Many women I know basically have no interest in monogamous relationships long term. I am not saying there is anything wrong with that buy I am just curious on feed back on this.
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Beautifully said.I spent nine years looking for this 20-year relationship I have right now. I have kissed a lot of frogs along the way. Some became princes, but they hopped away.
It's when I quit looking for frogs that I found my real prince.
Beautifully said.
also, I went hiking near silverthorne recently. At an area named Lilypad. I thought of you!
Well, to soften it, I’ve gotten a few friends using the term. Correctly.LOL! I'm going to share this with my Mum! She'll be mortified!
Truth! But I'm stlll looking.I can't speak for other women. I don't know where the ladies in your orbit are at in their lives. Considering the behavior of too many of the modern Burgerland males? I understand not wanting to bind your life to them.
I think monogamy can be very fulfilling. I enjoy being close enough to share all my inner most desires and kinks and fulfilling each other’s fantasies. That being said...my BF seems to be going through ED I suspect due to some new meds (bipolar) and to say it’s been a challenge ...uh yah. When we first hooked up we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. Now it’s literally weeks and then 1 quickie and I’m like .... sooo I’ve never in my life considered cheating but seriously masterbation can only satisfy for so long something’s gotta give.
Talk to him. Be kind, express ta needs and frustrations without assigning blame. Ask him how he's feeling as far as how the meds are working and the sexual side effects.
Have him talk to his Doctor. Even changing to a generic of the same medication can lessen certain side effects. Maybe, if available and budget permitting, he adds talk therapy to his treatment. Depression is a killer of libido even without meds.
In the mean time, if spirit is willing, there are heaps of other ways to get smexy and satisfied. Exploring other avenues and kinks might build connection and intimacy between you. Relationships can also be opened up as long as all parties are willing, honest, and respectful.
Cheating is never an option. The threat of cheating should never be used to manipulate a relationship. If ya willing to step out, ya must consider the possibility that you should leave. Face it, leaving or cheating is going to hurt ya manfriend. One is painful but ultimately for the best if the relationship can't be saved. The other will only further damage/hurt one of you. Even if ya never get caught, everything after is a lie.
Talk to him. Be kind, express ta needs and frustrations without assigning blame. Ask him how he's feeling as far as how the meds are working and the sexual side effects.
Have him talk to his Doctor. Even changing to a generic of the same medication can lessen certain side effects. Maybe, if available and budget permitting, he adds talk therapy to his treatment. Depression is a killer of libido even without meds.
In the mean time, if spirit is willing, there are heaps of other ways to get smexy and satisfied. Exploring other avenues and kinks might build connection and intimacy between you. Relationships can also be opened up as long as all parties are willing, honest, and respectful.
Cheating is never an option. The threat of cheating should never be used to manipulate a relationship. If ya willing to step out, ya must consider the possibility that you should leave. Face it, leaving or cheating is going to hurt ya manfriend. One is painful but ultimately for the best if the relationship can't be saved. The other will only further damage/hurt one of you. Even if ya never get caught, everything after is a lie.
Wow thank you for response, this is new territory for me. It’s been difficult to not take it personally and feel like it’s something I can do something about, not being a man it’s hard to understand some of these things. On flip having struggled with depression myself I have always used sex as a mood booster which probably explains why I am hot
Yes I agree cheating is not the answer, just not sure what to do with all this pent up sexual frustration. I have tried talking to him about it and he gets defensive and uncomfortable and says he has too much on his mind and I need to just master bate like he does. I’ve given him mind blowing blowjobs hoping he might return the favor and nothing. I’ve dressed sexy, rubbed on him loved on him , constantly, but like you said I guess if he is struggling with depression and bipolar issues it’s a waste of time cause it doesn’t matter. My biggest issue right now really is not taking it personally cause I’m not gonna lie it’s a blow to your ego when you are constantly being rejected. Idk I think I might have some sex addiction issues myself maybe I need to address. Anyway thanks for the reply I appreciate the advice to hear from a mans perspective![]()