Do women compare sizes all the time?

[helgaleena]

Sorry, but women reign supreme at asking questions to which there is no good yes or no answer.

Mostly it happens on purpose: a deceptively pleasant query, with sharp steel barbs hiding beneath the silken sheen, & when men are less experienced, we drop ourselves in all kinds of trouble.

When we're older, we think any convoluted question from a partner is a sublimely laid trap, no matter how sinister, & so take evasive, protective action.

I'm too post traumatic to give examples, only the cold, internal, shaking fear of a fly being enticed into a particularly sticky web.

The horror, oh the horror!

Poor crackoff. What nasty females you have been exposed to.

 

[Darpon]

Good LORD some ladies got defensive. He posted what he learned from what he saw, being little more than a messenger, and you all (or at the very least, those who posted the most vehement reactions) reacted as if he came here just to insult you personally. Calm the fuck down.

It seems relatively commonplace on this forum for men to be like, "Well, you know, I'm a guy, so I don't really know what I'm talking about." I remember seeing a few instances of girls mentioning that guys are clueless. There are a couple of other situations of both men and women belittling men, but I won't get into them because my point in this post is that the bitching is pointless. You could very well be the exception in that you don't do what you allegedly shouldn't even know you do, or maybe the entire study itself was bogus, but regardless of the case, taking it personally is the wrong approach.

 

[Patchos]

All the whining men on this thread need to toughen up.

 

[enormouslyaverage]

...or people could just answer a question without a completely unnecessary attitude? No one has to prove their toughness that way NOR do they get ripped to shreds by the attitudes within the women of LPSG. Seems fair.

The question has been answered a thousand times over and it's frustrating. We get it. The OP clearly doesn't know that though.

 

[Patchos]

No sense of humour = not attractive

 

[AlteredEgo]

I'm curious as to why there were so many strongly negative responses to what JamesJonson posted. If you disagree, why disagree in such a personal manner? His post didn't seem malicious, perhaps misguided, not malicious. I ask this question purely out of curiosity.

There's only one thing I reckon the women who frequent this forum like less than a stupid man, and that's a sexist man. Bigots seldom intend to be malicious, but their messages are still not to be tolerated.

 

[Drifterwood]

I compare my lovers in my head, not usually out loud to others. I compare them to my past experiences, but it's not their penises or bodies I compare. I compare how it feels to be with them, how it feels to have them inside, and the type and level of chemistry between us. These comparisons happen most frequently the very first time I am with a new partner, but sometimes, something that happens will remind me of another previous lover, and I'll compare them all over again.

I am very similar.

It intrigues me how differently people express their sexuality and I enjoy greatly the vast majority.

 

[B_subgirrl]

damn! talk about competition! how do i get registered/qualify for that event? lol!!

:biggrin1: I found it highly entertaining :biggrin1:

On topic:
I do compare penis sizes but only in my own mind. A lot of my size guesstimations come from knowing the size of a couple of my partners and comparing new ones to the sizes I know. For instance, one FB was seven inches and one was 10. If someone is a size somewhere between these two, I can have a good guess as to what size they are. I can guess (fairly accurately) the size of guys who are less than seven inches going by if they are a lot, or a little smaller than Mr 7.

I rarely talk about penis size with friends. Only once with one of my best friends, and twice with the other.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Sorry, but women reign supreme at asking questions to which there is no good yes or no answer.

Mostly it happens on purpose: a deceptively pleasant query, with sharp steel barbs hiding beneath the silken sheen,

'women' - ah, these generic women who do such nasty things to these poor innocent men who really only want to love and be loved in return.

Tell me something, crackoff, how do you feel when you hear a woman saying 'men a cheating bastards' or 'men hit their partners' or 'men are lascivious perverts who mentally undress 16 year old school girls at bus stops' or 'men are possessive control freaks who show their true colours once they get a ring on your finger'? Because I've seen all of those things posted at a women's forum I frequent and I argue against them just as strongly as I argue against your kind of sweeping statement sexist bullshit.

Good LORD some ladies got defensive. He posted what he learned from what he saw, being little more than a messenger, and you all (or at the very least, those who posted the most vehement reactions) reacted as if he came here just to insult you personally. Calm the fuck down.

I assume you are referring to JamesJohnson's posts, in which case: no - fuck off. They are entitled to respond like that. He's spouting a heap of sexist wank and in my opinion, and that of several other women here, evidently, it warrants a harsh response. It would not be tolerated if he came on this forum with 'gays don't know as much about themselves as I do, I watched this TV show once...' nor with 'blacks (inuits, arabs, etc.) don't know as much about themselves as I do, I watched this TV show once...' - so why should we let it slip when it's about women?

It seems relatively commonplace on this forum for men to be like, "Well, you know, I'm a guy, so I don't really know what I'm talking about." I remember seeing a few instances of girls mentioning that guys are clueless. There are a couple of other situations of both men and women belittling men, but I won't get into them because my point in this post is that the bitching is pointless. You could very well be the exception in that you don't do what you allegedly shouldn't even know you do, or maybe the entire study itself was bogus, but regardless of the case, taking it personally is the wrong approach.

You see the misandry because it offends you. Welcome to our fucking world.

All the whining men on this thread need to toughen up.

Yes, they really do - and possibly fuck off as well. :yup:

 

[norm77]

I am so glad you told us women what we are really doing and looking at. We are all such brainless dumbs that without someone like you, we would hardly know our own name.

You gotta be kidding me... he admitted he was no expert and said he was referring to some independent research. Chill out. And no, I'm not going to say he was misguided - people who freaked out over it were overreacting, period.

Now let's get real here for a moment. Personally, I'm very comfortable with my body and all, and I believe that overall women don't particularly care about penis size for the most part (unless, as most of the women have said here, it's an extreme outlier). However, the As for all of the women on here laughing at the male insecurity over penis size and acting as though they are pure and innocent of the shallow act of comparison, allow me to broadcast a brief reality check.

YOU'RE ON THE FORUM FOR A WEBSITE CALLED LARGE PENIS SUPPORT GROUP.

Don't act like you don't care.

I'm not generalizing to all women, but the women who are on a forum devoted entirely to the size of the penis probably care about penis size. I don't think that's an unwarranted assumption.

I assume you are referring to JamesJohnson's posts, in which case: no - fuck off. They are entitled to respond like that. He's spouting a heap of sexist wank and in my opinion, and that of several other women here, evidently, it warrants a harsh response. It would not be tolerated if he came on this forum with 'gays don't know as much about themselves as I do, I watched this TV show once...' nor with 'blacks (inuits, arabs, etc.) don't know as much about themselves as I do, I watched this TV show once...' - so why should we let it slip when it's about women?

Get real, he was talking about gender differences, not implying some kind of sexist statement of gender superiority/inferiority. Men and women are different, and it goes beyond just sexual organs. Your comparison examples were not analogous at all to the situation. If someone quoted a study saying "blacks are taller than whites on average" or that "blacks comprise a disproportionate percentage of the prison population," it wouldn't be racist, it would just be quoting a fact. If you said that "men are responsible for the vast majority of domestic abuse in America," I wouldn't call you sexist. If you said that "there are far more cheating husbands than cheating wives in America," I would ask to see your source, but I wouldn't freak out and knee-jerk into some kind of rant about misandry.

For all I know his source could be bunk, made-up, whatever. But calling it sexism is just stupid.

And again... you're on a website called large penis support group. No one believes you when you say you don't care about cock size.

 

[D_Tanya_Hardon]

Wow, this is an overwhelming thread to jump into. I just wanted to say my honest answer. My best girlfriends and I talk cock ALL THE TIME. Whenever we date/sleep with someone new, it's "Where did you meet him?" "How was he?" "How big was he??" And usually question 3 is answered in question 2. We care. For all of us, we feel more filled up when it's a bigger cock, and it's like an exciting conquest when a cock actually seems *too big* to take. Of my two best girlfriends, Janee is officially a size queen, calling an 8 incher small (ridiculous!), and Katie and I just appreciate a big dick. Have we had good sex with average cocks? You betchya. I've even had good sex with a smaller than average cock, AFTER dating a guy with an 8.5x6 for over a year. Interestingly, I'm the only one who cares, or even notices, whether or not balls are big. It's a sign of manliness to me. Then again I'm the only one who pretty much requires chest hair, too. Katie can take or leave it and Janee thinks it's gross. We women are all different.

And furthermore, were any posts on this thread offensive? Only the ones with outlandish reactions to simple observations or opinions.

 

[Pendlum]

You know what they say about assumptions, don't you norm77? Let's get real for a moment. Just because a woman is on a site that is dedicated to large penises (and one could argue that for the more serious posters, which many women are, especially the ones that have rightfully been lambasting people, it is more than that) doesn't mean that they compare cock sizes. You see, it has been said several times that while some may like or prefer bigger cocks, it is often overwhelmingly not that important, it's like a nice bonus. It's like art. You can like Picasso. But that doesn't stop you from enjoying other kinds of art, and you don't compare everything to Picasso. You appreciate a piece of art for what it is, not what you can compare it to.

Anyway, the real sexist part about his post is simple. He is saying that women don't know, but he does. He knows something about an entire gender that they don't. How is that not sexist? What if he said women don't know to drive, but I do. How can you not see that? He fucking literally says women don't know. Of course he says guys know it. So right there he is elevating men over women. Further more, this is a question directed at women. So he, a man, steps in and sets things right, because these women don't know what they are talking about, or they are lying about it!

 

[Penis Aficionado]

Wow, this is an overwhelming thread to jump into. I just wanted to say my honest answer. My best girlfriends and I talk cock ALL THE TIME. Whenever we date/sleep with someone new, it's "Where did you meet him?" "How was he?" "How big was he??"

I want friends like you! The last time I got my hands (and mouth) on a big cock, I totally wanted to tell someone how amazing it was. But all my friends are so jaded, they would just say, "Yeah, been there, done that."

 

[RawDog]

It's threads like this that makes me miss Mademoiselle Rouge, Dolfette and MickeyLee the most.

Just sayin'.

Ok, back to the rants.

 

[curious_angel]

..........allow me to broadcast a brief reality check.

YOU'RE ON THE FORUM FOR A WEBSITE CALLED LARGE PENIS SUPPORT GROUP.

.................

Huh? There are big dicks on this site? Why didn't anyone tell me?

 

[Kotchanski]

Huh? There are big dicks on this site? Why didn't anyone tell me?

Shhh it's a very well kept secret!

I think with the exception of when I've been bullied into attending Ann Summers parties and the likes, I've never discussed penis size with female friends, especially not to the point of comparison.

To put it very simply, I don't give a flying fuck what damn size it is. I care about it working, and it doing the job required of it. Oh wait, that must be a lie, I'm on LPSG so I must care, even if I can't admit it

 

[ManlyBanisters]

The way he presented it was derogatory - women (and at least one man) took objection because it was objectionable. What part of that is hard to understand?

[..]

YOU'RE ON THE FORUM FOR A WEBSITE CALLED LARGE PENIS SUPPORT GROUP.

Don't act like you don't care.

I'm not generalizing to all women, but the women who are on a forum devoted entirely to the size of the penis probably care about penis size. I don't think that's an unwarranted assumption.

And again... you're on a website called large penis support group. No one believes you when you say you don't care about cock size.

Go fuck yourself. You have no idea why any of us joined this site or stay here. It may be all the about the cock for you, that doesn't make it so for others.

I think with the exception of when I've been bullied into attending Ann Summers parties and the likes, I've never discussed penis size with female friends, especially not to the point of comparison.

To put it very simply, I don't give a flying fuck what damn size it is. I care about it working, and it doing the job required of it. Oh wait, that must be a lie, I'm on LPSG so I must care, even if I can't admit it

The admin lied to us!!!

Bend over - time for a spanking!

 

[Kotchanski]

The admin lied to us!!!

Bend over - time for a spanking!

I came for the cock, stayed for the spankings!! :biggrin1:

 

[Incocknito]

Huh? There are big dicks on this site? Why didn't anyone tell me?

Is that what Angel's Delight is? A big cock...not a tasty dessert?

 

[ManlyBanisters]

I came for the cock, stayed for the spankings!! :biggrin1:

Well - let's kill two birds with one stone - you unban Hick and I'll attempt to talk him into giving you a spanking with his cock. :tongue:

Deal?