Do women watch the same porn as men?

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  1. jdoe86

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    Ok.. this is real simple. Do women watch the same type of porn as men? I know women look at porn on the internet (studies have show that women accessing porn on the net is on the rise). But what type of porn do you like? Do you like "couples"? Do you like "SM"? Do you like "compulations"? My current girlfriend watches porn with me and she likes most of it, but doesn't like the "girls gone wild" type because she thinks that is degrading. I have an ex who was really into male gay porn. I also have another ex who was seriously into SM and degrading stuff like "Max Hardcore". So, what do you like? What don't you like?
     
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    wvalady1968: I like watching couples....
    but mostly I love watching men....
    oh, and checking out the "Rate My...." sites...
    Never saw one I didn't like.

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    LoveGirl: I watch porn that isn't really porn but it has porn in it, and that my sweetums has watched, liked, and wanted to share with me.
     
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    I only like to watch MM porn, but MMMMM is even better, how can you get too much of a good thing?
     
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    a friend of mine only watchs MM porn...she wasn't really interesting in the boy girl or girl girl porn.
     
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    I watch and enjoy main stream porn. I also enjoy porn created by wowen especially for women, but sometimes it's not rough or graphic enough. I was surpised how exciting I find gay porn, but i know why: ALL the guys are hot and hung and it's always hard, hot and rough. Too many ugly and average guys in mainstream porn.

    I'm usually in the mood for rough and hard sex, and I fantasize about being apart of it :wub:
     
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    Autumn, you are right about the appeal of mainstream porn to women. The first sseveral times I saw str8 porn I was not aroused at all I thought maybe I was just prudish or something (yeah, right), but the truth of the matter was that the men in the film were just not very attractive OR well hung!! Like they just got some guy out of a bar and said "strip". Then they'd bring in 5 beautiful women for him to fuck, which has always pissed me off, and my b/f at the time couldn't understand why I wasn't enjoying it as much as he was!! I have a real problem with men not being held to the same standards as women anyway. In our society we regularly portray actors like Gene Hackman as leading men (lets' face it, good actor, not an attractive guy) hooking up with beautiful women as if it believable! On nypd blue, we have Dennis Frantz having one pretty love interest after another- bullshit! Well I didn't mean to go on an rant, but that's the main problem with str8 porn, ugly guys and smallish cocks. The other problem is that I'm something of a chore to satisfy, so the thought of another woman getting any part of the available cock in the room pisses me off! I'm thinking of reasons to stab her and get her out of the way instead of sharing in her joy at getting laid.
     
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    BRMSTN69: Autumn, You keep talking like that and your going to have all kinds of guys here clicking on your mailbox (especically if they see that cute pic on your yahoo profile)

    Madame, As for the lower quality of men in str8 porn, I think they do it just to make you think any LOOSER can get babes like this about the only good lookings I've seen in str8 porn are in the Shanes World series and some of those guys are well hung to boot.

    P.S. Madame with that jelous streak no orgies for you!!! (maybe a gang-bang but hide the sharp objects) LOL
     
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    Madame Z. Darlin',

    I loved the rant! It makes me feel right at home! LOL! It does account for the "I may be ok, but you better be pretty d... near perfect" mentality that many of us seem to see on a regular basis.It is unfortunate, because it probably creates incredibly unrealistic expectations for some of the guys out here. News flash! We have eyes and preferences too! As for the topic at hand, I know what kind i would like to see.... LOL! The kind that has some hunky man being driven to insanity with pure pleasure! Invision your own way of doing it! LOL!


    Naughty
     
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    interesting....

    i read in the newspaper about a month of two ago that porn is now gearing toward gay men because they are said to purchase a lot more porn then straight men (MF porn not just MM). So the porn industry now looks more in too males then females now.

    The last porn flicks i saw.... the males were built and look good while the females were basically young normal girls that were padded with pounds of make up to make them seem like super star models. this reminds when i saw a documentary about a female porn star on TV 2 years ago (i have no idea what her name is) but she looks like a totally different person without make up.
     
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    I've never watched any gay porn.

    I've had gfs that were just not interested in str8 porn at all and others that got off on watching it. Of those that enjoyed it, they were enthusiastic about it. Porn often served to spice up an evening that might otherwise have been a bit dull. Its just my perception, but I think there are more women that enjoy porn than there are women who admit to enjoying porn.

    SG
     
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    yea i agree i can only watch porn now if i am trying to spice it up with a girlfriend...but watching it alone is very boring
     
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    Watching it with someone is much more fun than alone anyday.. :D
     
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    Not if she's yawning it isn't! :huh:
     
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    I used to wonder if the men in str8 porn were intentionally not "knockouts" so the str8 man renting them would feel good about himself. I think that might be part of it. No one gives a shit how women feel, so we just have to suck it up. In gay porn, the guys are appealing to other GUYS, (still male) so they are positivley delicious!
    Also, as autumn said eariler, sex is harder, more exciting, more varied, more, more, more!
     
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    Cara:
    Zora,

    Do you know where I can find this porn, and the ones that are your favorites? I think I'd like to check it out for the hell of it. Thanks!
     
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    I am intrested in this porn for women by women deal. I would assume its more relationship/storyline driven, and I believe that is what my girl wants to watch. Because I am not really a porn guru, I am not certain where I could find such titles. Do you have any particular favorites/titles that we could look at in this genre?

    Ken
     
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    The truth behind why most guys in straight porn are anything but extraordinary:

    NOT MANY GUYS WANT TO DO PORN!

    I honestly did gay porn for a short time (even though I'm straight). I did what they call "solo" work"--jack off videos for a major L.A. production company. I did not see it as gay on my part, because there were no other men involved, but this is obviously who the films are designed for.

    But just because a guy is hung, doesn't mean he wants to be in the smut business.
    This is the reason I quit after making just a handful (excuse the pun) of videos.

    Generally, guys in porn do have larger-than-average cocks, but this is simply because guys with average-to-small dicks don't have the confidence to be filmed...it's not necessarily orchestrated by the production companies.

    The other thing to remember is that most guys in general are not hung...if they were, then the word "hung" would have no meaning.

    Porn is for men--period. Gay porn is for gay men and straight porn is for straight men. Gay porn will generally try to use actors who are hung because this is what the audience (gay men) wants to see. Likewise, straight porn will have women with large breasts and nice bodies, because this is what the audience (straight men) wants to see. Therefore, penis-size is naturally not an important consideration in straight porn--most straight guys don't give a sh**. If you want further evidence of this, just consider the demographic of this very website. Most of the members are gay men and just a handful are women and, like me, straight guys. Many gay men will come to this website to see and talk about large organs, whereas the straight men come to this site because they personally have a large organ, and women come to the site because their bf/lover/etc. has a large organ, or they are curious about large organs.

    And for the record, most of the girls I know who watch hardcore porn do so to make size comparisons with real-life lovers/boyfriends. It's out of curiosity and education, more than eroticism.

    Having said all of this, I think it's hot when a woman actually does like porn. I also think it's hot for a woman to watch gay porn because of a size fetish. I always encourage women to be size-queens...the more size-queens, the better my odds!

    Madame Zora: Try watching jack-off videos. They feature huge cocks being jacked-off by the proud owner. Since you're a size-queen, I think you'd appreciate the emphasis on magnitude and all-around penis "worship"
     
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    Truer words have never been spoken!! I LOVE jack off videos!!!!!!! Nothing better than seeing a big piece of meat being stroked off by a proud owner and shooting a big load, Whew! I have to go now.....

    Size queens of LPSG unite!
     
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