OK, new question: everyone talks about the importance of "size", but how important is stiffness? I ask because a woman I dated not too long ago, told me she wasn't really into having sex if I wasn't hard as steel -- this is the first time I'd really encountered this -- other girls have always liked my size regardless of other details. I asked if she was serious or joking, and she was serious -- it wasn't a huge deal to her, but she said she wasn't joking -- she found "weakness" to be a turn-off. This came up because I would cum the first or second time that night and be ready to go again in just a few minutes -- I was pretty sure I was my full ~8" length but after the first, certainly after the second, if we were standing facing each other, the base was erect but there was some downward curve to it -- it was pointing at her feet rather than saluting her face at the start of the evening. Her take was, I should pace myself and not get rubbery. So, I dislike vague "do you still beat your wife" questions and like the questions to be well-understood, so I'll phrase it this way for the ladies: If you had your choice between your guy having a 7" penis that always pointed at your face, or a 9" penis that always had some flex to it, which would you choose? Would it depend on the situation? In other words, would you find one more aesthetically pleasing when you take your sweatshirt off at the beach and your girlfriends notice the reaction in your boyfriend's pants? Do you prefer one for oral sex but the other for riding him? Just curious.