Do you accept not being kissed?

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  1. Gecko4lif

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    If you about to hook up with a dude do you accept him not kissing you on the mouth?
     
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    never had that happen...but i suppose depending on my mood i would be kind of pissed...but it's different for guys and girls...would be interested to hear what a gay guy would think but i think i would take it kind of personally...
     
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    I wouldn't. I mean there are tons of reasons why someone might not want to kiss on the mouth (phobias, a stipulation of an open relationship they are in, being an asshole, etc) but I wouldn't just let it go.
    For me it's like: "If we're going to do everything else,...why not?" That and it feels amazingly impersonal. But then again that's coming from a person who hates to hook up in the first place.
     
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    yeah honestly wouldn't kissing be less intimate than all other things being considered while hooking up? i mean plenty of people consider hooking up only to be making out...
     
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    I think if its a casual hookup a lot of people might not want to kiss because of the risk of STD's.
    I personally have a love of kissing and find it to be very sexy and stimulating.

    I would be upset if I expected to kiss a particular person and they turned away without good grounds for refusing me.
     
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    I did once. I won't again.
     
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    I don't kiss guys. Girls a must, but guys not interested. May sound funny, but I'll suck your dick, but I don't want to kiss you. One is sex, the other intimacy.
     
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    I love kissing so any guy I was with knew that up front...so no kiss, no date.
     
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    Have noticed that I can watch my partners fuck and suck another guy with no jealousy, but too-intense kissing really rings my alarms. Likewise, for me fucking and sucking another guy is all good fellowship but deep kissing seems like a zone that I want to reserve for my LTR. Not claiming this is rational, but those are the feelings.
     
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    Well, I don't mind not kissing a guy when he is JUST a hookup. If I like him overtime, I would hope that the non-kissing policy gets overruled. (I don't kiss a guy with a fucked up mouth or bad dental hygiene, though.)
     
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    Nice mix of answers im getting.
     
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    I'll let you know when I meet someone who won't kiss..
     
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    This may sound strange to most of you. Back in my single days, when I hooked up with a guy, I would not kiss him in the mouth. For me that is the most personal form of affection. I would let him do anything else. Except for kissing me....:smile:
     
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    I enjoy kissing and necking and always feel justly unsatisfied when isn't it's not part of the encounter. What? I'm not good enough for you to kiss? BUT...

    If ya have bad breath, a chain smoker, have canker sores, or rotten teeth then no I won't kiss ya with any kind of pleasure or gusto.
     
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    i dont like kissing i feel its a little too personal
     
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    nope, but i've never been with a guy who was like that
    i enjoy making out so if i was with a guy who wouldn't kiss me then he would need to put his dick back in his pants and find the nearest exit
     
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    no. big turn off.

    you will suck my cock/ass/whatever but no kiss?

    have actually stopped playing a few times and sent them packing...
    kissing another man does not make you 'gay'
     
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    I think kissing would be more intimate because while the main attraction for the guy is getting off via pussy; kissing shows he is in for more than a quick nut. Just my take on things.
     
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