Do Tops Most Admire Butts? Bottoms Look For Cock?

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Dumb question, but if you meet a guy who really likes looking at butts, are the odds good that he’s a top? Likewise, if a guy is preoccupied with cock, does that mean he’s more likely to be a bottom?
 
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That is a good question. I would say that bottom's look at the cock shape and size. Not too sure what to say about tops looking at a bottom's butt. But it is quite possible that a top would be drawn to check that area out. It would be good to hear the opinions of others on this one.
 
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as a top, I like to see the shape of a guys butt, peachy/muscly/round are perfect - I know then that he's likely to be pretty tight and is probably more toned/athletic all over. Not interested in seeing buttholes esp, till i'm about to rim it anyway;)

I do like cocks as well though, seeing a nicely formed, shaped, sized dick means I have something nice to play with as I fuck him;-)
 

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Dumb question, but if you meet a guy who really likes looking at butts, are the odds good that he’s a top? Likewise, if a guy is preoccupied with cock, does that mean he’s more likely to be a bottom?
Well if you’ve just met the guy do you not need more time with them to figure this out? Personally it’s more complicated than that. I’m vers so where would you put me?
 

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It isn't always that simple. My ass gets quite a lot of attention mainly from other tops - so it is quite annoying and can be time wasting. It possibly gets more attention than my cock because well ... lets just say it isn't for everyone. I love a bottom with a big cock but I have also had some brilliant time being rimmed by a superb bottom. Generalisations are fine but in reality no one lives in a box and we can all surprise ourselves sometimes with the right guy and shared chemistry.






Dumb question, but if you meet a guy who really likes looking at butts, are the odds good that he’s a top? Likewise, if a guy is preoccupied with cock, does that mean he’s more likely to be a bottom?
 
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I am versatile; in a top I really appreciate well muscled thighs, ass and legs. The shape and size of the dick is a bonus; huge is not necessary, up-curved and hooded a huge turn-on as are good sized balls. I prefer furry to shaved, trimmed to full bush is great. In a bottom, firm round furry ass and muscled thighs are great!
 
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First thing I look at is the face. After that, just his general overall build, appearance, and how he carries himself. A bulge in the jeans is nice but not necessary. Likewise, I love a big, beefy, solid, hairy ass (like you get from lots of squats and deadlifts) but I'm not too hung up on it.

FWIW I'm versatile, 60% bottom, 40% top
 

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Dumb question, but if you meet a guy who really likes looking at butts, are the odds good that he’s a top? Likewise, if a guy is preoccupied with cock, does that mean he’s more likely to be a bottom?

There's some likelihood, but by no means is it a sure indicator. Some bottoms have a sense for good looking asses and some even enjoy "eating ass". In turn, some tops have a sense for what they like to see in the crotch, and some enjoy going down on guys in addition to fucking them and/or enjoy playing with a guy's penis while doing so.
 

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I guess I'm a bottom who likes to show off his cock and doesn't actually like to bottom. No real interest in topping. Who knows what I am, fuck the labels LOL

If you don't enjoy bottoming and have no interest in topping there's no reason you should feel you have to be one or the other. Certainly there's no reason that a homosexual man should have to engage in anal intercourse.
 
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I'm a bottom and gravitate towards good not too big bootys, and of course big bulges, wich are not that common, so when you see one, it's quite the miracle.

A good ass in a top it's quite the turn on cause it's usually followed by great big legs, wich are my weakness. However, if it looks way too big almost like a women's, it just don't do it for me.
 

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i like a well toned bubble butt, especially when he puts it on my face for a good rimming. i also like a stretching of the crotch in a pair of pants because that means there is a good sized cock lurking there and i really do love to play with big cocks. I guess for me your query is not an indicator because i am a full time bottom with no desire to put my cock anywhere near an ass and rarely does it get any oral attention.