Do Women Compare?

[miss_valentine]

I don't think its all men. Me and half my friends will say something like, "Yeah, did some plumbing work last night and laid some pipe down. Good stuff." about girlfriends.

A conquest gets details but not porno stuff description. More like, "Yeah, she was insatiable, couldn't get enough." If breasts are uneven or she had a skinny ass they don't get mentioned cause it woud diminish the experience.

The other half of my friends I tell them, "Hey I don't need the details, I know how to do it." They will discus a skinny ass or funny breasts.

...totally agree spiker. And I dont need details from my friends, its not that interesting to know what they did, how, when how much etc...but I think in a lot of guys fantasies thats what U think we talk about :tongue::biggrin1:

and YES spiker I have told three of my friends I found him on LPSG and only ONE has asked me if he´s hung and answer given Yes and thats it...not so exciting :smile:

 

[miss_valentine]

Why Swedish girls?...some of us are more attracted to Nordic women!
Maybe one is more attracted to their own ethnic group? I do know that I prefer Nordic looking women.

Back to the topic...yes, women gosip among themselves about their guys.
Men do the same thing when they get with their guy friends too.
Believe me on that one, I know...I have heard too much of it at work between the guys. It is just human nature...even if it is not a good trait.

yes of coz we gosip but we gosip about totally different things than size...its not that big a deal. Im not that curious how big my friends bf is, though we can discuss sex loads and so on but not based on size...and it was that I wanted to point out.

 

[B_spiker067]

...totally agree spiker. And I dont need details from my friends, its not that interesting to know what they did, how, when how much etc...but I think in a lot of guys fantasies thats what U think we talk about :tongue::biggrin1:

and YES spiker I have told three of my friends I found him on LPSG and only ONE has asked me if he´s hung and answer given Yes and thats it...not so exciting :smile:

Thats what I like about European sensibilities about sex. They like to fuck aren't shy about it and yet aren't off wildly into some overdone swinger lifestyle. Just normal.

Many people here in the States would judge wrongly/poorly if you met someone on something like LPSG.

 

[viking1]

yes of coz we gosip but we gosip about totally different things than size...its not that big a deal. Im not that curious how big my friends bf is, though we can discuss sex loads and so on but not based on size...and it was that I wanted to point out.

I did not mean the gossip was mainly about size. Oh no, it can be about anything. I know that not all women do this either.

No, not all men gossip. Not all gossip nasty stuff when they do. I just felt that men usually blame women for gossip and men are just as bad.

There is plenty of "size" related gossip among men and also among women. No, not all, or even most, but still plenty.

I have worked where it was a nearly all males and also where it was nearly all females. I have overheard or participated in one too many of these conversations. No not all people are gossips and not all gossip is nasty or hurtful...but far too much of it is.

 

[miss_valentine]

Thats what I like about European sensibilities about sex. They like to fuck aren't shy about it and yet aren't off wildly into some overdone swinger lifestyle. Just normal.

Many people here in the States would judge wrongly/poorly if you met someone on something like LPSG.

...well I havent spend that much time in the state but from what I´ve heard IRL and discussed with peps from the state and from peps online here on LPSG I have gotten the feeling U do judge in a total different way then we do here in Europe...least in Sweden.
Its very common here in Sweden that people met through the internet and just have sex, and nothing wrong about that...no one looks at U strangely and think ur a freak just coz U live life a little and are adventures.

...there are loads of freakier sites here in Sweden than LPSG I can assure U. This site is quite harmless if U compare to other swedish communities... :smile::wink:

 

[viking1]

Thats what I like about European sensibilities about sex. They like to fuck aren't shy about it and yet aren't off wildly into some overdone swinger lifestyle. Just normal.

Many people here in the States would judge wrongly/poorly if you met someone on something like LPSG.

Very true, we are way to uptight about ourselves and sexuality in the USA.
Our culture seems to be getting more repressed all the time. I can see the
difference now compared to when I was in my mid teens 30 years ago.

 

[miss_valentine]

I did not mean the gossip was mainly about size. Oh no, it can be about anything. I know that not all women do this either.

No, not all men gossip. Not all gossip nasty stuff when they do. I just felt that men usually blame women for gossip and men are just as bad.

There is plenty of "size" related gossip among men and also among women. No, not all, or even most, but still plenty.

I have worked where it was a nearly all males and also where it was nearly all females. I have overheard or participated in one too many of these conversations. No not all people are gossips and not all gossip is nasty or hurtful...but far too much of it is.

...and I agree totally what U say Viking1, we have an understading... :smile:

 

[viking1]

...well I havent spend that much time in the state but from what I´ve heard IRL and discussed with peps from the state and from peps online here on LPSG I have gotten the feeling U do judge in a total different way then we do here in Europe...least in Sweden.
Its very common here in Sweden that people met through the internet and just have sex, and nothing wrong about that...no one looks at U strangely and think ur a freak just coz U live life a little and are adventures.

...there are loads of freakier sites here in Sweden than LPSG I can assure U. This site is quite harmless if U compare to other swedish communities... :smile::wink:

A Dutch guy I worked with told me about some of the suff you see over there. He said that I would not believe some of it. A much more open and tolerant society over there as compared to the USA.

 

[Skull Mason]

what a WONDERFUL slumber party that must be...

 

[B_cigarbabe]

We are nudist and at the place we camp Mr Ed is the token " Big Dick".
He gets off on the guys being envious and having their wives compare their husband's dick to his. I get off on them always wanting to know ; how big does it get?, Is he good in bed, what did you think when you first saw it?
I have found that women talk about guys and sex a whole lot more than men think we do!
Miki

 

[stalliongbg]

Do women compare lovers size or just enjoy what current lover has?

What goes through thoughts regarding new lover if he is nice but average when prior lover was hugely endowed... does she get disappointed, long for prior lover, or....?"

I think women compare loads of stuff sometimes. But do think she enjoys what she has rather than looking back.

 

[tiff86]

I've only been with 3 guys and I don't really think too much about the difference in size. It was more when I was starting to have sex w/my bf that I noticed he's a lot bigger and it feels really good. Especially cuz he gets way deeper and that's what makes me orgasm. Now I'm pretty used to him and I guess you could say I'm spoiled cuz I honestly don't know if I could go back. I mean I guess you can make anything work but I dunno, I really like having orgasms and I don't think I'd want to live w/o them. But reading here I don't think I'm normal cuz if I could cum from my clit maybe I wouldn't care as much about how big he is and how deep he can get.

 

[Duane.Ament]

Women, like men, compare lovers. I've heard women sitting next to me at bars talk about the size of a current lover vs. a former lover... And I've had women (whom I was fucking) talk to me about my size and style vs. other guys...

Comparisons happen.

 

[pavement]

Women comparing is a double edged sword:

If you just broke up with a girl, she'll tell everyone you have a small penis (even if you really don't).

If a girl wants only to sleep with you, she'll tell everyone you have a small penis (because she doesn't want her friends getting with you).

If a girl wants a relationship with you, she'll tell everyone that you have a big penis (even if you really do or don't).

Who is this girl of whom you type ?

 

[pavement]

Why Swedish girls?...some of us are more attracted to Nordic women!
Maybe one is more attracted to their own ethnic group? I do know that I prefer Nordic looking women.

Back to the topic...yes, women gosip among themselves about their guys.
Men do the same thing when they get with their guy friends too.
Believe me on that one, I know...I have heard too much of it at work between the guys. It is just human nature...even if it is not a good trait.

But is human nature self evolving ?

and I often lose umbrellas

 

[MrsD9]

JACKPOT!!!!

Going after the area of a man's ego that is most fragile is THE primary weapon women use to corral and "break" a man (that doesnt relate to the material world). She knows that if he is a keeper, then in order to keep him, she needs to intsill the desire for him to constantly improve himself FOR HER. With that being said, with many women there will always be:

"Oh Honey...there was this ONE guy who was a 10 inches long... and came only on command... and his body was flawless...the orgasms he gave me nearly killed me! (She watches pain, misery, defeat, and despair sink into his mind while she tries not to laugh)

((There is a pause))

"But don't worry baby! He was a...jerk...so don't worry about it!":tongue:

She uses a man's inherent competitive nature against him, and he is now a puppet for her on a sexual level and his self-esteem is in the toilet.

Men also will try to "break" a woman by going after her self image. "Your fat...you can't suck dick...your pussy is loose...etc"

With that being said...man or woman...only true lowlife's will use this weapon. Bottom feeders who need to bring someone down so that they no longer have to look UP at people.

...OB

YIKES, and people would stick around for someone like this why? If the idea is to "break" someone, I don't get the appeal...perhaps naive or I'm just too far from the fringe.
Anyway to the topic, I've heard women compare relationships, how much they have sex, for how long and if someone is good in bed, but not specifically focusing on penis size. Not to say there aren't groups of women that compare penis details, it just depends on the type of woman and what stage of life / relationship they are in.

 

[petite]

Anyway to the topic, I've heard women compare relationships, how much they have sex, for how long and if someone is good in bed, but not specifically focusing on penis size. Not to say there aren't groups of women that compare penis details, it just depends on the type of woman and what stage of life / relationship they are in.

This has been my experience. Women can be extremely graphic in their details about sex. I've heard other women go on about how a man kisses in extreme detail for a very long time, but most women leave out any mention of cock size. I don't think it's intentional, I honestly don't think that most women even think about the size of the cock because they're too busy describing things like how he looked into her eyes, and how many times she came, what positions they had sex in, etc. I know how disappointing it is for most of the guys here, but I think that's just the truth. I really don't think that it crosses most women's minds unless it was actually too small to enjoy sex or so large that it caused a problem during sex, THEN the size of the penis comes into the story. Otherwise, it's not nearly as interesting as all the other details.

Now I know a whole bunch of guys are going to say, "Oh I heard it once from this group of women, etc," well they aren't all women. I'm sure there are some women who discuss cock size every single time they talk about having had sex with a man. I've never met those women. There are lots of things lots of guys do on LPSG that not all guys do, like wear their girlfriend's g-strings, or jacking off in a cam room. Just because some guys do it, it doesn't mean that ALL men do it, does it?

 

[HorsemanUK]

Some do, some don’t, differs from women to women. I have a female friend who has seen my endowment on a number of occasions and is very comfortable chatting about it and been very open about how mine is the largest etc. However, she would never discuss penis size openly with other women or in groups only really privately (I know this as I questioned her about does she discuss them with her freinds? To which she said no). On the other hand she has told me she has a friend whose first topic of conversation is always penises how big etc. My friend says she just zones out when her friend goes on but I think it highlights the difference from one woman to the next. It's more often or not women who are attention seeking who like to discuss penis size with other women openly. It doesnt bother me either way personally but there is no definate consensus on women discussing the size of penis. Some women are just not that interested to the point where they want to discuss it with their freinds.

 

[D_Harry_Pitz]

Anyway to the topic, I've heard women compare relationships, how much they have sex, for how long and if someone is good in bed, but not specifically focusing on penis size. Not to say there aren't groups of women that compare penis details, it just depends on the type of woman and what stage of life / relationship they are in.

From what I've heard, this is what I would think they do. And in my experience girls are much more open about their sexlife among eachother than men. Or maybe it's just because me and my friends don't talk about it.
If asked, I'm open about who I do it with, but I (almost) never tell how it was etc...

 

[MsThang]

I come from a family of four girls and I have lots of girlfriends and everyone is different. Some women don't talk about their sex life at all. I can be very open but I will only discuss sex with certain girl friends who aren't judgmental. Women do talk about size but in very general terms. We might mention that a guy is big or fat (which is really subjective) but I don't ever remember anyone using exact measurements.