Do women really enjoy porn?

[Appaloosa]

To be honest...I actually don't get off on video porn. The fake-ness is a real turnoff. I'm much happier looking at a few nicely taken photos (So am LOVING the photo galleries on here *grin*) and letting my imagination fill in the rest.

I think the thing that turns me on the most though is being with a girl who's getting off to porn...

 

[wldhoney]

I can't answer right now. I'm watching "Anal Trainers".

 

[happyfeet]

Porn does nothing for me. I can't masturbate or fuck with it on.

Then again, I can't masturbate while thinking of real people. I have to make people up in order to get off.

Porn feels like imagination encroachment to me.

 

[Mawg]

And then there is the whole argument that women as more emotionally stimulated than visually - we'd allegedly rather read about Mr.Darcy making Ms.Eyre's cheeks rosey on a vigorous walk!

Way off topic...but...

Funny you should mention this particular book. When I first read Jane Austen's "Pride and Prejudice" years ago, didn't really "get it." Years later, it became one of my all-time favs. It takes some effort, but I found it worthwhile. The BBC did a great production of this classic a that can be rented. Again, effort is required effort as the video is over 5 hours long.

Darcy's first proposal of marriage to Elizabeth Bennet remains one of the classic scenes in all English literature.

"In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you."

Remember that he is enormously wealthy, and she is ... not. Falling for a girl "from the wrong side of the tracks" was not at all what he had in mind (hmm..there were no tracks in those days).

And his shock(!) when she rejected him with these words:

"In such cases as this, it is, I believe, the established mode to express a sense of obligation for the sentiments avowed, however unequally they may be returned. It is natural that obligation should be felt, and if I could feel gratitude, I would now thank you. But I cannot—I have never desired your good opinion, and you have certainly bestowed it most unwillingly.

The nerve! Girl, you just missed your meal ticket with a rich, handsome, love-sick pony.

Oh, for those who won't ever go there, he gets her in the end (surprise!).

Apologies in advance for the digression.

Party on.

 

[D_Alex Blaine Layder]

Wow, there are many women that like gay male porn. That's awesome, I like reading it myself. And I also like watching vaginas being penetrated with large things.

 

[wldhoney]

I've been able to watch two guys in real time and found it very sexy. Gay porn is different then hetero in that it is much more sexually animalistic and aggressive. It's as if men feel they don't have to be politically correct as with women and they understand each others bodies, so t hey just go to it. Since I love the male form, it is very, very hot. I should note that I like the more masculine kind, not the boi variety. Well, I take that back. I do have some very naughty pictures of the older/younger, Daddy/boy genre. It's great having gay male friends!

 

[hotone07]

i'm fussy with porn.
rarely find stuff i really dig.
but when i find it, i love it.

Amen to that......I gotta have some kissing, sensual acting, not just bang, bang, bang...LOL

 

[B_Think_Kink]

I've been able to watch two guys in real time and found it very sexy. Gay porn is different then hetero in that it is much more sexually animalistic and aggressive. It's as if men feel they don't have to be politically correct as with women and they understand each others bodies, so t hey just go to it. Since I love the male form, it is very, very hot. I should note that I like the more masculine kind, not the boi variety. Well, I take that back. I do have some very naughty pictures of the older/younger, Daddy/boy genre. It's great having gay male friends!

I couldn't have said it better myself.

 

[vibratingfinger]

I don't watch mainstream porn but if you think the attempts at storyline are meant to make the encounter more realistic you're dead wrong. It's usually an attempt to make it more humorous. Directors know damn well that the story is lame they just get a kick out of it and so do many of the porn watchers. Actually I take that back but no entirely. There is some lesbian porn out there where they do try to make it look realistic and that's just totally garbage. Two girls stare at eachother at the train station, they fall in love and proceed to have the most passionate vanilla sex immediately. Yeah right. Personally I can't stand it either way. I prefer Woody Allen but to each his own I guess.

 

[Yorkie]

I can't masturbate while thinking of real people. I have to make people up in order to get off.

I find this very surprising.I'm always thinking of real people or remembering real situations.I can't remember ever having to invent a fantasy figure to get turned on.

 

[SensualGoth]

Not sure if this is an appropriate thread for this section, just tell me if it's not, but I'm interested to know if many women can actually masturbate to porn as easily as guys seem to be able to?

In my experience, even if they do, I have never known any girl to actually admit to it unless I've been in a serious relationship with them, and have reached the tell-each-other-all-your-darkest-secrets stage :redface:

I love it
I'm more into BDSM like Secretary

 

[wldhoney]

I love it
I'm more into BDSM like Secretary

Yes on the BDSM, but because of the laws you can't find them on DVD. At least not Male Dom/female submissive with actual penetration.

 

[JMeister]

Yes on the BDSM, but because of the laws you can't find them on DVD. At least not Male Dom/female submissive with actual penetration.

But you can find plenty of it on the web, no?

 

[wldhoney]

Yes, you can, but not necissarily with penetration. And I prefer to watch my porn while lying in bed.... hee hee. Unfortunately downloading won't work for me. I am on a one woman crusade against the only high speed/broadband/dsl company available in my area so I still have dial up and it's a b****.

 

[JMeister]

Ah now I get it. Well if you make to the US I can assure you there is plenty of what you are looking for with penetration....and if your porn urges overshadow your crusade I can give you a bunch of sites to download movies until your pussy's content.

 

[wldhoney]

I am in the US and am a member of a couple of main BDSM forum sites. They have some connections thru there. Problem is I am more into B&D, spanking, flogging, control aspects. The S&M can get too extreme for my tastes with the tit stretching, pain, etc. I haven't found a site that delves more into mental and physical domination, so if you have any suggestions that would be great.

 

[Not_Punny]

I've seen hardly any porn! Virgin eyeballs here! (Ultra religious upbringing)

Any recommendations??

 

[DC_DEEP]

I am in the US and am a member of a couple of main BDSM forum sites. They have some connections thru there. Problem is I am more into B&D, spanking, flogging, control aspects. The S&M can get too extreme for my tastes with the tit stretching, pain, etc. I haven't found a site that delves more into mental and physical domination, so if you have any suggestions that would be great.

honey, I have friends who are officers in The Black Rose Society. I'll pass along your "criteria", and see if Danielle has any suggestions.

 

[JMeister]

hotmilf,

Tell what you like to watch. I am sure we'll have recommendations for you.

 

[Not_Punny]

Thanks, JMeister. Hmmmm, good question. I'd hard to say what I LIKE to watch seeing as how I haven't watched very much... I'm usually the one being watched. (Wink, wink, nod, nod) And other than servicing two dicks at one time, I guess you could say I'm pretty tame.

I think I'd like to see some mild B&D. I'd also like to see two girls having sex, but I'm not interested in watching large objects/toys being inserted -- ouch!