Do women generally have to lube up for a large one?

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Not as a rule, and not because he's endowed, but sometimes extra lube is just a necessity. Probably age related.
 

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Not as a rule, and not because he's endowed, but sometimes extra lube is just a necessity. Probably age related.

Quoted for truth. Remember it's elastic. The intensity of the friction is affected by the size, but is not directly proportional to it ;).
 
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It's called Tongue'n'Saliva. Kinda messy stuff, yet it works well.
 
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Have never really had this issue, if foreplay isn't up to scratch thats generally where things will end, for me good foreplay is crucial, especially with a 'ginormous peener' as you so eloquently put it, as this provides all the lube I need if done properly.

When I was very young with my first boyfriend, who wasn't particularly big (seemed huge at the time!), we would sometimes need some assistance with a bit of KY but that was because we were both inexperienced fumbling idiots and he found it difficult to hit the right spots. Once we got over that all was fine.
 

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er.. not really?

i'd think that's why women get wet when they're aroused right? ;) You don't need to have been to medical school to know that.
 

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Not all the time my ex got so wet I could almost feel it through her jeans while I still had to go slow for a minute or two she was fine. Another girl not so much I think she was worried or something.
 

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I never need lube if my lover gets me excited and turned on. Foreplay is key, but if I am super-horny and into my guy, I will get wet just from thinking about his cock or even something as simple as seeing his profile. Sex is more than just physical, it is emotional and mental.

That said, HAVING a "ginormous peener" can sometimes mean that the owner of the peener thinks that his giant cock "magically" makes him an expert cocksman whose penis creates orgasms everywhere it goes by right of its innate ginormity. Or, the deluded owner of said ginormous peener mistakenly believes that his very presence creates rivers of wetness and dripping pussies in his wake, and therefore, he does not need to make any additional effort in attempting to arouse or pleasure the woman.

Bottom line: If the dude makes the effort at foreplay and pleasuring the woman, most women will naturally be aroused for sex, regardless of the guy's cock size. But every woman is different, and hormones and arousal vary from person to person and situation to situation, so some women may need lube.
 

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er.. not really?

i'd think that's why women get wet when they're aroused right? ;) You don't need to have been to medical school to know that.


actually, Ive seen this topic on Yahoo Answers, Loveline, and Dr.Ruth. Some women claim their puss cannot adequately lubricate to accommodate their boyfriend's large penis. I was surprised too, but apparently it's a thing, at least for some women.
 

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In my experience, after 23 years with the same guy, even foreplay isn't enough to get me super wet. A lot of that is mental, and, well, it's hasn't been all shiny and new in a long time. But there's an age component as well. Post-childbirth and breast feeding, I notice more dryness and thinning of the vulva tissue. I'm 39, married to high school sweetheart, so not yet menopause. At some times of the month, I can cause small tears to my labia just wiping after peeing. I don't see the problem with lube, and always have some on hand. It's not always required, but it's always available.
 

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I love silicone lube. That aside, it is common to need lube when having sex with circumcised men.