I don't know about 'driven by an entirely different set of emotions'...
Sure, I can be emotional at times, some of those times are even hormonal, much as I hate to admit it, because some men will jump straight to this assumption. Actually <-slight detour ahead-> an ex (bf at the time) sent an incredibly sweet text that really touched me and I replied with "you're the best *cuddles*" and he asked if I was due on because I was being "clingy" lol. Totally ruined it, but I couldn't help but laugh. I let it go because he has aspergers, but it's still the only time in my life I've ever been called "clingy".
I'm loving and I'm a nurturer... but this chick is practical. I'm aware of them, but not driven by my emotions - seems to me like that would be a luxury. I certainly can't afford it. Incidentally, every man I have ever dated has been more "emotional" than me.
Some things I read here make me think men and women *are* poles apart... then the likes of
@Brisler @TexanStar or any of the other great guys who post here (not listing, because I'll accidentally miss someone, but I try to hit 'like' on their comments when I remember) post something that makes me think 'nah'
I've taken that comment waaay beyond it's context - just thinking out loud at this point
Anyway, on topic, yes sometimes this woman likes to be fucked hard. But I don't mean just slam as hard as you can with the intent of hurting me. As for the OP...ew. I hope he's grown in the past 11 years
The physicality, the manhandling is a big part of it, for me. Maybe I don't like to be 'fucked hard', maybe I like to be fucked primally.