CobraLover
Expert Member
Do you think that men who classify themselves as 99% straight and 1% gay (or even 90/10) would classify themselves as 'bi'?
I like the fact that many straight men will admit that they have some curiosity, list themselves as 1% gay on here and will look and compliment another guy on his cock. I also think that over 50% of gay porn models really are 99% straight but just very sexual by nature so it doesn't matter as much if their partner is cute or not.
Do you think that men who classify themselves as 99% straight and 1% gay (or even 90/10) would classify themselves as 'bi'?
I speak as if they're opposite because they are opposite. They're indications of exclusive preferences, as opposed to the bivalent preference found in bisexuality, or the multivalent preference found in pansexualism. But that's what they are: indications in the form of labels. One's preferences aren't the label used to describe them, and sure there are plenty of people who are bisexual when they claim to be either homo or heterosexual. That, however, doesn't make it an accurate use of a label. The reason why hetero and homosexuality have been viewed as exclusive is that there is a label specifically to denote mixed preferences, whereas no alternative labels for exclusive preference.
Bisexual isn't a bad word.
Did I say somewhere I thought bisexuality was evil or something?
I do not believe what you start this post with. Homosexuality and heterosexuality are not opposites. Part of the reason they are not opposites is connected to the fact that the male and female are not opposites as well. Believing so is a way to simplify a complicated subject for one's own purposes. The idea of sexuality being one singular spectrum to me is ludicrous! Have fun with that...
Who gives a shit? A blowjob is a blowjob, especially if it's a fucking good one. ;] To me, a blowjob is a respect thing. Someone kneeling down before you, taking you into their mouth and pleasuring you... It's a beautiful thing. Be it from a guy, or a chick... They're obviously either into you, or want to make you feel good. Why the fuck NOT?!
Will totally Straight Men Allow Another Man To Perform Oral Sex On Them?