Do Women Complain About Small Ex Bf's?

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I think this is a way to demean him and make him less of a man. but the fact may be he is more of a man (awesome job, lots of money, well respected, many good friends, many assets....)

A small penis does not make a guy less of a man. But it is a good way to humilate a man because every man secretly wants to have a huge cock, and all women know this.
 

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I think because of the male race's well known sensitivity regarding penis size, we infact empower the women who like to do this. In a sense, we are our own worst enemy.
 

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... As for me, while I might have discussed sizes with large partners, I never complained about previous partners' sizes to them.

That matches my own experience, I've never had a woman complain to me about a previous partner's size. But I did experience one humorous incident that came close. I have a lady friend that I have known since high school days, and had always been attracted to, but we never had sex until just a few years ago. That because we each spent most of our adult lives in LTRs with someone else. Like me her last boyfriend was six and a half feet tall and even larger in body size than I, let's just call him Sam. Well the first time this lady and I had sex she commented that I was "huge" and I said "A little pencil dick would look out of place on a man my size, wouldn't it?" She said "I dunno, maybe you should ask Sa...., oh never mind."
 

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This is a tough one. Personally, big or small I would find it disconcerting that a sex partner would discuss the sexual dimensions of a previous sex partner. This is not a straight or gay thing because it happens on both sides of that fence.

To me this indicates that the person is a gossip with regads to sharing details of a private moment or momets shared between two people with the best of intentions. Because penile size is determined for the most part by genetics it is also an observation or critique of something that the individual could not easily change. That to me makes it worse and even more a nail in that sex partner's coffin.

Not a good thing in any case....................

It will always lead to questions in the mind of the person told later with regards to their own "reviews".
 

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To me it simply doesn't say much for the woman who disses a once important person in their life, for the sake of trying to demean them about something no male has control of. To me, there is no justification for it at all, and is just a case of sheer maliciousness. Not to mention a juvenile mind....
 

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Amber, what was your reason for telling one guy that your ex was smaller?


well seein as u ask!!! :wink:

after 10 years of mental, emotional and sometimes physical abuse from a a guy, who after I left him to this day still tries to control my life 3 years later in every way he can owing to the fact we hve a son together.....whom he doesnt pay for...

Well I dnt regularly go around discussin my ex's cock wiv anyone as I sed...but I was seein this guy, it just came up and so yeh I sed his weren't that great... Urs is better!!!
Which was true!!

I seriously don't feel I owe the bastard much.........

 

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I wouldn't say I came right out and just said it, but he knew all of my ex's and yes, we have had that conversation. I tell him all the time and I also inform him that I probably couldn't be with anyone else, seeing how I am now accustomed to his size, lol. Along those lines though, he has always told me how big my tits are compared to his ex's. I love that compliment, and probably a little more considering I despise all his ex's.
 

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On a side note to that. I didn't say it to be demeaning to my ex's. It worked for when I was with them, and I had no complaints to voice at the time, but to go back at this point and have sex with them, I probably wouldn't get much pleasure out of it.
 

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Unfortunately there is no part of the female that can be demeaned in a similiar fashion, or at least that would create the same effect as calling a man small-dicked. Or else that juvenilve behavior would cease. It's all because society has placed the onus on the male to prove his alpha-ness. Dick size being a primary symbol of that....
 

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I have never had a woman say anything about their ex's or past fuck buddies. Woman have always been the best when with me. We have had conversations about my size being small, but never in a comparative or rude way. Only in a "you must know its small, so lets figure out a way to make love where I can get off" way.
 
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My experience is that like me, the woman I'm with concentrates on what we're doing rather than making comparisons. Every woman is different in some way, and so is every man. While I have received compliments on my size, especially girth, and had to make special efforts with some women to persuade them to take it in, I haven't heard much in the way of direct comparison.

One current married lover does say I'm the best fuck she's had for some time, but that's not just about size, I'm sure. I prefer smaller women and tight pussies but if I'm fucking a larger woman or looser pussy I don't complain, just get on with pleasuring us both.