It is also vaguely

amusing to me that most straight guys ASSUME gay guys want to land straight guys. If they are even partially hung, they are often the FIRST to show off as a sign of dominance, but clearly a sign of curiosity. I've lost count of how many of my brother's "Straight" friends have WANTED to fool around w/me, usually just j/o or blow jobs.

 

[Altoid]

how do you guys do it???? where are those willing str8 dudes? how do u ask them?

not sure how they find me and didn't know their situation when they started hinting they were open to it

 

[trackjock13]

how do you guys do it???? where are those willing str8 dudes? how do u ask them?

In my case I have two brothers, older one is a weight lifter, younger one is gay. Both had buddies around the house all the time,and we had a basement and then guest house where the 3 bros would hang out, weight lift, watch tv and stuff. It had a sectional that we would crash on, and I'd be showing a hardon thru my shorts or whatever, sometimes "pretending" be be passed out, and both brothers would egg their friends on to do more.

 

[Smaccoms]

Again, how do "blowies and topping guys " fit the straight lifestyle?

You've never known of a straight married guy to do that before?? I certainly have. I understand what he means by referencing his lifestyle.

 

[WangDoodler]

You've never known of a straight married guy to do that before?? I certainly have. I understand what he means by referencing his lifestyle.

Thanks, I’m not married and have been continuously horny since I can remember so I see nothing wrong with sampling everything out there...

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

You've never known of a straight married guy to do that before?? I certainly have. I understand what he means by referencing his lifestyle.

Those guys might be happily married. They might be experimenting because they're confused or they might be finally coming to terms with their bisexuality. But if they have persistent attraction....romantic or sexual...to both women and men, then they are probably bi, not straight. Is "bi" a bad word?

Regarding lifestyle, sucking dick and assfucking guys is not "the straight lifestyle".

 

[Taken901_1988]

Those guys might be happily married. They might be experimenting because they're confused or they might be finally coming to terms with their bisexuality. But if they have persistent attraction....romantic or sexual...to both women and men, then they are probably bi, not straight. Is "bi" a bad word?

Regarding lifestyle, sucking dick and assfucking guys is not "the straight lifestyle".

See that you love labels. Typical.

 

[trackjock13]

See that you love labels. Typical.

I agree with you. As far as I have experienced since I was 18, now almost 26, MANY (not all) guys just like to get off and cum, and the joke the the difference between straight and gay is a few beers rings true.

 

[Taken901_1988]

I agree with you. As far as I have experienced since I was 18, now almost 26, MANY (not all) guys just like to get off and cum, and the joke the the difference between straight and gay is a few beers rings true.

Yeah I can't count how many curious guys I've sucked to be honest. Married, unmarried, friends, or Anon.... I'm on the idea that sex and dating are completely separate but not mutually exclusive. Relationships are complex. Sex is literally and figuratively fluid. I can tell when people are narrow minded by their ideas of what a label means... In particular when it comes to sex. I'm sure the guy/girl who focuses on them are bad lays. And I wouldnt want to compare notes with them.

 

[993550]

You put that very well, @Taken901_1988 !

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

See that you love labels. Typical.

Labels? The title of this thread uses a label. What's "typical" is, that as I already pointed out, the use of the straight label seems perfectly fine when describing guys you want to have sex with. This forum is lousy with this theme...the *straight* guy and whether he wants head, gives head, takes it or gives it up the ass. THAT label is fine. So why is the possibility of this guy being bisexual suddenly a "label" and "typical"? What's the problem?

 

[Taken901_1988]

Labels? The title of this thread uses a label. What's "typical" is, that as I already pointed out, the use of the straight label seems perfectly fine when describing guys you want to have sex with. This forum is lousy with this theme...the *straight* guy and whether he wants head, gives head, takes it or gives it up the ass. THAT label is fine. So why is the possibility of this guy being bisexual suddenly a "label" and "typical"? What's the problem?

The problem sis is everyone is allowed to experiment. You are the focusing on the label part. I believe, as the OP messaged me, the topic is not entirely focus on sexual orientation BUT on experience. He/She wants to know more about it - and limiting to morals is not the intention. You're just steering the conversation to own liking. Have you done this? Story time. Please speak about - otherwise stop talking.