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if you found out that the person you are dating is also dating other people, would that bother you? this is assuming that you two have not made the decision to go exclusive. you're just still "dating" whether it's the 1st date or the 3rd or the 6th date. would you even date someone at all knowing that they were also dating other people concurrently?
i ask this question because today i was talking to a buddy of mine and he was upset that the girl he was dating was also dating other guys. i asked if they were exclusive and he said that it's wasn't "official" but it was "implied"... i looked at him funny and said "wtf... are you implying that she's your girlfriend?"... regardless, he was upset and called it off with this girl. he said that he only dates one person at a time and would never do that to anyone he was dating because you should only focus on one person at a time...
i personally disagree with him as when i was dating, i would not hesitate to date 2 or 3 or 4 girls at once and never kept it a secret. i wasn't fucking them all but i was definitely keeping my options open.
thoughts? i'm curious on your viewpoints and opinions.
i ask this question because today i was talking to a buddy of mine and he was upset that the girl he was dating was also dating other guys. i asked if they were exclusive and he said that it's wasn't "official" but it was "implied"... i looked at him funny and said "wtf... are you implying that she's your girlfriend?"... regardless, he was upset and called it off with this girl. he said that he only dates one person at a time and would never do that to anyone he was dating because you should only focus on one person at a time...
i personally disagree with him as when i was dating, i would not hesitate to date 2 or 3 or 4 girls at once and never kept it a secret. i wasn't fucking them all but i was definitely keeping my options open.
thoughts? i'm curious on your viewpoints and opinions.