i was trying to understand if PE is a turn off or turn on for women?
if a guy is already big,is it hot to see him "bigger"
or does it just seem overdone on the whole big big big thing.
and if it is a good thing...is there a point where it is no longer hot?
I think the question is a perception issue.
"Its pathetic if he has to do it because it means he has self esteem issues."
Which is BS. PE is just another form of self improvement and the end result is a man that feels better about himself and is more confidence. That confidence is going to benifit all parties involved. I see no difference in that and a woman
buying a pair or new breasts.
Now, the question is still contexual. After reading many threads and posts similar to the subject, here is what I have found:
In one case, a wife wanted her husband to stop because the added size was starting to cause discomfort instead of pleasure. Her jaw would hurt and get sore more often and her vagina was starting to get raw more often. And the guy was torn because he had not reached his goal yet and didnt want to stop, but wanted to be sensative to his wife's needs.
Another thread I read where the girl actually told the guy that he should look into those penis enlargment pills. He was on the smaller size to begin with. She really wanted/ needed that extra inch for her pleasure. And the guy was good with his hands, mouth, and tounge; better than any of her previous lovers. She would not of minded him doing PE.
And, from what I have read here, a woman would not mind her partner being "just a little bigger". Length or girth is always debated.
So, here is my conclusion:
If a man is in a realtionship, women would not mind if he does PE, within reason. Women actually get excited, like its a new penis.
If a man is not in a realtionship, a man who does PE is seen, by women, as pathetic because there is an implication that he "needs" to do it to cover some inadequecy; physical or mental.
So now my question is, do you tell a women that you do PE? Should the world know you do it?