hijinxy - don't feel inadequate about being "too loose." Quite the contrary, as a guy with a petty decent girth, it can be difficult to the point of futile to penetrate a tight vagina. The best pussies I have fucked have been what you might consider "loose." In fact, some may be far looser than your own. None, however, have been so loose as to feel like I'm not penetrating. (I may be thicker than some guys, but frankly, I've always thought that was a myth. If a guy can't cum from a girl's vagina it's not because it's too loose. There's something else going on with the gal or the guy.) But an easy insertion into a loose pussy isa major turn-on. So stop being so hard on yourself. Every pussy has it's sweet spot. That is to say, a guy can find a ridge, some tissue, or sometimes that elusive "pussy within the pussy" that will make him cum, so the circumference of the opening is really only the first of many special parts.