Do women respect well endowed men more?

Do women respect well endowed men more?


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Hardballin

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yes more confidence with a large penis.. and comparing boobs to penis size is not relevant.. comparing a tight pussy to penis size is more relevant... and yes i respect women with tighter pussies, more enjoyable. lol whats the topic again?
 

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Respect and admiration have nothing to do with penis size for me. A man gains my respect and admiration because of who he is, not because of what he happened to get in a genetic lottery.
 

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So you started off with the right question about how men evolved such impressive penis sizes, but you assumed that women are the reason why men's penises are so much larger than the penises of other animals, instead of social selection by men.


No I didn't. I didn't start off with a question at all. The original poster started off with a question. Nor did I assume women are the reason for the notably large human phallus. I wrote my hypothesis that both female pleasure and male social competition are the reason. Did you read my post carefully?
 

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Some do, some don't. Blanket statements seldom work in the human condition.

No doubt.

A hunter-gatherer small incher who was better at catching game would thus hold an advantage over the nine inch guy who got left behind on hunts lol.

A range of attributes could combine in many different ways.
A nine-inch guy who was good at catching game might be king of the heap ... but you wouldn't know which attribute brought the crown.


Everyone knows that guys with big dicks are more manly! It's just science! The hunter-gatherers used to hunt according to penis size. The small guys would stay at home and pick berries and make clay pots.

Right. Science will always trump PC nonsense.

If women really did desire large penises that much, this place would be crawling with horny women. The incredible absence of women here is extremely significant.)

^ This (maybe).
Though no doubt some women really do crave the humunga cabunga.
 

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No I didn't. I didn't start off with a question at all. The original poster started off with a question. Nor did I assume women are the reason for the notably large human phallus. I wrote my hypothesis that both female pleasure and male social competition are the reason. Did you read my post carefully?

I didn't mean that you literally posed a question in the beginning, just that your thought process began with the right question... nevermind that goes off on a tangent and it's irrelevant.

You are right, I didn't read it carefully! I skimmed and I am sincerely sorry for that. I would very much be interested in continuing this conversation. And I promise I will read more carefully from now on. :smile:

I personally doubt that Darwinian sexual selection had a lot to do with the size of a man's penis because of how it functions based upon a power inequality in the mate selection process.

As I'm sure you realize, female peacocks are "plain" because they are the ones who choose who gets to mate, forcing the males to compete. The females are the ones who shaped the appearance of the males over time. In peacocks is the females with the power to choose which genes were passed on.

In human evolution, it was reversed. We were heavily influenced by sexual selection, however, the stronger and faster sex got to choose whom they mated with, so it's men who selected women and shaped our evolution, and shaped the evolution of women's bodies, probably not the other way around. It's why men's bodies are so functional, and women's bodies are... more like a peacock. (In general, men are so much more visual when it comes to sex and arousal. A holdover from the privilege of sexual selection? Part of the function of getting to choose the prettiest one?) To get crass about it, rape was how babies were probably made, which takes selection out of the hands of women entirely (except in instances of cuckolding). That lack of female reproductive power continued until very recently, when wives were essentially property. It's the reason why I suspect that social selection was a much stronger influence on the development of man's large penis, and not the sexual preferences of women. Women really weren't "allowed" to have preferences until just recently, first because of our relatively small size, and then after we formed societies, because we didn't have control over whom we were married to.
 
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From my casual observation of the behavior of both men and women here on LPSG and observing the fact that out of nearly 50,000 members, so very few of them are female, it appears that men are still wired to obsess about penis size, and are much more likely to "respect" another man for having a larger penis.

Presumably you are one of the very few female members of this group. What brings you here? and what separates you from the vast majority of women who have no interest in such a corner of the internet?
 

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Presumably you are one of the very few female members of this group. What brings you here? and what separates you from the vast majority of women who have no interest in such a corner of the internet?

I am a member of the Real Women Group and verified as female! :smile:

To make a long story short: I fell head over heals with a man whose cock was too big for me and I was seeking solutions. And I'm an outlier, too. I'm not exactly a traditional woman. :tongue:

I don't claim that there aren't size queens, and I don't think there's anything wrong with being one or seeking sexual satisfaction from men with large penises, but most women really aren't size queens and aren't obsessed with penis size. Women are pretty darned obsessed with sex, but women tend to focus on novel sexual experiences rather than on male genitalia. (I didn't make that up, I just read that a few weeks ago in a psychology magazine. It's backed by evidence.)
 

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Not that you're talking to me, but I would say that's a bingo for most women.

Pick up any Cosmo magazine and it's full of new positions to try out, new toys, a new way to suck his cock...

Please, please participate! I don't see around enough Hhuck!
 
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Pick up any Cosmo magazine and it's full of new positions to try out, new toys, a new way to suck his cock...
Voila.
But also lots of articles that are more about romance.
Or His Aptitude As a Provider.
But not much on Helping Him Grow ...

Please, please participate! I don't see around enough Hhuck!

I been lookin 4 U, doll.
And you were here all along.
Sheesh.
Now, Hhuck has to row up the river to his straw bale and sleep.
 

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Voila.
But also lots of articles that are more about romance.
Or His Aptitude As a Provider.
But not much on Helping Him Grow ...

So true! There are also a lot of articles along the lines of How to Read His Mind So You Know He Feels.

I was very curious recently when I was waiting in line, staring at the cover of a Cosmo magazine. I've never been a reader of that magazine before, but the cover intrigued me and I had to peruse it. I was shocked at how many of the articles were about sex. Honestly, I thought that most of the sexual advice was either absurd or so tame that the innocence was almost charming, but the entire magazine still dripped with sexual longing and the unfulfilled desires of thousands of women.

Men, if you see a woman reading Cosmo, she might be ready for plucking. :tongue:

Also, it might not be a bad idea if men picked it up to see what interests women. (I'm speaking in general and not to you specifically, Hhuck.) Some men might be surprised or learn a trick or two. I once heard about a guy who read romance novels to learn all the good lines and what it is that women wanted. I thought he was a brilliant.

I been lookin 4 U, doll.
And you were here all along.
Sheesh.
Now, Hhuck has to row up the river to his straw bale and sleep.

Sweet dreams!
 
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yes, because women can "hold" it against them in a fight or in a break up to get back at them and spread nasty rumors. so, this means they disrespect men with small penis. easy.

You're missing the rather obvious there. For many men an insult to the cock (or the skill in using the cock) will be a direct hit. Men, it seems, are very prone to being concerned, sometimes to the point of paranoia, about their sexual ability and, as 3million and 7 threads here will attest, many of them tie that into the size of their cocks.

If a woman wants to score points against a man a very easy route is to say 'you have a small cock and you're a lousy fuck' - 9 times in 10 that'll land a hit. It's not that the woman herself means it or even sets much store by the comments, she just knows it will hurt.

If it were as you suggest, Hardballin, then women would only say it about and to men with small cocks - that isn't the case, women will say it about and to men with average and above average cocks too. It's not about dissing the little cocks, it's about exploiting the chink in the armour.
 

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MB, I'm glad to you explained that so well. I attempted to say what you said, but it didn't come out nearly as eloquent or coherent and I gave up.
 
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MB, I'm glad to you explained that so well. I attempted to say what you said, but it didn't come out nearly as eloquent or coherent and I gave up.


You have to emtpy your PM-inbox if you want me to answer your PM.

OnT: I think it would be interesting if there would be a thread called "does women have less respect toward small dicked guys".

As a guy, I can't see a small dicked guy as powerful. Sure, he may have my respect but I could never "look up" to him.
 

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The conjecture about natural selection is stupid- only 1% of cocks are 8" or more- that says that cocks that size are NOT being selected by the majority of women. In fact it appears that the average 6" cock has won the Darwinian challenge by a landslide! Chew on that!
 

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yes more confidence with a large penis.. and comparing boobs to penis size is not relevant..

Boobs and penis size are direct corollaries on this site. Everything that can be extrapolated about social perceptions tied to one can be equally said about the other.
 
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What a stupid stupid stupid question!!! Respect as far as I am concerened is earned!!! And certainly not by the way people are physically. People who say yes are very shallow!
 

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What a stupid stupid stupid question!!! Respect as far as I am concerened is earned!!! And certainly not by the way people are physically. People who say yes are very shallow!

I think most people agree it's silly, but various permutations of this repeat on this forum. I'm starting to think the site should be named Large Penis Ego Support Group- or maybe I'm just finally catching on.