I was a man whore in my 20s and i always got a laugh when women tried to control me with sex, i had countless fuck buddies would would catch feeling then be like "we start dating seriously or no more sex" as if they were the only pussy i had access to, i'd walk and be fucking some other woman 30 minutes later.
Or the ones i really got a kick out of were the ones that thought exactly like you are talking about, they can get any man at any time they want, so you turn them down and it drives them nuts. I knew one, she was banging a buddy then found out through an ex i was big, she starts coming on to me but i wasn't having it and she would go even harder, finally one day she was at my place dropping something off i was horny and i decided to fuck her, she thought she had me hooked but soon found out she didn't and it would drive her nuts, i'd fuck her when i wanted to and that was that.
Once i figured out the angles and approaches that worked for me i never had issues getting laid.