Do you accept BJs from guys you aren’t that into?

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Curious do you guys accept BJs from dudes you aren’t that attracted too… isa bj a bj and you take it no matter who?

I was out freeballing at the store today and was got cruised by 2 different guys working at the store. Neither guy was u attractive but just not my type I’d go after. Though often when I freeball i don’t care who checks me out as the act itself is a turn on. And this guy was checking me out so much that I started to get aggressively hard and had to hurry up and check out, lol. Well the dude me as I walked out and whispered if I wanted a bj and I said not today but maybe another time.

Walked out to my car, still very much obviously hard too lol.
And second guy sees me walked up to me and whispered hey you know you are hard, I laugh and say I am and he offered some car play. I was so horny but needed to get out the heat and get my food home so I declined again.

But my initial hesitation on both guys was I wasn’t that attracted to them but now I’m sitting here thinking damn I could have gotten a blowjob no questions asks I should have accepted one of them.

Thoughts?
 
I'm not really attracted to anyone so for me sex is sex and someone who finds me interesting enough to ask to give me a blow job I'm good with it. I am married so it only comes from my husband but still the same. I seek to please and be pleased.
 
I’m the same way, there have been times I’ve fucked dudes who I wasn’t into. I had a bit of regret and I felt bad cause I wasn’t going to fuck them again.

The amount of times I’ve been super horny on grindr and denied people is too much.

If I want sex, I want to be enthusiastic and turned on so I can enjoy it. If they are not attractive, it’s a chore and just motions. I have had times where I can’t finish because I’m not attracted.
 
Guys, if you want to have an orgasm and you're felling super horny of course if a strangers says he'll give you a blow job you'll say yes.
Its the same in a cruising area, sometimes you see a cock and just have to get fucked by it regardless, after all its just sex, likewise a firm pert ass demands to be serviced, ask names after (though that's very rare).
Sometimes you get a pleasant surprise from a stranger and the stranger is a stranger no more, but hey, that's the way the cookie crumbles. Sex is sex and if I want to shoot my load I don't get picky.
 
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It’s just sex.. I could care less how he looks or his size or whatever .. it’s his cock I am after not the fact of whether he looks like Freddy Krueger or Channing Tatum
 
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When someone I find attractive wants to have sex with me, it's a turn-on (obviously) because I'm getting the things I prefer in a sexual partner. And when someone I don't find particularly attractive wants to have sex with me, it's usually still a turn-on because it reminds me that people find me attractive. So I've let the odd guy suck my dick because it felt good and it made me feel good about myself.
 
There was this fellow husky guy.. probably 260 to 280 .. we were talking one night at a bar and he said he’s never sucked a cock .so we went out to parking lot.. I parked all the way in back tailgate facing toward the alley .. so whoever was with can sit and I’d suck them off and even got fucked in back of it..

Those shocks must been good shocks hehe

I lowered the tailgate leaned against it as I pulled my cock out and he kneeled down didn’t waste any time sucking it.. I may been first cock sucked but he had sucked on dildos so apparently teaching himself in the process .. ..

I had worked my pants and underwear down to my knees where he can suck on my balls if wanted to.. I went to cum and he kept on sucking and he stopped as I was cumming and then swallowed it.. I was surprised he swallowed it .. but he says he was prepared to spit it out if didn’t like the taste of it ..


He said thanks and I was like oh no thank you..
 
I use to know a guy who would give me handjobs when I was younger. I wasn’t really attracted to him but I was a horny testosterone filled teenager and he was easy to just have him come over and jerk me off and “worship” my cock although I was unsure of what that was even called at the time.
 
I did for a while - if a guy showed interest and I was horny, i'd be up for bj's or sex. I've had sex with a few guys i'm not attracted to - I just really wanted some sex and he offered his cock haha. Unless you're in a committed relationship, it's literally just sex - it's like a pleasure transaction I guess.
 
Being “not that into” and “turned off by” are different. If I’m in a bathhouse or cruising area and a guy that I’m not that into wants a taste, I usually let him have a go. I love the camaraderie of casual sex so I find it best to be open to many guys and I have a different standard than in a one-on-one situation. Of course, if I find a guy unattractive I say no.