Do the Pics Make the Man ???

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  1. B_theOtherJJ

    B_theOtherJJ New Member

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    Hey guys, just wondering here, maybe you can shed some light ???

    I recently joined Adam4Adam, and noticed that most of the guys that contact me probably didnt read the profile cause they have nothing in common with me, nor share the same sexual tastes... I noticed this on AOL too...

    My question is this: Do you contact a guy based on reading their profile, or based on their pics only, or a combination of both ???

    I usually read the profile and contact guys I think I will click with based on what they wrote, but I would say 90% of the time, they dont even reply, eventhough it seems we would be a 100% match.

    I am assuming guys will look at the pic, and if it gives them a boner, they will reply to you, or contact you, and if they arent attracted, its "fuck you". Not even a "thx for contacting me"... Gay men are rude and self-indulgent. (oops I am generalizing again)...

    I will always reply to a comment or email even if the guy aint my type or we arent compatible. Thats the way mama raised me.

    Was just curious what other people thought? Ladies, you can put your cents in too, since I am sure this happens in the str8 world too.

    Thx friends..... - Alyn
     
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    Guys with hardons see a pic and respond. Most of the times they dont read the profiles.
     
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    Tru dat. When you get an erection, the blood drains from your brain, which lowers your thinking abilities. That's why you never see guys in pornos solving crossword puzzles.


    If you know of any crossword porn, let me know.


    Don't judge.
     
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    In my experience, I've discovered as a rule that people don't read....
     
  5. B_theOtherJJ

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    And obviously, are not hooking up either. For the most part, they are probably looking at FAKE pics, so the worst thing they have to deal with is a sticky keyboard.

    I must be the only "hands-on" real-time guy left on this planet ?

    Thanks for the insightful replies gentlemen....
     
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    I read the profile and view the photo, not always in the same order. There are so many oddballs on there, I am cautious about who I message.
     
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    Oddballs, YES. BTW OY, LOVE the hat !!!!
     
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    I make sure to have a face pis, therefore I make sure you would.

    My Manhunt profile has a few face pics and lots of text, but my Manhunt profile is sort of an anti-profile... its pure humor.
     
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