Ok, I can continue having sex after ejaculating with a very short or no refractory period. (most of the time I can just continue without having to stop). So if I can continue would it anger a woman that I come first? I'm asking because my new girlfriend wants me to have sex for an hour without coming (which I would like to do sometimes, but not always). And, she gets mad at me if I come first (but can continue to go) What's the deal???