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Size isn’t something I think about in an aesthetic sense.
More functional engineering.
The needed advice I mention in my signature was someone who was an outlier. Almost to a non functioning point. I’ve said before, my mental nickname for our encounters was simply “ouch.”
He was a skilled and adaptive lover. I wish him happiness.
“Size” is relative to our own bodies. Visually on him, and functionally on me. I’m nearly a foot shorter than my guy, so I feel generally small next to him. While this is thrilling during hugs, as things progress, we have to work with what’s going on in the moment.
Maybe it’s an issue of less than iron stiffness, or my natural lubricant shows up, leaves a tiny bit and disappears. Maybe we are too distracted listening for housemates. Stress keeps me clenched. Too much stress and nothing fun happens. And he’s not big on me “struggling through.”
I’m aware of differences, but not in a get out the tape way.
More functional engineering.
The needed advice I mention in my signature was someone who was an outlier. Almost to a non functioning point. I’ve said before, my mental nickname for our encounters was simply “ouch.”
He was a skilled and adaptive lover. I wish him happiness.
“Size” is relative to our own bodies. Visually on him, and functionally on me. I’m nearly a foot shorter than my guy, so I feel generally small next to him. While this is thrilling during hugs, as things progress, we have to work with what’s going on in the moment.
Maybe it’s an issue of less than iron stiffness, or my natural lubricant shows up, leaves a tiny bit and disappears. Maybe we are too distracted listening for housemates. Stress keeps me clenched. Too much stress and nothing fun happens. And he’s not big on me “struggling through.”
I’m aware of differences, but not in a get out the tape way.
