do women like guys to PE?

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I personally dislike penis pumping intensely - it give the penis an artificial appearance and looks soft/floppy and without shape/form. I much prefer a smaller, well-shaped penis with definition and hardness than to see a soft, pumped-up bigger penis that looks dysfunctional and is repulsive (i.e., brings to mind, worms) :frown1:

A higher-end of average, thick, well-shaped penis with rock hardness beats a slick-looking, pumped-up, big penis anytime, imho. I *really* dislike what "pumping" the penis does to it in terms of appearance.

My 2 cents. But I'm only one of many. I'm certain there are also women who like pumped-up phalli (just not me). lol!

Major turn off! :yuck: Pumped cocks always look grotesquely bloated. Plus it's not like it stays that way. I would not be pleased or turned on if everytime I wanted to be intimate with a man he had to pump up first.

[/QUOTE] It's not good. I don't even like seeing gallery pics of guys with pumps on or stretching devices. It makes me think that the real problem is in their brain and not their penis.

None of that sounds attractive or appealing. The whole jelquing thing just seems like wanking.

What you ladies are talking about is one method of PE, pumping, and I agree that pumping gives the penis a bloated look and from what I hear, a soft, squishy feel. Most of the time these pumped gains are only temporary too so I see why pumping can be useless and not attractive to most women.

But most men who do PE these days do not pump, they use other techniques which cause permanent gains, and these gains take months or even years to achieve. They don't give quick temporary gains like pumping. They come in small increments over a long period of time, just like bodybuilding.

I have gained just under 1.5 inch in length and 1 inch in girth from these techniques and my gains stayed even when I stopped for 2 years. As for the look, it looks just like it did when it was smaller, only now its bigger and you could never tell I've done PE. And as for feel, it has the same consistency, no bloating or softness at all. If anything my erections have become harder. If a man does it right his penis should grow while keeping the same basic shape and feel and not end up looking like a failed science experiment.

PE to me is very much like bodybuilding, there isn't much difference between wanting to grow your muscles for improved strength and looks or what ever reason and wanting to grow your penis for better sex or what ever else. I noticed an increase in the quality of areas of my life when I started lifting weights (I used to be very, very skinny) and I noticed a dramatic increase in the quality of my sex life when I started PE. I only have to do a few 20 minute sessions a week, less time than I spend in the gym, so its something I believe is well worth it for what I have achieved.

And no, jelqing is nothing like wanking, but it would be nice if it was. :biggrin1:
 
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Same thing can be said about women who get breast implants.
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and there are plenty of men who don't like the look and/or feel of breasts with implants. some do. everyone's got preferences, and there's probably someone out there to meet them. ;)
 

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I think men who do PE are ridiculous....especially if they are already a decent (average or above) size. I think above everything else you should like yourself for who you are.....and PE is just another way that people go around changing themselves when it really isn't necessary.

Are women who get breast implants pathetic?
 

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oh, and i object to labeling men pathetic for doing this.
it's makeup, push up bras, hair dye, corsets, piercings, tatts, whatever.
if it makes a person feel more comfortable in their own skin then who are we to judge?
it's ok to find it a turn of. it's not ok to call them pathetic.

May I kiss you?
 

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Are women who get breast implants pathetic?

I never called anyone pathetic. I think both things are ridiculous practices. The only exception I would make for breast implants is for someone who has had breast cancer and undergone a mastectomy...they aren't trying to make something "better" they are simply replacing something they lost. I think any serious modifications of your body are ridiculous at least in some sense. What is so wrong with being the person you were born?
 

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as long as it doesn't become an obsession (and it often does), i'm okay with it.

If you're not obsessed with it, you won't see any positive results. So it's kinda stupid saying it's okay as long as it doesn't become an obsession.

And women who thinks PE is ridiculous, are just hypocrites.
They all want men with big cocks, but they think it's ridiculous when men try to improve their size :rolleyes:
 

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When my man was doing it, I understood why, I tried to be there for him. It didnt turn me off or on. I felt bad that he felt that he needed to. But I understood why, bc I cheated with a bigger dick. I didnt think it was pathetic. It was for him to feel better, hopefully get results, and to give me something he wasnt giving me already. I commended his determination, his want to be something he wanted to be, and it was attractive as a person not as a dick-growing attempt.
 

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If you're not obsessed with it, you won't see any positive results. So it's kinda stupid saying it's okay as long as it doesn't become an obsession.

And women who thinks PE is ridiculous, are just hypocrites.
They all want men with big cocks, but they think it's ridiculous when men try to improve their size :rolleyes:


i would rather be with a man with a natural and average cock than a man who obsessed over PE to get an above average one. Just like if I were a lesbian I'd rather be with a woman with tiny boobs than one who got implants.
 

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i would rather be with a man with a natural and average cock than a man who obsessed over PE to get an above average one. Just like if I were a lesbian I'd rather be with a woman with tiny boobs than one who got implants.

No, obviously this random poster speaks for all women, and you are just lying for attention.

*End sarcasm*
 

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I admit to doing it to make up for being vertically challenged. However, being in a non-clothing optional society, it doesn't make a difference because it is covered up or a hard-on is scorned upon here in most of America because I would be considered a pervert. However, I love the attention I get already in a nudist camp or locker room as they no longer look at height but cock height. It is easier for men to see because we share locker rooms but I want the ladies to see it too who are open-minded about it. I don't tell people I do it anyway and they can't tell the difference.

I am stretching for a niner hoping it will peep out of my belt for all to look at.
 

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I would never allow him to try and make it bigger than it already is.
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Actually having a bigger penis is probably more pleasing to the guy. I find that I can do deeper thrusts and don't have the problem I see in porn with guys with shorter dicks falling out. I also have more flexibility to cover up what does not go in and what I want to go in that my partner can take. I like it deeper because more of my penis is being covered by a warm wet pussy or butthole than if I had a shorter one. I get to feel more of a woman's inside. What I also like is I can do positions where 2" of the penis is between the butt cheeks and 5" is inside her pussy or anus. A 5"er would only penetrate 3 inches.