Do Women Complain About Small Ex Bf's?

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What's interesting is that I have had a similar experience. While my cock is big, it is the girth that I get comments on (new to this group and have yet to measure it round). I have slept with about 10 girls and three of them I could not have sex with or have had limited sex. My next to last girlfriend is the story I'm going to tell you. Before I met her she was dating this undergrad (both virgins) and I was an upper level grad student at the university. We had some mutual friends and at a party one night her friends told me that her and her boyfriend just started having sex and do it all the time like "rabbits" I didn't think much of it at the time and was not dating at the time so just some conversation. I figured "good for them" exploring the joys of sex. Anyway, 3 months later I heard that they broke up and I found out the guy became jealous and didn't want her talking to other guys etc...a little neurotic I guess. Again, didn't think anything of it...just conversation. Also, this girl seemed a little up tight and bitchy. She had a pretty good little body and nice ass ...so so face. I thought to myself, why doesn't this guy just tell her to piss-off. Anyway, one night we're at a party and she's there with some mutual friends and we started talking about school, work etc. and after a few drinks turns out we had a lot in common. She wanted to do a graduate project in my department and I figured she was interested in getting contact information etc. Anyway, after a few more drinks I ended up kissing her and we decided to meet for dinner the next day...dinner was low key...kissed her again but was tired due to previous night partying. We agreed to have another dinner that next thursday - more romantic --sorry about all the boring dating stuff -- anyway at this point I just thought she was using me for kudos w/ my department plus my other friend warned me that the ex was still pursuing her etc. I figured I would just watch my back and maybe get laid but nothing serious...Anyway after dinner we went back to my place where we started to kiss on the couch in my room and I took her shirt off etc. Then she reached for my package and she kinda jumped back a bit, seemed startled and kept going. When we finally got naked and I sprung it out she didn't say anything but kindov stared at it in shock/amazement, looked at it some more and then played with it a bit. This has happened before and girls have made comments but not like this. I figured it was due to her relative inexperience with sex. After telling me she didn't like to have sex with just every guy she meets we agreed to have sex that night. Go figure.Again she was a smaller girl (physically ) but had a cute tan little body and curly hair. When I proceeded to put cock in she tensed up and tightened her legs / body which made it harder for me. No pun intended. She had her eyes closed and was kindov biting her lip at the same time. That's when I kindov knew for sure that she'd never seen or experienced a dick like mine. Upon trying to get it in, she was so tight that I figured her ex couldn't have been that big. After trying some more, I got my head partially in and then we had to stop again. Still she said nothing, so I started talking to her asking her how it felt etc. She said she was nervous, but that she still wanted to have sex. I asked her if she'd ever had an orgasm before and she said "no" but had come close a few times. So after we tried to have sex again and this time I used some lubricant and fondled her a bit prior to entry. I tried to insert some more and then with one great but gentle push I broke through and was deep in. Her eyes kindov popped open for a second or two while she adjusted to my big dick. I'm not trying to self promote, just stating the facts. After I got my motion going she loosened up a bit and started to moan something fierce...freak like...her legs then tightened up again and I swear she nearly chopped my dick off at the base...then she started to shreik a bit, her dark curly hair loosened up, her breathing became erratic and she literally went nuts over the next minute or so. I got pretty good control in the bed, and I wasn't super attracted to her but man, that was some of the best sex I've ever had. I was done about halfway through that. When we finished, L. gave me an embarrassed giggle, put on her jeans and undies and I agreed to take her home. We talked the next day, and admittedly she said she was sore and later divulged that she "didn't think a penis could get that big". She also said she had the most amazing feeling she's ever had in her life. We kindov giggled about it. After dating for a while, I asked about her ex-and she said it was awkward the first few times they had sex and although they had sex a lot, she never had an orgasm. Although we never specifically discussed size, she told me sex with her ex was like repeatedly being poked by a finger. She said with me it was like straddling a rocket and being blasted into space. She giggled and it was never brought up again. Apparantly he sent her flowers and chocolates several times after and sent her some long sappy emails (which she allowed me to read) We dated for about six months. Her personality left much to be desired as she was a driven type A personality. I prefer more laid back girls. But in the sack she was an absolute freak.Towards the end of our relationship when we had sex, I would just ease it on in, and she actually complained that I had stretched her vagina out... Anyway, she moved to France to study and the long distance thing didn't work out. I've now been dating someone for two years...she says I have the biggest cock out of anyone she's dated but not the biggest one she's ever seen. She said she had a one night stand with a bigger one but did not sleep with him. She said this guy's looked like an inflated pringles can. Overall with her, the sex is good, but I like that she's just a cool person. Hope that answered your question...Peace ...BigBoy
 

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I think this is usually the case. I generally don't talk about my ex gfs either. I will complement and say if a girl's ass is great or how I love her breasts or pussy, etc., but to compare seems rude. It means you're thinking of others while you're with him/her.

I don't know. I don't think this is neccesarily the case. I mean, you're really more thinking about your life- other people just happened to have been in it.

I think it would be rude to make unfavorable comparisons out loud. But observations which are neutral or complimentary, observations which really translate to, "You are everything I was missing!" should draw you closer together, and not the opposite, I think.
 

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My wife has complained about her high school boyfriend who was about 5 inches and thin... The first time we had rough sex I made her bleed. She said, "I feel like a virgin again!"
 

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I've had a couple of exes talk of guys who were "so small I couldn't tell if it was in or not" while wiggling a finger, one of them was my charming ex wife who once pointed the poor guy out in the pub...

My current girlfriend though is different, reckons the smallest she's had was the best but she wouldn't dream of estimating size in inches, it could be he was only slightly smaller than me, who can tell? like most women she doesn't enjoy talking cock size.

In fact, it's quite possible that the few women i've known who have mentioned small exes only did it when it became apparent that I liked talking about big cocks and thought I was insecure enough to need the reassurance.
 

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Women are not some steriotypical sub-species.
There are adult women with discretion and a degree of ethics that would prevent them being gossips about former male partners. You could say they are a superior class of females.
Then you get the the silly gurlies who think they are pandering to the worst in male vanity by supplying him with perjorative remarks about the size of past boyfriends. Bimbos of both sexes fall into this category.
If I date and sleep with such women then my estimation of them is lowered when they say I am so much "bigger" than their last fella. Why? Because it shows them for what they are: immature sychophantic "bitches".
 

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well, culturally, here is different, girls seem to feel like they have to compliment your size and trash their exes

I have a friend who is 11" and I did his ex and I am 10.5 to 11 on a good day
his ex kept telling me you are huge the biggest by far, my ex was almost half the size, she doesn't know that i know his size
 

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I've had lots of appreciative comments, but only a few times has a women said anything negative about a former lover's cock size. Lots of other complaints about ex's, but like I said, only a few about size issues.
 

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All 5 of the guys I was with before my husband were much smaller than him, but I never complained about any of them. I definitely compliment him on his size (I think my exact words the first time I saw it were "oh fuck!"), and he's well aware that he's the biggest I've been with. But I also complimented the other guys on their size, too...if the biggest you've been with is six inches, then you're going to be able to say "you're the biggest I've been with".
 

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my last girlfriend said she enjoyed the size of my cock, though in order to keep me from getting too cocky or anything she made sure i know it wasn't the biggest she'd ever seen (just slept with). but she was just as impressed if not moreso by how i used it (and my oral skills, lol). said i was the best she'd ever had. and i felt inclined to believe her because she was definitely the best i'd ever been with. :)

and she also mentioned, unrelatedly, that her last boyfriend had a very small penis and wasn't good in bed. it wasn't like an "i'm going to turn you on by mentioning how big you are compared to his small dick." she was just telling me about it while we were talking about past sexual experiences.

but still...in my head, it kind of put her appreciative comments about me into a greater context.
 

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i vote for +1... the ONLY reason i joined this site was because i was told by my girlfriend that i was "larger" than anything else...which i found odd, so i had to see if it was true...
 

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First if a X girlfriend is going to talk negative about her X boyfriends size I would think you are better off with out her in your life and the reason she is an X.

I have only been with two women sexually in my life both have told me that I have the goods.
 

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Yeah, GF told me her ex was hung like her baby finger...and very non satisfying.. I met him once and he is a good looking, athetic guy that you would never guess was micro... So ladies and gents I guess it really is true that you can never judge the book by the cover or fabric concealing it....

uz
 

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Why is it erotic to see a woman try to handle and deal with your small penis? My mind cant wrap around that.

In this guy's defense, one of the defining characteristics of fetishes is that they're illogical. Why do foot fetishes get turned on by feet when they're not a sex organ? Why do chubby chasers get turned on by obese people? There's no rational explanation for them; they just are.

That said, threads created with the specific intention of generating SPH anecdotes are sort of annoying.
 

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My wife put it to me this way:

"As long as we're married, I will tell all my girlfriends you're the biggest and the best.

If it ends, I'll tell them you're hung like a pimple."
 

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My wife put it to me this way:

"As long as we're married, I will tell all my girlfriends you're the biggest and the best.

If it ends, I'll tell them you're hung like a pimple."

:dot: thats fucked up in a serious way. I wouldnt have anything to do with a woman who has that sort of attitude let alone marry. At least shes spoken for.