What I find interesting is why 100% straight or (insert#)% straight men are part of a forum that openly and actively displays other men's junk. I think as someone aptly put it, I think were all just sexual and that if there weren't such a negative stigma associated with M2M intimacy, more would do it. And yet, if two chicks get it on, they're not labeled dykes or lesbians. They're hot! Labels are useless except to convince people of the lie you want people to believe about you publicly. I think we ALL have our "secrets" and labels typically do a decent job of masking them. I see myself as truly Bi (in that I am attracted to both) but I find neither str8 or gay people accept that. Society dictates sexuality under the "pick a team and play" rule, which works for most. However, admitting being attracted to guys and enjoying sex with them, gets me a pass up until I admit that I have no desire to have anal sex (with a guy or girl for that matter). However, when I think of fucking, I think of women.
That being said, its impossible to label myself gay or straight. Im just sexual. And as this forum shows, there are folks on both ends of the scale and (hopefully) some in the middle.
Thanks for an amazing post and for the honest comments. Including those I don't necessarily agree with. Im a firm believer that everyone's opinion counts for something.