Do women like anal sex?

[Embrace69]

It is a fear thing. Because when it happened accidentally it hurt like a S.O.B. BUT I think it's because I wasn't prepared and like you said, I'm with someone (now) I can trust and we can dictate the experience. We've been very exploratory with each other in different ways. I'm just warming up to the fact of doing it. It's not something that just happens. You know?

 

[BigInBellevue]

It is edifying to read all the different responses, some from women, some from men. It's like a lot of other things on this site - much variety. My impression is that a considerable factor is the man's technique. If he teases her anus, lubes some fingers and then his penis, and goes slowly, she will relax sufficiently that it won't hurt, and once in it should provide pleasure. The person who said something as big around as a Coke can would be too big to be pleasurable may have a point. I think a small to moderately large circumference penis would be easier to take. Most of my anal experience has been occasional ones with men.

 

[petite]

I have enjoyed anal sex with men who have smaller penises. TheBF and I have only managed it a few times, and there's no way it would accidentally slip in there! He's just too girthy for that. He has to push and push and push before the head finally pops in. The times we've managed to get it all the way have been pleasurable, although once I couldn't do it for very long at all. I am hoping to have more anal sex in the future. I would like to add that to our sex life.

 

[D_Tina_Ciao]

I'm curious as to whether many women like anal sex.

Not THIS old gal! :frown1: Give me vaginal, and fill me up! :biggrin1:

 

[jake7.5]

i know my ex-wife did not like it. we tried it once and she screamed "take it out! it hurts like hell". it was fucking tight, I know that much about it. It did not last long that night, I think all I got was my big head inserted and maybe 1/4 of the way in and she was screaming to take it out. :frown1:

 

[dolfette]

i know my ex-wife did not like it. we tried it once and she screamed "take it out! it hurts like hell". it was fucking tight, I know that much about it. It did not last long that night, I think all I got was my big head inserted and maybe 1/4 of the way in and she was screaming to take it out. :frown1:

inexperienced men do tend to just lube it up & pop it in, like you would a vag. i know that i takes a LONG time of gentle, opening finger play before i'm ready, and then clitoral stimulation so that i don't notice the initial discomfort so much.

 

[jake7.5]

inexperienced men do tend to just lube it up & pop it in, like you would a vag. i know that i takes a LONG time of gentle, opening finger play before i'm ready, and then clitoral stimulation so that i don't notice the initial discomfort so much.

damn! it sounds as if you was there in the room with us.. lol
but you did get all of that right. we had only been married a few years before we tried it and yes we were lubed up and i went in head first. that was a mistake, just got the head popped in and it was like a clamp had squeezed down on my cock, i was like wow! ouch!

 

[tinydick4u]

My little dick was built for anal sex.A lot of lube and slip in nice and slow.

 

[B_ILIW]

even though taking it can be joyous for both men and women, I reckon that a lot of women (i'm not female, but this is just what I hear from women) think that it's dirty, and hence the "ewww!!" factor comes into play.

I guess another school of thought is the "I have a pussy, so why put it in my ass?" idea lol. I don't get that idea fully. OK yeah, the anus/rectum in themselves are not designed for penetration. but a cock feels good in there, and can give an orgasm, so what other reason is there to do it? lol.

 

[badgirl22]

I've had very limited experience with anal sex. My hangup has more to do with the *ick* than fear of pain factor. I am afraid I might poop on them or that it will just be yucky. I know you can clean out before hand but even that seems weird to me. I like the smell of my pussy. My ass...not so much.

I do love rimming but am too hung up to relax and enjoy being rimmed myself.

Would love to get over my issues and enjoy it.

 

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

basically my thoughts: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOHs_5HQLaA&feature=related

except if a lady wants to stick a finger up my ass she is free too

 

[B_johnschlong]

Do women like anal sex?

The answer is very simple: no, women don't like anal sex.

The anus is not really designed for that. What's more, women don't have a prostate gland, so no reason to take that route to reach there, either.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Riiiight . . . . so all the women who say they do are lying?

 

[dolfette]

some men are sooooooo stupid when it comes to women.

 

[sbat]

Riiiight . . . . so all the women who say they do are lying?

This is the same guy that says African men don't eat pussy. And that he fucked promiscuously when he was in Central Africa..

 

[Fleur]

I had anal sex yesterday...I can genuinely say I loved it. John, you need to get a clue...read a handbook on not being ignorant...etc.

 

[thetramp]

some men are sooooooo stupid when it comes to women.

You just have to accept that he knows every women better than you know yourself. Some people have the gift to know extraordinary things, some can tell you what you and every women in the world likes, some can tell me how i and every men in the world is, and some can tell us what happens when we die.
I just have a great deal of respect for these minds and spend half my day envying them.

 

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

I'm sorry but women don't like anal sex. This is a fact.



























































































They love it.

 

[dolfette]

eeeeeeeeeeew! but it's so icky!

do i have to love it, dude??

 

[thetramp]

Its your destiny :rofl: