I am a sociology and psychology geek and I am wondering something, do women feel pressure from the standards of the media? I am asking this because it seems like now a days a guy can't be average, especially in my generation. It seems like women or teenagers (18+) want a guy that is strong as a bull, has the chizzled body of a greek god statue and a dick big enough to feel like reverse child birth. And women can no longer be average either, they need to be thin, big breasts, pulmp ass and for some reason white women want to be dark by getting tans? And black women want to be light by getting skin bleach? Men are also going through the same thing, a man has to be lean and hung and I mean the type of hung that loks like someone shoved a coke bottle into their dick. Teenage boys are now dying from anirexia and are seeing urologists to talk about penis enlargment. In my opinion it seems like we are trying to fit the unreal world of the media. In my experience: my girlfriend and I have ALOT of sex ( I am suprised she isnt pregnant) and its good sex I make her cum she likes the way my dick feels and I like the way she feels. Now, she watches porn every once in a while and one day she wanted to try a position she saw. I watched the video and when I saw how this guys cock was built I couldn't believe my eyes. The women looked like she was having a leg shoved in her. So, me and my gf have sex it was great but she then told me she wishes I could be a little bigger more in girth. Now what I dont understand is that, sometimes during sex she will tell me to slow down or not go so deep because I am a bit big for her. But, she has also compared me to guys in the past who where alot bigger than me. And older. So I created a website (took it down three days ago) where it was a poll of what the new standards of what men and women want. I compared them to girls saying average is good and guys saying average is good and found something shocking (not really). OUT OF TEN THOUSAND RESULTS FROM MEN AND WOMEN. Only 34% of women said that they wouldn't mind a average guy and only 21% of guys said they wouldnt mind a average girl. 41% of women said they wanted a guy that was 7 inches long and atleast 5 inches in girth. 19% said they wanted a guy that was 8 inches long and atleast 5.5 inches girth. 20% said they wanted a guy that was 9 inches long and atleast 6 inches in girth. 10% said they wanted a guy that was 9+ inches and atleast 6.5 inches in girth. The rest were either undecided, didnt care or loved average. Many of those womens replies were along the lines of. "I want a huge one especially for a one night stand" "Small or average is boring" ETC. What a man wants in a woman: These results where so outlandish that it was disturbing, apparently average is ugly. It seems like men are looking for a super tight girl that looks like a porn star. I believe only 15% said they judge on personality. So my question is what kind of person do you want? For a small documentary look up, Extreme Male Beauty on google it shows how womens views are affecting mens heads. Also,there are millions of articles about how mens views are affecting womens heads.